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To ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that met or exceeded expectations?

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VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:33

AIBU to ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that have genuinely lived up to expectations and have gone beyond them?

For me, it was seeing Leonardo da Vinci’s Last Supper in person in Milan. I’m not particularly emotional, particularly about art, but it was genuinely moving to see the real thing. Visitor numbers were restricted, meaning you actually got a good look and there were no distractions. The setting, in a darkened room in an old convent, really helped too. It felt really intimate and special.

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Grammarnut · 05/09/2025 09:56

Lemonyfuckit · 04/09/2025 23:39

Sticking with the Italian theme, for me it was Venice. We expected super crowded, very expensive, too touristy. To be fair we were quite deliberate in our choices - stayed on Murano rather than San Marco (and every evening after tourists departed back to San Marco, Murano became beautifully peaceful), mainly stuck to back streets on San Marco rather than the tourist hot spots, and also spent a day riding the vaporetto between islands. Thought it was breathtakingly beautiful and an awesome feat to build this stunning city out of marshland. And by avoiding the tourist hot spots - literally by only a street or two, didn’t find it too hectic or crowded, found plenty of delicious and reasonably priced places to eat and drink.

DD and I found the Goldoni museum quite by accident wandering the back streets (it's in the vicinity of Santa Maria Maggiori) and found it a gem. Strange and curious.
But we also loved St Marco and went to the basilica twice, going into the museum on the second visit. Awestruck by the bronze horses 2k years old - though not sure why Turkey isn't demanding them back as they were looted. Not that I think Turkey should have them btw.

TangledBedHair2day · 05/09/2025 09:55

Baan Dam museum Thailand

Da Nang night market near dragon Bridge Vietnam

Marakesh market at night

Tulemben Liberty ship scuba diving Bali

Chaing Mai water festival Thailand

Drift scuba diving along enormous coral walls in warm seas

Northern lights

Scottish landscapes & weather

Glow worm caves New Zealand & Hells Gate geyser site

Tinguley museum

Egypt historic sites

Too many to mention !

thesecondmrsdewinter20 · 05/09/2025 09:51

Ellis Island, NYC.

theresnolimits · 05/09/2025 09:50

Ankor Wat in Cambodia. Just the sheer scale and the fact that it was covered for so long and just a play space for local kids.

TheQuirkyMaker · 05/09/2025 09:50

VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:47

A common denominator seems to be places when they’re quieter with fewer tourists (either because of the timing or because numbers are restricted).

I’d always been fascinated by Westminster Abbey but when I visited it was ruined by just too many other people - and I went at a quieter time of day!

I can’t complain obviously, I was visiting too, but the best experiences I’ve had have been in places that were emptier.

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Quite. I visited Stonehenge in 1975 and was able to wander amongst the stones. There were only two other people there.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 05/09/2025 09:48

JSMill · 05/09/2025 09:41

The Spinx is in Cairo?

There's definitely Avenue of the Sphinx in Luxor it connects Luxor Temple with Karnak if I recall correctly. it's 20 years since I went so might 3my temples mixed up!

WorldWideWords · 05/09/2025 09:48

WonsWoo · 05/09/2025 00:43

I’m desperate to see Guernica in real life. I just studied it as part of my OU course and I found it so fascinating.

I came to say Picasso's Guernica. Very moving.

CagerUmbonate · 05/09/2025 09:47

Silverbirchleaf · 05/09/2025 06:59

What’s your favourite cathedral?

Durham, I think it will always be my favourite for sentimental reasons. Wells was probably actually more impressive.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 05/09/2025 09:46

Audiwannabe · 05/09/2025 09:39

Go on your own, honestly I promise it's worth it, book online to skip the biggest queue and there's a lovely old pub b&b within 20 minutes walk that's almost like staying at Beamish itself, you really need 2 days to see it all properly - and you get to use your ticket for a year afterwards for free entry too!

Thanks I might just do that ☺️

PistachioTiramisu · 05/09/2025 09:45

The Chateau de Chenonceau in the Loire Valley, France. I've been many times and it never fails too impress me - so beautiful.

Chartres Cathedral - stunning stained glass windows.

The Peak in Hong Kong - just an amazing landscape.

InveterateWineDrinker · 05/09/2025 09:45

Luton Airport. I went with extremely low expectations and was pleasantly surprised by the experience.

More seriously, Christ the Redeemer and Sugar Loaf Mountain in Rio de Janeiro were far less tacky and touristy than I feared. The Forbidden City in Beijing was so vast and peaceful the contrast with the rest of Beijing was incredible. And for sheer awe, Victoria Falls never disappoints.

Poppercorn · 05/09/2025 09:43

Florence - every turn in the city was met by a beautiful building. And Michelangelo's David statue in the L'academia gallery.

JSMill · 05/09/2025 09:41

toooldforbrat · 04/09/2025 23:45

About 30 years ago - the avenue of the Sphinx in Luxor at night - no-one else around and each sphinx beautifully lit in the dark .

The Spinx is in Cairo?

Audiwannabe · 05/09/2025 09:39

EnglishGirlApproximately · 05/09/2025 09:35

I really want to go to Beamish but none of my family are bothered!

Go on your own, honestly I promise it's worth it, book online to skip the biggest queue and there's a lovely old pub b&b within 20 minutes walk that's almost like staying at Beamish itself, you really need 2 days to see it all properly - and you get to use your ticket for a year afterwards for free entry too!

MissAmbrosia · 05/09/2025 09:37

All the Gaudi buildings in Barcelona
The Alhambra on a beautiful spring day
Vatican and St Peters are jaw-dropping. Sistine Chapel was disappointing.
Krakow Salt Mines - have to be seen to be believed.
The Castello in Ischia (nun's graveyard notwithstanding) - gorgeous views
Greco-Roman theatre in Taormina, Sicily - would love to see a show there.
The bat caves in Austin, Texas.
Old town Havana - Unesco listed. Crumbling but beautiful - would like to go back. Also Club Tropicana.
The Cinque Terre villages (before they got overrun with cruise ship tours)
Herculaneum - amazing how so much is well preserved - I preferred it to Pompeii in this respect.
Fishermen's Bastion in Budapest.
Old Town Square in Prague - and the Charles Bridge. Most of Prague in fact - though it's mega busy these days.
Matera is on my bucket list.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 05/09/2025 09:35

Audiwannabe · 05/09/2025 09:27

My recommendations feel a bit tame compared to some of these!

But I have visited Eden Camp and Beamish this year and found both amazing! Busy because it was summer time but it didn't really detract from the experiences because there's so much to see and do at both and I really enjoyed both.

Off to window shop on the internet at some of the amazing places mentioned here!

I really want to go to Beamish but none of my family are bothered!

EnglishGirlApproximately · 05/09/2025 09:34

Another vote for the Taj Mahal, we arrived at 6 am.so it was peaceful and we were able to look around properly and take some stunning photos. By the time we left mid morning it was absolutely heaving and people queuing for photos on the famous bench etc.
I also loved Table Mountain and everything else in Cape Town, truly magical.

trawlerwoman · 05/09/2025 09:33

All of Rome! We went 'off season' so it was relatively quiet and easier to walk around than if it had been in the middle of the summer heat. Everyone was friendly, and we stayed about a 20 minute walk outside of the centre so food and accommodation was pretty cheap.
Also maybe not a super famous one, but Drachs Caves in Majorca were amazing. I don't really like caves or the dark and get a bit claustrophobic so I was a little apprehensive (lol) but actually it was amazing! Again, went off season so it was fairly quiet.

Imisscoffee2021 · 05/09/2025 09:30

Sistine Chapel (didn't scream though), Palatine Hill, Machu Picchu (after climbing Huayna Picchu to look down on the ruins) just unreal, Ephesus (went as a moody teen and just loved it)

Audiwannabe · 05/09/2025 09:27

My recommendations feel a bit tame compared to some of these!

But I have visited Eden Camp and Beamish this year and found both amazing! Busy because it was summer time but it didn't really detract from the experiences because there's so much to see and do at both and I really enjoyed both.

Off to window shop on the internet at some of the amazing places mentioned here!

Hoppinggreen · 05/09/2025 09:27

Cadiz Cathedral, been to lots of Cathedrals and Im not usually a huge fan but there was just something about it.
Also Picassos Guernica, I have seen it twice and was blown away each time

Definitelysometime · 05/09/2025 09:27

Also in the vein of places you can no longer go, Leptis Magna in Libya was absolutely incredible. Vast Roman sites and absolutely no one there

Definitelysometime · 05/09/2025 09:26

Petra and the Great Wall of china both absolutely blew my mind. The beauty and sheer scale of them is incredible

dairydebris · 05/09/2025 09:25

LandSharksAnonymous · 05/09/2025 09:21

The Old City of Sana'a (Yemen) was incredible when DH and I visited about 22 years ago. Babylon (Iraq) was also amazing as was Persepolis (Iran). The Winter Palace (Russia) was beautiful, but not quite as awe-inspiring.

Obviously you can't go to any of them anymore, but it was incredible.

Ahhhhh I've always wanted to go to Sana'a! It looks like nowhere else 😭

FizzingAda · 05/09/2025 09:24

Lascaux cave in France (I know it's the replica, but so perfectly done). Awe inspiring, like walking into a cathedral. Have been twice. Also some of the other sites in .france with prehistoric cave paintings.