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To ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that met or exceeded expectations?

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VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:33

AIBU to ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that have genuinely lived up to expectations and have gone beyond them?

For me, it was seeing Leonardo da Vinci’s Last Supper in person in Milan. I’m not particularly emotional, particularly about art, but it was genuinely moving to see the real thing. Visitor numbers were restricted, meaning you actually got a good look and there were no distractions. The setting, in a darkened room in an old convent, really helped too. It felt really intimate and special.

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gbpaln · 05/09/2025 10:18

The Daereungwon Tomb Complex in Gyeongju, South Korea. Absolutely stunning, trees reminded me of Sycamore Gap. Green, clean, beautiful and quiet.

WinterRoad · 05/09/2025 10:18

The Forbidden City in Beijing is absolutely breathtaking in its sheer size and history.
I also loved the walled city of Pingyao in China.

hevs03 · 05/09/2025 10:17

Not a far flung exotic location but for me I was blown away by The Royal Society in London. Went there through work and whilst I am not scientifically minded at all, I was blown away by the interior and the history of it, knowing that some of the UK's greatest minds were in those rooms and what they achieved.

toooldforbrat · 05/09/2025 10:16

JSMill · 05/09/2025 10:12

Thank you. I used to live in Cairo but never made it to Luxor or Aswan!!

That's such a shame - I loved Luxor - though it was nearly 30 years ago I visited!

RollingDeep · 05/09/2025 10:16

Agree, the salt mines in Krakow were more amazing than I imagined. We’d like to go back one day with the DCs. I think they would love it.

I loved Top Of The Rock, NYC. We went up late afternoon in the winter, it was really clear and the sun was starting to set, not many people up there, the city lights twinkling, the colours of the sky, the views, I felt in awe tbh. Most things in NY had me starstruck though. I loved Brooklyn Bridge too and the views from Dumbo at night were magic.

Many places in Vancouver. The Capilano suspension bridge and Grouse mountain - wow!

Starlight1984 · 05/09/2025 10:16

NegroniMacaroni · 05/09/2025 07:14

The view of Matera's old town. When we first drove up to Matera it looked like a totally normal boring modernish town, and then we walked through the door of the house we were staying at and this absolutely incredible view just unfurled in front of us. I was not ready for it.

Walking through Kyoto at night, catching passing glimpses of geishas through warmly lit restaurant windows.

Oh gosh yes I forgot about Matera - stunning 😍

As a side note, is anyone else googling all of the places they've not heard of / been to and adding them to a bucket list?? Or just me?! 😂

Okbyethen · 05/09/2025 10:13

Grand Canyon and the Colosseum

JSMill · 05/09/2025 10:12

toooldforbrat · 05/09/2025 10:03

Avenue of the Sphinx is different from the Sphinx that is Cairo.

Avenue of Sphinxes - Wikipedia

Thank you. I used to live in Cairo but never made it to Luxor or Aswan!!

Hillarious · 05/09/2025 10:10

Pembroke Castle!

IcedPurple · 05/09/2025 10:09

The Pantheon in Rome. Absolutely perfect piece of architecture. You used to be able to walk in and out for free but they've now started charging a fiver for entrance. Well worth it, but the real beauty of the building is sitting in the piazza outside and watching how it changes with the light.

Fiftyand · 05/09/2025 10:08

VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:47

A common denominator seems to be places when they’re quieter with fewer tourists (either because of the timing or because numbers are restricted).

I’d always been fascinated by Westminster Abbey but when I visited it was ruined by just too many other people - and I went at a quieter time of day!

I can’t complain obviously, I was visiting too, but the best experiences I’ve had have been in places that were emptier.

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Petra and Wadi Rum in Jordan were incredible places to visit. In fact all of Jordan was amazing and because of the Israel/Gaza situation there were very few tourists. The people were so pleased to see us and we were upgraded nearly everywhere we went because of so few tourists. I felt sorry for the Jordanians being stuck in the middle of the conflict.

Foolsgold74 · 05/09/2025 10:08

Rome was out of this world but I went at the wrong time of year for me and was way too hot to fully enjoy it.
Glencoe in Scotland is astonishing and literally a must-see.
Edinburgh is the best city on earth.
I loved seeing the Mona Lisa. The buzz around it and entering the room where it's displayed was electric.
Chatsworth House is an incredible stately home.

BusMumsHoliday · 05/09/2025 10:08

Poppercorn · 05/09/2025 09:43

Florence - every turn in the city was met by a beautiful building. And Michelangelo's David statue in the L'academia gallery.

Came here to say Florence. I think about it all the time. David is breathtaking but my personal highlight was Boticelli's The Birth of Venus and Spring in the Uffizi. They just glow in a way that I can't even describe. We went really early in the morning, when it's less crowded.

Tintern Abbey is just beautiful, for one in the UK. It's so vast, and because its a ruin, the silhouette of the building against the sky is majestic.

We went to Japan and spent a night near Mount Fuji; it had been cloudy the day before and we couldn't see it, but I woke early and looked out the window and it was just there in the morning sunlight. Breathtaking.

This was a lovely thread! So much I want to see now.

Starlight1984 · 05/09/2025 10:07

Manhattan - I almost cried as our taxi (yellow, obviously!) from JFK emerged from the other end of the tunnel and I could see the NY skyline ahead of me. All my years of watching American romcoms came to life!

Glencoe - like being in another world.

Milford and Doubtful Sounds - New Zealand. Just unreal.

Great Barrier Reef.

Ones I haven't visited but would love to - Taj Mahal, The Alhambra, Auschwitz and the Salt Mines.

Theroomwhereithappens · 05/09/2025 10:04

The Grand Canyon was even more spectacular than I imagined. Spent the money to fly down into it and take a boat down the Colorado and it was worth every penny.

toooldforbrat · 05/09/2025 10:03

JSMill · 05/09/2025 09:41

The Spinx is in Cairo?

Avenue of the Sphinx is different from the Sphinx that is Cairo.

Avenue of Sphinxes - Wikipedia

Avenue of Sphinxes - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avenue_of_Sphinxes

user2848502016 · 05/09/2025 10:02

The Alhambra in Granada - such a beautiful place

Cakeandusername · 05/09/2025 10:02

St Patrick’s Cathedral New York
Taj Mahal
Both were busy but there was a serene atmosphere.

TangledBedHair2day · 05/09/2025 10:00

Blist Hill Victorian museum near Iron Bridge
Huge site
Lots to see & do

LadyRoughDiamond · 05/09/2025 10:00

Definitely Venice - exceeded any images I’d seen - so much so that we’re taking our kids back there this October after 20 years.

Katiesaidthat · 05/09/2025 10:00

Velazquez´s room in the Prado Museum, there used to be a bench in front of Las Meninas, I sat there for ages looking at the painting, it seems you can walk up some steps and walk into it.
Burgos cathedral and Seville Cathedral
My first glimpse of the Parthenon in 1991, when you could buy a ticket after standing in a queue of 3 and walk up, just to spend some time on an idle afternoon.
Cape Sounion and it´s temple at sunset, also in the early 90s, you could roam about freely.
Toledo, Granada and Caceres´s old towns.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 05/09/2025 09:59

CagerUmbonate · 05/09/2025 09:47

Durham, I think it will always be my favourite for sentimental reasons. Wells was probably actually more impressive.

Wells Cathedral is spectacular

TangledBedHair2day · 05/09/2025 09:57

I saw Guernica for the first time this year.
The painting is still relevant today & bigger than I imagined.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 05/09/2025 09:57

I always think cathedrals and churches are the most awe inspiring paces to visit. There’s so much of our history and culture in them. You can feel the spirits of all the people, all the events they have witnessed.

The one which took my breath away recently was in Santiago de compostela. All the gold - I can only imagine how it has impacted pilgrims over the centuries arriving there after their long journeys

Stunning!!!

Slightyamusedandsilly · 05/09/2025 09:56

The Alhambra in Granada and La Sagrada Familia in Barcelona. As well as Park Guell. All stunning.