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To ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that met or exceeded expectations?

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VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:33

AIBU to ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that have genuinely lived up to expectations and have gone beyond them?

For me, it was seeing Leonardo da Vinci’s Last Supper in person in Milan. I’m not particularly emotional, particularly about art, but it was genuinely moving to see the real thing. Visitor numbers were restricted, meaning you actually got a good look and there were no distractions. The setting, in a darkened room in an old convent, really helped too. It felt really intimate and special.

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Clearinguptheclutter · 05/09/2025 11:27

oh another one which I don't think has been mentioned.
The monoliths at Carnac. So mysterious. Taking the kids next year.

Clearinguptheclutter · 05/09/2025 11:26

St Peter's Basilica, Rome.
Though I went a few years prior and wasn't that fussed at all.
For those saying it's important to go up the dome I totally hated that because the route up was so claustrophopic and at an angle. That was a very long time ago thuough it might have changed

On a more natural theme, Isle of Skye. Mind blowingly beautiful, Iv'e been all around the world but it totally stands out

On a rather different theme, I found Auschwitz profoundly moving, as well as Pompeii.

Hoardasauruskaren · 05/09/2025 11:22

MsVisual · 04/09/2025 23:53

A common denominator seems to be places when they’re quieter

Absolutely. Have been to Vatican twice. First time middle of the day, rammed, super hot, hated it. Second time did a tour at 7am, wow. The Sistene Chapel truly is a wonder of the modern world.

We went to Rome in late January & the Vatican was absolutely amazing! The Sistine Chapel, just awe inspiring. Wasn’t empty but definitely not busy. The Coloseum & Roman Forum were also fabulous! Definitely worth going at a quieter time of year.

Letshavetea1 · 05/09/2025 11:21

Another vote for Venice. Go for a minimum of. a week. Stay in Dorsoduro. Absolutely amazing and next year is the Art Biennale.

MrsAvocet · 05/09/2025 11:18

I think sometimes it's places that you stumble upon almost unintentionally that are the most surprising. A few years ago DS had a sports camp in Leeds and DH and I went for a drive after we'd dropped him off and spotted a brown sign for Saltaire. I'd vaguely heard of it so decided to take a look and we absolutely loved it. We discovered Hartlepool Maritime Museum under similar circumstances and had a very good day out there too.
I've visited quite a lot of world famous places and yes, been really impressed by many, but some of my best days out have been to less well known places that we've stopped at to break a long journey or just seen signs for and decided to go and investigate.

LancashireButterPie · 05/09/2025 11:17

CagerUmbonate · 04/09/2025 23:50

Wells Cathedral - absolutely stunning, it’s now my second favourite cathedral.

I love Venice too, I avoided the tourists and heat by going out at 4am and in the evenings then sleeping in the hotel during the busiest hours. Even in San Marco most tourists are gone by 6pm

I’ve never seen the Last Supper but it’s on my bucket list

What's your fav cathedral?

BananaWoman999 · 05/09/2025 11:12

Gingerbreadloony · 05/09/2025 00:45

Mozart’s house in Salzburg. We went in November so it wasn’t busy and we could wander round freely. I was in tears standing in front of his actual piano where he composed. Salzburg generally was beautiful. Lovely people, lovely sites, good food.

Agree. Salzburg is stunning.

We went on a trip to the lakes (Wolgangsee) in January. Everything was covered in sparkling snow and the lakes were frozen over. It looked like something from a fairytale! So so beautiful.

For me, Petra in Jordan was incredible.

And snorkeling near Boracay in Philippines. Like scenes from the little mermaid!

Alondra · 05/09/2025 11:08

Ha Long Bay (Vietnam). We took a 2 day cruise which was very expensive compared to what we paid for a 2 weeks holiday trip, but boy, it was worth it. It was incredible to see some of the islets and natural beauty of the place. It's beyond magnificent.

While Ha Long Bay will always be a special memory, the whole Vietnam trip was fabulous.

weareallcats · 05/09/2025 11:03

Alcatraz.

Yosemite.

Notre Dame (bells were ringing as I was waiting to go in, really atmospheric, did not however enjoy the Louve).

Starry Night (quiet and actually got to look at it).

Table Mountain and a beach near Cape Town where there are penguins.

Biggest let down for me was the bamboo ‘forest’ in Kyoto - it’s very small and full of people taking selfies. Was also really disappointed by the Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam - really anxious staff hovering around constantly and The Night Watch was miles away and behind a screen that reflected the light back at you.

Swiftie1878 · 05/09/2025 11:00

VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:47

A common denominator seems to be places when they’re quieter with fewer tourists (either because of the timing or because numbers are restricted).

I’d always been fascinated by Westminster Abbey but when I visited it was ruined by just too many other people - and I went at a quieter time of day!

I can’t complain obviously, I was visiting too, but the best experiences I’ve had have been in places that were emptier.

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In contrast to that, Las Vegas.
A group of U.S. went, all celebrating a big birthday around the same time.
I was absolutely dreading it - not keen on USA generally, and thought it was going to be tacky and overwhelming.
But I absolutely LOVED it! It was so awful that it was great - like an adult Disney World. You have to suspend all your natural instincts and just go with it, but it was fab.

Wednesdaysotherchild · 05/09/2025 11:00

The Keswick Pencil Museum.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 05/09/2025 10:58

ItsnotnearlyChristmas · 04/09/2025 23:37

Ha! I came on to say the Last Supper. Same reason as you.

I really liked Lincoln Cathedral as well. The town is pretty but I wasn’t prepared for such a massive cathedral in the middle. Good tour round as well.

How strange (though probably not strange as we're all different!) - but The Last Supper was something I found disappointing/distinctly underwhelming (but have been a bit ashamed to come clean on that).

As for the Sistine Chapel - wow!!

ThePure · 05/09/2025 10:57

Oh and the Prado is the best art museum ever.

Lordofmyflies · 05/09/2025 10:56

Petra in Jordan. We took the kids when they were younger and visited at sunset when it was cooler. Their feet were sore so we hired donkeys and led them through the Siq to the Treasury. Awe inspiring.

concerneddsm · 05/09/2025 10:55

Versailles - both underwhelmed and overwhelmed.

I pre-booked tickets but the queues were far too long for my toddler. They were unacceptably long, despite the price. I'd have paid more for a more reasonable wait-time. So I skipped the palace and went straight into the gardens - which were truly amazing.

Bbq1 · 05/09/2025 10:55

The Griffin Observatory in LA. The sunset from the summit is stunning as is the view of LA at night from their when it all lights up.

Purplebunnie · 05/09/2025 10:54

Christ of St John of the Cross - Salvador Dali. I'd never heard of this masterpiece. Hoping now it's back after it's travels can see it again

I second Wells Cathedral so much history, absolutely stunning architecture

The Roman Baths at Bath, so much more than I thought

Stonehenge early in the morning in the days when you could touch the stones

Scottish Highlands especially Glencoe, Glen Etive and Glen Orchy

ThePure · 05/09/2025 10:54

I am loving this thread. It’s reminding me of lots of lovely places I have been and that I want to go to

Bamburgh and Alnwick castles and Hadrians Wall
Definitely Glencoe and also the far North and West coast of Scotland: Dunnet head and some of the amazing West Coast beaches
The Alhambra is magical.
Malcescine on Lake Garda and the views over it from the cable car
Pompei- went post Covid and it was a lot less busy. Definite sense of awe

PunksVersusBrats · 05/09/2025 10:54

Jarlshof on Shetland, early-ish morning and eerily quiet. There had been thick sea fog overnight and the last of it was clearing/burning off. Some parts were already eroding into the sea (25 or so years ago) and it really brought home what a short time we have on this Earth. I keep saying that I'll go back some time.

Nonbio46 · 05/09/2025 10:51

Windthebloodybobbinup · 05/09/2025 07:21

Sagrada familia is my favourite- you come out of the underground station and turn around, it is unbelievable. And then inside with the stained glass and tree shaped pillars forming a canopy.

For me too. I absolutely love Barcelona and this just blew my mind. Amazing. Gaudi was a genius. 🥰

Zeborah · 05/09/2025 10:49

Petra in Jordan
Hiroshima, Japan but recognising the human atrocities, it really is emotional

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 05/09/2025 10:47

Wherever it was in Egypt, the remains of the colossal statue that inspired the poem, ‘My name is Ozymandias, king of kings…’. I took a pic of an adult dd sitting on a toenail! Nobody there but us and our driver/guide - and a young boy with his goats.

Ditto (ages ago) Castle Krak des Chevaliers in Syria, used by the Crusaders. Vast and so intact/untouched, you could almost smell the horses that had been tied to the rings inside. And hardly anybody else there.

IcedPurple · 05/09/2025 10:42

Movinghouseatlast · 05/09/2025 10:30

Venice. Oh my god I couldn't believe it, no photograph or film comes even close to the reality.

I first visited Venice when I was 19, way back in the mists of time.

I was studying Italian at uni at that time, and my teacher spoke of that moment when you exist Santa Lucia train station and the canals are right there in front of you. She was not wrong. It really is awe inducing.

Venice is glorious. Not even all the mobs of tourists (of which I am part!) can spoil it. I plan to next visit in autumn or winter. Not only will the crowds and prices be lower, but there is something wonderfully sinister about Venice and visiting at the darker times of years will highlight this. In a good way!

Princessbananahamock · 05/09/2025 10:41

Visiting the Mary Rose, I have to admit I didn’t realise how big the ship was. They really bought history to life.
I took the kids years ago visited London omg I loved Westminster abbey the workmanship I was in awe. The Tower of London &Crown Jewels it was quiet when we went it was amazing.

dairydebris · 05/09/2025 10:40

LandSharksAnonymous · 05/09/2025 10:19

It was absolutely beautiful and the people were so lovely. And because it was so long ago, it was 'core memory' type travel rather than taking lots of photos on your phone that you don't really remember taking. Words really cannot do it justice.

DH speaks Arabic, so we were able to do it without a guide and really immerse ourselves. We don't travel really these days (work/dogs) but we have colleagues who work either in or on Iraq/Yemen/Iran and none of them have been able to do what we were able to do because of conflict and/or security, so we were incredibly lucky.

The pictures make it look like a fairy city. Something from an Arabian dream.
I know the human consequences of war are much more important, but im really sad it must be getting damaged beyond repair.