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To ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that met or exceeded expectations?

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VenerableFreed · 04/09/2025 23:33

AIBU to ask what tourist sites you’ve visited that have genuinely lived up to expectations and have gone beyond them?

For me, it was seeing Leonardo da Vinci’s Last Supper in person in Milan. I’m not particularly emotional, particularly about art, but it was genuinely moving to see the real thing. Visitor numbers were restricted, meaning you actually got a good look and there were no distractions. The setting, in a darkened room in an old convent, really helped too. It felt really intimate and special.

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samlett · 05/09/2025 22:54

grumpygrape · 05/09/2025 20:49

Perhaps because the poster read the OP to say where places had gone beyond expectations (as I did) and she’d had low expectations of Disneyland Paris so was pleasantly surprised ?

I don't know, how pleasantly surprised can you be by Disneyland? Don't get me wrong, I thought it was fine but I wasn't exactly cloaked in wondrous awe as I set eyes on it

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 05/09/2025 21:35

The Taj Mahal was incredible and so worth the journey

grumpygrape · 05/09/2025 21:02

I’ve been very lucky to visit many wonderful places and have always researched very carefully but there are definitely some which exceeded my expectations.

Agree with….

Yosemite
Grand Canyon (also agree with a pp that Bryce is breathtaking too)
Niagara Falls (fabulous view from the Embassy Suites Hotel)
Moriane Lake (better than Lake Louise, in my opinion)
Sagrada Familia
Terracotta Warriors
Beijing – Forbidden City and Summer Palace
Chateau de Chenonceau
Bayeux Tapestry (coming to the British Museum Sept 2026 – July 2027)
Carnac and other similar sites in Brittany

Don’t think these have been mentioned…..

Monet’s Garden
Les Machines de l’île, Nantes
Le Palais Idéal du Facteur Cheval, Hauterives, France
Cirque de Gavarnie, Haut-Pyrenees
742 through Kananaskis Country (Brokeback Mountain)
Baelo Claudia (Ancient Roman town in SW Spain)
Las Vegas strip – tacky but worth the long evening walk to see the sights, especially the Bellagio fountains,
Antelope Canyon, Arizona
Arches National Park, Utah
Durango – Silverton Railroad – husband’s choice but I loved it.
Colorado National Monument (fabulous rock formations)
Yellowstone NP (scenery, hot springs, rivers and waterfalls, and animals)
Zion National Park
Nine Mile Canyon, Utah (Petroglyphs)
Goblin Valley State Park -we only visited because all the National Parks were closed due to the Federal Govt shutdown in 2013.
New Zealand – everywhere we went exceeded expectations.

Justletmemoveon · 05/09/2025 20:55

Palmyra in Syria before it was destroyed. It was incredible - absolutely magnificent ruins and we were virtually the only people there when we went. All we could see for miles and miles was unspoiled deserts. Now I believe it’s covered in landmines and the lovely guy who looked after the place was executed by IS😢. Feel so grateful to have had the opportunity to go.

Other than that, the Empire State Building. Worth the money, especially at sunset.

grumpygrape · 05/09/2025 20:49

samlett · 05/09/2025 15:04

Taj Mahal for me too. Just magical, beautiful, can't describe how awe inspiring it was.

Valley of the Kings in Luxor.

Alhambra and the mezquita in Cordoba.

Made me laugh that among all the beautiful sites posters have mentioned someone has said Disneyland Paris in all seriousness😅

Perhaps because the poster read the OP to say where places had gone beyond expectations (as I did) and she’d had low expectations of Disneyland Paris so was pleasantly surprised ?

MyrtleLion · 05/09/2025 18:19

JoWawa · 05/09/2025 14:44

Damp afternoon in April being completely alone in Pompeii.

Stumbling across the amphitheatre in Pompeii. Just me and then DH, in a massive space.

Verona amphitheatre.

Olympia, running its short track.

The Pantheon in Rome, the Pantheon in Paris (very different buildings).

The Paris Catacombs.

The Corpus Clock in Cambridge.

The Radcliffe Camera in Oxford.

Anne Frank’s House and Our Lord in the Attic Museum in Amsterdam.

On a boat, emerging from fog across the lagoon in Venice in winter.

The Elgin and Winter Garden stacked theatres in Toronto.

The old courts in the Old Bailey.

The Hall of the Livery Company of Stationers in London.

Too many.

Mapletreelane · 05/09/2025 17:46

Hoppinggreen · 05/09/2025 13:16

I think thats why you were impressed. The rest of Coventry is so awful it looked good by comparison.
I had to spend 4 days in Coventry last year and I don't wish to return

You do know it was flattened in WW2 don't you? It was beautiful before then but sadly unlike German cities it wasn't rebuilt brick by brick. Quite an offensive remark about a city that was destroyed in WW2 due to its engineering heritage. And no I'm not from Coventry.

BorgQueen · 05/09/2025 16:49

Venice without a doubt, my favourite place on the planet.
The Imperial Palace and Summer Palace in Beijing.
Pretty much the whole of Luxor, apart from the shakedown by tourist police in the Valley of the kings 🙄
Landing by helicopter on the Mt. Cook glacier in NZ was unforgettable, as was Hobbiton on North Island - the attention to detail was amazing, can’t believe we sat and had a drink in the Green Dragon.

Biggest disappointments were Giza, the Pyramids were a literal shit-hole with the minor ones used as toilets by the locals and the bull pits were full of rubbish. The Sphinx was like a gypsy market on the viewing walkway.
Also Chitchen Itza in Mexico, for similar reasons, it felt very unsafe with people grabbing you.

elliesmummy19 · 05/09/2025 16:44

Lemonyfuckit · 05/09/2025 01:10

Ooh yes I should add British Columbia too. Vancouver - lovely. And the drive from Vancouver to Whistler up the Sea to Sky Highway - absolutely breathtaking. Every bend we went round we ran out of superlatives to describe the view. Stayed at quite a small town called Squamish, and there’s a cable car you can take up the mountain and look down on the sound - beautiful.

We’ve just come back from British Columbia. Spent a week in Vancouver and a week in Whistler. It was stunning. I thought it would be beautiful but we fell in love with it. Vancouver was fantastic.

I always wanted to see St Basils cathedral in Moscow. It was everything I expected it to be.

PearlClutzsche · 05/09/2025 16:32

HeyThereDelila · 05/09/2025 08:53

Tutankhamen’s tomb in Egypt. We went in 2017; tourism had plummeted, we had the entire place to ourselves. I’d wanted to go since I was a really little girl- it was so good I cried!

I haven’t been yet, but when in Cairo Museum some 30 years ago (early in the day and in the first week of January) DH and I had Tut’s death mask all to ourselves.
I had been a big “fan” of Ancient Egypt since childhood, and had a picture of it on my wall!
I may have had a sob.
Loved the sphinx and pyramids too.

Also loved the Medina in Marrakesh: utterly bonkers, beautiful and with such contrasts.

CarpetKnees · 05/09/2025 16:26

What we need is someone with far too much time on their hands to put all these ideas on a spreadsheet, so we can choose to sort by Country, or by 'type' such as Cathedral / Basilica or 'Artwork' or 'Load of old stones' or 'Sad / Moving but a must see' or 'nature' or whatever Grin

I'm adding this to my 'watch list' but would love to be able to filter to those I realistically might see and those I'm never going to get to.

Middleagedspreadisreal · 05/09/2025 16:24

IcedPurple · 05/09/2025 15:25

My favourite part was finding all the little "A&H" crests which somehow survived the 'clean sweep' after Ann Boleyn's downfall. But the whole place is spectacular.

It really is, would love to go back

pinkbackground · 05/09/2025 16:24

Loved walking around Rome just taking it all in.

EverardDeTroyes · 05/09/2025 16:20

A bit parochial compared to some of the answers here, but Exmoor blew me away. So quiet and unspoilt and of course stunningly beautiful.

Smudgesmith · 05/09/2025 16:17

The rockies. Huge. Like nothing you can imagine. Stunningly beautiful. Moraine lake. Maligne lake. The hike to St Agnes teahouse and mirror lake. Sunshine meadows hike on a sunny day just us and a guide. We had it to ourselves.
Also love pompei. It was pretty spectacular. We went in May before the busier season.

whistlesandbells · 05/09/2025 16:13

Ellis Island, NYC. The exhibition was fantastic.
Canterbury Cathedral - £5 tour. Awesome.
Angkor Wat - just go and roam.

CarpetKnees · 05/09/2025 16:11

Thought of another one - much closer to home, and FREE (you pay to park).

The National Memorial Arboretum in Staffs. Well worth a visit if you haven't been.
I would definitely splash out for a guide book, or book a guide though, there is so much though that has gone into the placement of the memorials, from the 'Shot at Dawn' one, position where the sun rises, to the main one where the sun shines through the gap at 11am on 11th November. You'll walk miles and miles, but well worth it.

LittleBitofBread · 05/09/2025 15:39

LarrySherbert · 05/09/2025 13:09

Coventry cathedral.

Before anyone says anything my expectations were not high but I was pleasantly surprised.

No, I get you. I haven't actually been, but from pictures the cathedral is staggering.

Labyrinthian · 05/09/2025 15:38

MrsTerryPratchett · 05/09/2025 01:15

Tikal in Guatemala.

And they have the largest pyramid in the world, which I didn’t get to but will one day!!!

I got there and it's crazy. Not sure how much they've excavated now but when I went in 2016 we had to trek for 3 days to get to it and the archeologists allowed us under the tarp to watch what they were exposing and how they work and it was unlike anything I've ever seen. The archeologists used to get a helicopter in to the site. Back then the trek was also dangerous and really basic and one of our pack donkeys ate a poisoned caterpillar and died. It was a very unusual trip!

LittleBitofBread · 05/09/2025 15:37

whereisit1 · 05/09/2025 15:36

Yes stunning. One of the best places I've seen

Agree. It's quite overwhelmingly gorgeous.

whereisit1 · 05/09/2025 15:36

Icequeen01 · 04/09/2025 23:59

I was blown away by the Alhambra. Absolutely beautiful.

Yes stunning. One of the best places I've seen

dizzydizzydizzy · 05/09/2025 15:34

Pretty well everything in Iceland. I had 3 nights there on an Iceland Air package. It included 2 coach tours - one of the Golden Circle and another Northern Lights tour. I normally avoid coach tours like the plague. However, they were absolutely fantastic. The guides were incredible knowledgeable and fun and of course Iceland is incredibly beautiful. We were also very lucky with the weather - we had wall-to-wall sunshine in early March. It was very cold and there was snow everywhere. The locals were lovely and the food was amazing. We went mainly to cheaper restaurants that were aimed at backpackers and locals and they were all excellent and not too pricey.

Midnights68 · 05/09/2025 15:27

ThePure · 05/09/2025 10:39

Macchu Piccu in Peru. It was many years ago that I went and trekked the Inca trail to get there but it was awe inspiring to see it rise out of the cloud forest

More recently I would agree Venice. I had low expectations but in fact it is magical. We arrived by train as the sun was setting and catching a vaporretto to the hotel was just gorgeous.

Macchu Picchu is absolutely no. 1 on my bucket list 😊 As soon as my kids are old enough we are going to do the Inca Trail.

The most awesome place I’ve ever been is the Atacama Desert in Chile. Incredible place, really otherworldly.

LittleBitofBread · 05/09/2025 15:26

Hoppinggreen · 05/09/2025 09:27

Cadiz Cathedral, been to lots of Cathedrals and Im not usually a huge fan but there was just something about it.
Also Picassos Guernica, I have seen it twice and was blown away each time

Guernica is devastating in the flesh, isn't it. I couldn't look away, horrifying as it is.

IcedPurple · 05/09/2025 15:25

Middleagedspreadisreal · 05/09/2025 15:20

Hampton Court blew my mind, the fact that Henry V111 had walked those corridors was hard to comprehend

My favourite part was finding all the little "A&H" crests which somehow survived the 'clean sweep' after Ann Boleyn's downfall. But the whole place is spectacular.