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Be absolutely honest, would you consider only fans/sex work if it guaranteed you’d be rich?

190 replies

Love13 · 04/09/2025 14:46

If you were being 100% honest hypothetically. Would you consider sex work/only fans/webcam work if you could guarantee you’d become rich.

Obviously completely hypothetical because in reality most of us probably wouldn’t be able to make much money, we’ve probably got children to consider, you might already be well off.

But if it was the difference between working in a job you hate until retirement, or doing sex work for 10 years and then being able to retire a millionaire, if it was safe and you only had yourself to please. Could you forget your morals and do it? Do you think you could live with it?

Yabu - no
Yanbu - you’d consider it.

If you would consider it, do you think you’re a highly sexualised person anyway, maybe multiple sexual partners, able to separate sex from emotions.

OP posts:
LarkspurLane · 04/09/2025 17:59

Presumably if yes, then you'd be fine with your father/partner/sons viewing and paying for content like that?

Chickenintheoven · 04/09/2025 17:55

I couldn’t - there is no amount of money that would make it tempting.

each to their own but definitely not for me.

PrincessASDaisy · 04/09/2025 17:54

Yes. I’m tired of working long hours for a basic existence.

Dragonfly97 · 04/09/2025 17:54

MsOlive · 04/09/2025 15:27

No, it would sicken me. I wouldn’t last 10 minutes let alone 10 years.

Completely agree. I tried the chat lines ( phone sex) years ago and hated it; it gave me the ick. Only lasted a couple of days.

JustPinkFinch · 04/09/2025 17:54

I would do any and all sex work out of necessity, but not to get rich. But then, if I was an MP, I would never vote for any laws that would make sex work more dangerous in the UK, like the recent attempts Antonazzi failed to get through. Talk about trying to sell women down the river...

ohyesido · 04/09/2025 17:54

Yes, if it meant I could get a decent income with little to no effort

AliceMaforethought · 04/09/2025 17:53

No, I have self respect.

AdoraBell · 04/09/2025 17:52

Definitely No.

Orangemintcream · 04/09/2025 17:51

No. I have great tits and arse but I wouldn’t do it.

Not even OF anonymously.

NameChange23456790 · 04/09/2025 17:51

No I think it would destroy me mentally .

Morningswim · 04/09/2025 17:51

FenderStrat · 04/09/2025 17:46

That vote is depressing.
Clearly, one third of women would sell other women down the river for cash.

Why are they "selling other women down the river"?

It's probably a good point but I am only half awake!

Morningswim · 04/09/2025 17:50

The problem is "if it was safe" takes you pretty heavily into unrealistic territory

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 04/09/2025 17:49

No- makes me physically sick!

Zanatdy · 04/09/2025 17:49

If I had the body and the confidence - maybe. But I doubt i’d last long as men do my head in!

FenderStrat · 04/09/2025 17:46

That vote is depressing.
Clearly, one third of women would sell other women down the river for cash.

Anchorage56 · 04/09/2025 17:44

For all the women saying they would do it, just remember then not to judge men who are on the other side. All the time on MN you hear women talking about how pathetic or disgusting men who pay for or even just view this type of content are. So if you are choosing to do it then you are also part of the problem.

GreatTheCat · 04/09/2025 17:43

I love to say yes, but I haven't had sex for 5 years (my choice) so I think I'd be lacking.

Mumofteenandtween · 04/09/2025 17:38

It is impossible to imagine really - even at my maximum 19 year old hotness (and I was really quite pretty) I can’t imagine anyone paying enough for me to become rich.

And now - at 46 with a c section scar, breasts that have fed 2 kids and a peri stomach the idea is too ridiculous for me to be able to answer properly.

Astrabees · 04/09/2025 17:36

Sign me up! I’m quite happy to bare everything to the world for that amount of money.

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 04/09/2025 17:36

No, not if I had an alternative such as you’ve described.

yes, if it was somehow the only available option, in order to provide for my children. But I can’t imagine that I’d be in that position.

I would hate to do it, it would only be as a last resort in desperation.

WearyAuldWumman · 04/09/2025 17:35

JamPotJenny · 04/09/2025 15:07

I’d do feet pics but my feet are god-awful and I have a very obvious and identifying scar on one of my feet.

Is there a market for the feet of a nearly 66 yr old who's had a bilateral scarf akin osteotomy? Asking for a a friend....

cestlavielife · 04/09/2025 17:33

Millionaire? How likely? Surely only a few really make that

Plastictreees · 04/09/2025 17:30

No. I couldn’t trade my soul for that, and it would inevitably be (re) traumatising and damaging, having an impact on the rest of my life and relationships.

SleepQuest33 · 04/09/2025 17:30

Never. My value my self respect more than money.

WasherWoman25 · 04/09/2025 17:30

Depends what exactly you mean. Pictures maybe. Talking to people - no, actual sexual contact - no, not a chance.