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To think remote workers exaggerate how much they actually work?

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ZippyGreyOtter · 03/09/2025 20:07

WFH is convenient but AIBU to think lots of people log on, do a bit, then spend most of the day coasting, while loudly insisting they’re “more productive than ever?”

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NoKidsSendDogs · 05/09/2025 00:57

We have to deliver what we say we will and every morning we have a meeting discussing where we are at. If we did nothing it would be obvious very quickly. Yes, instead of waking up at 5 I can wake up at 8 and instead of getting home at 9 I can be done and watching tv or walking the dog by 5 so there is flexibility but, I still do my work. Also, I can take a lunch break for an hour and go the gym and come back to my desk as a sweaty mess with a sandwich in hand and continue my day, I don't have to deal with the additional bs of doing that in an office and. I can also recline on the sofa while I work instead of in an uncomfortable chair. I can take time to cook a healthy meal for lunch instead of some manky sandwich from home or take a 20 min break and go out with the dog to clear my head. It's not less work, it's more flexibility around the work and more hours in the day not spent on needless commuting. Is it better than going to an office, 100000%. Do I do less work than in an office, nope, I can just be more comfortable while I do it and more productive in my down time.

MsVisual · 04/09/2025 23:58

I'm with you @ZippyGreyOtter

I work from home and spend quite a lot of time doing fuck all. I need to go into the office once a month and it is quite stressful as I spend my day dicking about with spreadsheets pretending to look busy.

Morningswim · 04/09/2025 23:52

Thepeopleversuswork · 04/09/2025 21:36

@ILoveWhales

So clearly the mania for office work hasn’t had the much vaunted impact on your soft skills… I thought this was meant to be part of the point of going back to the office.

Good point!
I think that also might explain why @ILoveWhales doesn't get interrupted much when they are in the office Wink

AlertLimeZebra · 04/09/2025 23:29

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TheaBrandt1 · 04/09/2025 23:23

Work for myself at home earned £100k
last year so not too slack

Rosesanddaffs · 04/09/2025 23:19

ILoveWhales · 04/09/2025 21:16

You clearly dont have a profession where you learn from others or have responsibility for training anyone.

I do. So we have to be there but that's ok you can sit at home in your nothing job because you and your colleagues are too unprofessional to actually bother to work productively while you're in an office. Chatting isnt compulsory you know, you don't have to.

It’s called being polite and having social skills, clearly something you lack.

I can see going into the office is doing wonders for you.

Huntrix · 04/09/2025 22:00

My old boss was the worst for presenteeism. He was always in the office, from around 5am until 8-9pm, and he never took sick days. He spent 5 minutes sending a few All Users at 5am just to let the whole organisation know he was in very early, and then spent the rest of his time doing personal stuff like producing music and promoting club nights.

I used to come in at 8am, and just work solidly until 4pm and get my work done. I was pretty efficient, but a lot of my colleagues we're really chatty and I found it very distracting. I now work from home (and for myself) and I'm much more productive, AND I save a few hours a day on the commute, so I can sometimes even put the legendary wash on. Usually I work for an hour before the school run, come home and sit on my laptop and before I know it it's pick up time. So in my case I do work a lot when working from home. I'm sure some people take the mick, but as long as the job gets done I wouldn't be that fussed.

thelovelyview · 04/09/2025 21:52

It’s partly personality. Some people are skivers, other conscientious.

Thepeopleversuswork · 04/09/2025 21:36

@ILoveWhales

So clearly the mania for office work hasn’t had the much vaunted impact on your soft skills… I thought this was meant to be part of the point of going back to the office.

GingerPaste · 04/09/2025 21:24

Nope. Just about 100% productive here when WFH. (More productive than I am at work with all the distractions.)

Morningswim · 04/09/2025 21:18

ILoveWhales · 04/09/2025 21:16

You clearly dont have a profession where you learn from others or have responsibility for training anyone.

I do. So we have to be there but that's ok you can sit at home in your nothing job because you and your colleagues are too unprofessional to actually bother to work productively while you're in an office. Chatting isnt compulsory you know, you don't have to.

You come across as quite an embarrassment @ILoveWhales . I am a lawyer like you but I don't see other, different, jobs as "nothing jobs". Are you just trying to wind people up or are you actually that up your own arse?

ILoveWhales · 04/09/2025 21:16

Rosesanddaffs · 04/09/2025 20:58

There are simply too many distractions at work and people want to come over for a chat you can hardly tell them to go away.

Times have changed, wfh is more productive for me and for many others, I get way more done at home, I cannot work in an office 5 days a week as I simply cannot get enough done with the distractions.

Thankfully my boss doesn’t think like you or those who are anti wfh.

You clearly dont have a profession where you learn from others or have responsibility for training anyone.

I do. So we have to be there but that's ok you can sit at home in your nothing job because you and your colleagues are too unprofessional to actually bother to work productively while you're in an office. Chatting isnt compulsory you know, you don't have to.

Rosesanddaffs · 04/09/2025 20:58

ILoveWhales · 04/09/2025 06:49

If you never did any work at the office before covid, I don't know how you kept your job

It's so weird how many people say they were not productive unless they were working.For what did you do before the pandemic?You will rubbish at your job and got absolutely nothing done and didn't hear any of your targets? Of course you did. You just prefer working from home, don't tell lies. Perfectly capable of being productive in an office. If you want to be otherwise, you wouldn't have kept your job.

You're also making a choice to chat to people and swan around at lunch, doing no work. Do your job and shut your mouth. It isn't difficult to do that.

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There are simply too many distractions at work and people want to come over for a chat you can hardly tell them to go away.

Times have changed, wfh is more productive for me and for many others, I get way more done at home, I cannot work in an office 5 days a week as I simply cannot get enough done with the distractions.

Thankfully my boss doesn’t think like you or those who are anti wfh.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 04/09/2025 20:57

Most office workers only do three hours of actual work a day

Iambeat · 04/09/2025 20:40

No, I would be out a job if that was true.

Thepeopleversuswork · 04/09/2025 20:01

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Exactly. Its a “look busy, the boss is here…” mentality.

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HoLeeFuk · 04/09/2025 16:22

DabOfPistachio · 04/09/2025 16:20

I find working from home far more productive. There's so much chatting in the office. It's really distracting.
Every time I see someone say how the office allows for more social interaction, I think 'You're one of the chatty disruptors, arent you?'
I have my own friends to socialise with. My working hours are for working. That's what I'm paid for

Oh for sure. The people who want everyone back in the office are the type who spend 1-2 hours every day chatting.

DabOfPistachio · 04/09/2025 16:20

HoLeeFuk · 04/09/2025 15:43

I think most of us experienced that. But there's a strong anti-WFH contingent on MN who insist it isn't true.

I find working from home far more productive. There's so much chatting in the office. It's really distracting.
Every time I see someone say how the office allows for more social interaction, I think 'You're one of the chatty disruptors, arent you?'
I have my own friends to socialise with. My working hours are for working. That's what I'm paid for

Easyozy · 04/09/2025 15:56

Working from home is fairly new to me having worked out of the home for 35 years, but I'm self employed so I do have to work if I want to get paid.
The flexibility is life changing though. I can start/finish when I want, sometimes start really early as a I'm an early riser and I'm done for the day by 2pm. I am really enjoying it! I used to envy all my work from home neighbours so I thought I'd join them 😂

HoLeeFuk · 04/09/2025 15:43

Ddakji · 04/09/2025 15:37

I remember one of my colleagues being astonished at how much work he got done at home when we locked down for Covid - how much time he wasted in the office yapping with the team, making cups of tea, going and chatting with others, pointless meetings. Razor focused and it’s done in half the time.

I think most of us experienced that. But there's a strong anti-WFH contingent on MN who insist it isn't true.

Ddakji · 04/09/2025 15:37

HoLeeFuk · 04/09/2025 15:25

People who work on site vastly underestimate how much time they spend not working during work hours. The only different with remote work is you can use the not-working time productively or pleasureably instead of browsing news sites and trying to look busy.

I remember one of my colleagues being astonished at how much work he got done at home when we locked down for Covid - how much time he wasted in the office yapping with the team, making cups of tea, going and chatting with others, pointless meetings. Razor focused and it’s done in half the time.

HoLeeFuk · 04/09/2025 15:25

People who work on site vastly underestimate how much time they spend not working during work hours. The only different with remote work is you can use the not-working time productively or pleasureably instead of browsing news sites and trying to look busy.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 04/09/2025 15:22

Some do. Some presentee office types do bugger all too.

I wfh when not travelling and average 12h days recently.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 04/09/2025 14:31

ThatDaringEagle · 04/09/2025 13:47

Except the objective (ahem that's not subjective) research into this area shows you're wrong in this assumption.

According to the studies highlighted in the Economist, see up thread for details, productivity drops by about 18-20% when workers are allowed work remotely versus in an office. This is due to a range of factors e.g. harder to supervise, out of sight out of mind factors, less cooperation & productive serendipity from bumping into each other & working more collaboratively in the office.

As for me, I (very subjectively) find my own productivity to be quite good when wfh, until I come on Mumsnet , etc when I get totally distracted & immersed in the online debate de jour instead of attending to my work, and then my productivity falls off a very steep cliff sadly.

I suspect this last sentence will resonate with many other wfh people on here right now, e.g. is there not something a bit more productive You could be directing your energies into!?

QED

I find my productivity is inverse to the proximity of my phone.

I power through the first 5h of the day sans phone, then wind down the final 3.

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