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AIBU to seek a consensus on who is a socially acceptable recipitent of Mounjaro?

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Periperi2025 · 03/09/2025 19:05

So it seems that much of mumsnet and society judge users of WLI extremely harshly seeing them as fat and lazy people who should just eat less, move more and use more willpower. But apparently not all of us, some of us after divulging enough medical history as 'okay'..."not you just the other fatties!!"

So, are people with diagnosed endocrine and metabolic conditions, acceptable?

What about people with undiagnosed endocrine and metabolic disorders, it's taken me over a decade to get to the point i am now, which is under endcrinology with a confirmed 'problem' and a working diagnosis but nothing more, my story is sadly far from unusual. You don't know who they are, they don't know who they are (although they may have astrong inkling), quite the conundrum!!

What about people with diagnosed Type 2 diabetes, who once were also just fat people without type 2 diabetes (mostly)?

What about people who are just fat now but statistically likely to develop type 2 diabetes in the future, like the current Type 2 diabetes patients were 10 years ago?

What about the people with severely disordered eating? As a society and a health service we deem it justifible and, hopefully preferrable to treat Anorexia Nervosa, including as inpatients at great expense (£500+ per day in the NHS), compared to treating an obese eating disordered patient with Mounjaro at a cost of approx £9 per day to the NHS for the highest dose. Presuambly in a civilised society we think that both groups of patients deserve a chance at a better quality life and improved life expextancy, and we dont think that Anorexics should just eat more and move less?!

So my AIBU is?
Are all of the above groups socially acceptable recipitents of Mounjaro?

YABU - no there are not all acceptable the gluttunous, lazy, weak willed cheats.

YANBU - of course they are all socially acceptable recipitents given that they meet the prescribing criteria for Mounjaro which has been accessed for Risk vs Benefit via peer reviewed research.

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Periperi2025 · 04/09/2025 13:03

Bogpinkbear · 04/09/2025 12:51

Me. 👋

Im not using it - because I can’t afford it.

I was slim until I became disabled in my 40s and the patronising bullshit that is spouted on here really irritates me.

I don’t eat processed carbs more than once in a blue moon. I have a treat day once a twice a month and the treat is a small bar of chocolate or equivalent.

I am taking loads of drugs that have weight gain as a side effect and I’m now in a wheelchair most of the time, although I do use crutches when I can.

I wish people weren’t so damned judgmental and didn’t just assume you were a greedy lazy pig because you’re overweight.

But they do. And I’ve been in tears over some of the comments here because they’re so bloody cruel.

I really wish the NHS would include mobility restricting illness in their prescribing criteria for mounjaro, at a much much lower bmi >30 or even >27 if risk/benefit balances out. The benefits for the patients would be obvious but also for the wider NHS/ social care work force. Without meaning to sound offensive, but as a paramedic we frequently risk injury (potentially career ending) when manually handling obese patients with limited mobility.

I hope the rules change and you can get it funded soon.

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DancefloorAcrobatics · 04/09/2025 12:59

@Periperi2025 but that's it. You cure or manage one condition/ health issue and create many more through medication. We are creating many more... so we need more medication and so on.
There's another way for many conditions but popping a pill or WLI are easier than actually changing things to accommodate our bodies and minds.

I'm not against medication if you are ill but I am against long term medication where the need has been created artificially again an issue with steroids and WLI.

Bogpinkbear · 04/09/2025 12:51

Me. 👋

Im not using it - because I can’t afford it.

I was slim until I became disabled in my 40s and the patronising bullshit that is spouted on here really irritates me.

I don’t eat processed carbs more than once in a blue moon. I have a treat day once a twice a month and the treat is a small bar of chocolate or equivalent.

I am taking loads of drugs that have weight gain as a side effect and I’m now in a wheelchair most of the time, although I do use crutches when I can.

I wish people weren’t so damned judgmental and didn’t just assume you were a greedy lazy pig because you’re overweight.

But they do. And I’ve been in tears over some of the comments here because they’re so bloody cruel.

Towelles · 04/09/2025 12:51

MargoLivebetter · 04/09/2025 11:34

@Towelles hasn't the diet industry been doing exactly that for years already? The obesity crisis has worsened and they've got richer! Isn't it possible that WLI might be a game changer?

They want us to be fat as it’s more profitable but not so fat you die young and can’t procreate. So they will give you a solution to a problem they created in the first place, where the rich get richer. It’s a political problem

Rallentanda · 04/09/2025 12:43

Hands up who is never, ever telling anyone about using WLIs after reading a few threads on here 👋

PutThe · 04/09/2025 12:41

Digdongdoo · 04/09/2025 12:37

You don't have evidence that use of WLI enmasse will "work" either. WLI only work for the person taking them, for as long as they take them. Endless rollouts with no other changes = endlessly growing bill. I'm not sure how you think it will play out in the long run. Perhaps you could evidence long term affordability and efficacy on a population level?

You first.

We already have evidence for how use of WLIs work for those taking them. I presume this is accepted and your point is that it's insufficient? You're at liberty to want eg longer term proof than the 00s, but that's not a position that can coexist with your previous claims that it's certain societal changes can be made that will tackle obesity.

You said there were changes we could make that would help and we could look to other countries, which ones and what changes? You clearly don't mean the US and how they reduced their obesity rates, so it's not clear who you're thinking of.

Notagain75 · 04/09/2025 12:39

Its socially acceptable for anyone to have it if they pay for it.
The NHS should only pay for it if they meet the NICE guidelines the same as any other drug and treatment provided by the NHS, including IVF, cancer drugs etc.

icouldholditwithacobweb · 04/09/2025 12:38

Why do you care? I'm on Wegovy & am very open about it, idgaf what anyone else may or may not think. If it was a jab for alcoholics to stop them drinking alcohol and help them be healthier and happier, I'd support those people in wanting to make a positive lifestyle change. I view weight loss jabs the exact same way. And yes, I do know people who have lied and used fake images of themselves to get the jabs when they have something like 10lbs to lose, and I'm over here with 100lbs to lose, but I cannot bring myself to care. It's nothing to do with me what anyone else does, and nothing to do with anyone else what I do.

Digdongdoo · 04/09/2025 12:37

PutThe · 04/09/2025 12:34

We might agree if you were to post some evidence for your claims, but tellingly enough you haven't.

The fact remains that we already know WLIs work and that telling people to diet and exercise doesn't. Your ideas involve the NHS pissing money away for the sake of your uninformed belief system, whilst denying people access to what we know actually works. It's one thing for the NHS to limit access now whilst it's so expensive and the rollout needs to be managed, but the idea that this should be ongoing policy because you wish human bodies worked differently is grossly irresponsible. We simply cannot afford to indulge ourselves with evidence free ideals.

You don't have evidence that use of WLI enmasse will "work" either. WLI only work for the person taking them, for as long as they take them. Endless rollouts with no other changes = endlessly growing bill. I'm not sure how you think it will play out in the long run. Perhaps you could evidence long term affordability and efficacy on a population level?

PutThe · 04/09/2025 12:34

Digdongdoo · 04/09/2025 12:29

OK, so keep demanding lifelong medicine from the teetering NHS. See where that gets you. We don't have to agree. But don't complain when treating obesity medically becomes unsustainable.
Medication isn't a lifestyle change.

We might agree if you were to post some evidence for your claims, but tellingly enough you haven't.

The fact remains that we already know WLIs work and that telling people to diet and exercise doesn't. Your ideas involve the NHS pissing money away for the sake of your uninformed belief system, whilst denying people access to what we know actually works. It's one thing for the NHS to limit access now whilst it's so expensive and the rollout needs to be managed, but the idea that this should be ongoing policy because you wish human bodies worked differently is grossly irresponsible. We simply cannot afford to indulge ourselves with evidence free ideals.

Digdongdoo · 04/09/2025 12:32

MargoLivebetter · 04/09/2025 12:31

But @Digdongdoo you could argue that at £6.5 billion a year to the NHS right now, treating obesity is unsustainable!!!!

Well yes. The NHS is barely sustaining the current burden. And we've still got an elderly population boom to come. I wish anyone relying on the NHS for WLI luck.

MargoLivebetter · 04/09/2025 12:31

But @Digdongdoo you could argue that at £6.5 billion a year to the NHS right now, treating obesity is unsustainable!!!!

Digdongdoo · 04/09/2025 12:29

PutThe · 04/09/2025 12:24

No there isn't. But if you think there is a country that has managed to curb an obesity crisis like the UK has (about 2/3 overweight and about 25% obese) using your proposals, tell us which one it is. Prove the claim. You keep saying things are obvious and certain, so if that's the case you'll be able to show us some evidence.

And yes, obesity is something that can be medicated away. With WLIs. Those are a lifestyle change because they make people eat less. The evidence for that actually exists, whereas we have none at all that actually achieving lifestyle change without them is possible. You simply keep repeating your quasi religious mantra, and meanwhile the NHS teeters.

OK, so keep demanding lifelong medicine from the teetering NHS. See where that gets you. We don't have to agree. But don't complain when treating obesity medically becomes unsustainable.
Medication isn't a lifestyle change.

PutThe · 04/09/2025 12:24

Digdongdoo · 04/09/2025 10:33

But there is evidence! Not everywhere has an obesity epidemic like we do. There are obviously changes we could make that would help. It's a modern, western phenomenon and it isn't something we can medicate away. Normalise it, and lifestyle changes won't happen which means the next generations will down exactly the same path. Such short termism is expensive and short sighted.

No there isn't. But if you think there is a country that has managed to curb an obesity crisis like the UK has (about 2/3 overweight and about 25% obese) using your proposals, tell us which one it is. Prove the claim. You keep saying things are obvious and certain, so if that's the case you'll be able to show us some evidence.

And yes, obesity is something that can be medicated away. With WLIs. Those are a lifestyle change because they make people eat less. The evidence for that actually exists, whereas we have none at all that actually achieving lifestyle change without them is possible. You simply keep repeating your quasi religious mantra, and meanwhile the NHS teeters.

TheSummerof25 · 04/09/2025 12:24

Thanks OP - the title made me smile. Just sums up being overweight, having ED’s etc. Everyone feels so entitled to an opinion and not only that but to voice it loudly and forcefully. Nobody knows the ins and outs of another’s medical and mental health history.

RingoJuice · 04/09/2025 12:18

Periperi2025 · 04/09/2025 11:14

That's interesting. Hopefully someone will start gathering data sets on this soon.

Just out of interest is there the same vitriol around obese people and WLI use in the comment sections of US forums and news articles, or is this more of a British problem?

Nah I see a lot of people almost wishing for GLP-1 users to get some sort of horrible side effect. No free lunch and all that.

Interestingly, and purely for aesthetics, GLP-1s are heavily used by bodybuilders in the US. It’s an easy way for them to get their body fat percentages low without going through extreme dieting.

Periperi2025 · 04/09/2025 11:43

DancefloorAcrobatics · 04/09/2025 11:29

You might be genuine or not.
Almost every obese person has a health condition or a reason outside their own responsibility why they are obese.

I don't buy it. Some people in my family are obesBut I agree that a small % of the population has issues that are leading to obesity.

But 1/3 of all adults?

Approx 1in 10 people have pituitary tumours (some studies indicate up to 30% of the population on post mortem), pituitary tumours are associated with obesity.

Prevalence of hypothyroidism is 3%, disproportinately affecting women, hypothyroidism is associated with obesity.

Approx 1in 10 women have PCOS, probably significantly more as it is underdiagnosed. PCOS is associated with obesity.

1% of uk population are prescribed oral corticosteriods at any given time. Steriods use is associated with obesity.

So assuming no unlucky individuals with 2 or more of the above conditions we are already comfortably at 19% of your 1/3 target, and that is just with 3 specific medical conditions and one drug side effect.

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GeckoClimber · 04/09/2025 11:41

DancefloorAcrobatics · 04/09/2025 11:29

You might be genuine or not.
Almost every obese person has a health condition or a reason outside their own responsibility why they are obese.

I don't buy it. Some people in my family are obesBut I agree that a small % of the population has issues that are leading to obesity.

But 1/3 of all adults?

I wrote a post earlier about this.
Most of those I know who are morbidly obese fall into one of these:
Are ND, known to have higher rates of eating disorders (anorexia, bulimia, binge eating)
Only gained weight when put on a certain drug, often the pill or antidepressants. (One friend went on mirtazapine and went from a size 8 as a 30 yr old to a size 24 within a yr, drs did not care, blamed her for eating too much)
Have had cancer and gone through treatment and on medication for life.
Have a mental health condition like depression.
Have a chronic illness that prevents them from moving as much as they’d like and ties in with the drugs bit as well.
Has a condition like PCOS, diabetes, cushings, thyroid etc.

This could very well make up the majority of morbidly obese adults, considering that no matter what the cause, it’s irrelevant and ignored until there’s an acute crisis.

As an obese woman I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve seen the gp and they’ve blamed everything on my weight, so I can’t access the medical treatments I need for other stuff going on and I suffer, which adds to the lack of exercise and the depression. But if I go to the gp they still take the approach of “have you thought of losing weight?”.

I meet the criteria for prescribed GLP1s but there are hoops to jump through which make it inaccessible.

eacapade1982 · 04/09/2025 11:36

NICE have established metrics for weighing the benefits of new drugs against the cost. If the drugs provide a similar predicted gain in quality of life years compared to drugs for other conditions they should be prescribed on the NHS. That’s probably what happens currently. The criteria (age, BMI comorbidities etc) should be set to a level where the weight loss drugs offer fair gain compared to drugs for other conditions. The fact that alternative methods of weight loss exist shouldn’t come into it I don’t think. The fact that alternative methods to lower blood pressure exist doesn’t stop us prescribing statins. Yeah sure, provide diet/lifestyle advice alongside.

MargoLivebetter · 04/09/2025 11:34

@Towelles hasn't the diet industry been doing exactly that for years already? The obesity crisis has worsened and they've got richer! Isn't it possible that WLI might be a game changer?

Towelles · 04/09/2025 11:30

Isn’t it the issue that the pharma companies are basically inventing an expensive solution to obesity, which has been created by corporate greed. No one is going to stop the food manufacturers making or selling UPF because it’s such an integral part of the global economy. These production methods make the richest companies richer and the consequences is obesity but oh… Now pharma companies are cashing in on it too.

The run away train has no brakes and it’s too late. You can’t stop big foods now, and consumers do not want to.

UPF and WLI’s will have to co-exist side by side with all practical reasoning long gone.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 04/09/2025 11:29

GeckoClimber · 04/09/2025 11:13

Research into why the obesity crisis is happening and the reasons behind it is not to prove obese people are helpless, it’s to work out why it’s happening so there’s a basis to identify who is at risk and how to prevent it in the first place.

The next part of your post is making assumptions that fat people are all the same and making bad choices - I only drink water. I avoid UPFs. Many of the people I know are the same, obviously we don’t represent the whole of the group, but some of us are very aware of nutrition and health, and work very hard to not be bigger than we are! I know where my obesity stems from and it’s impossible to get the acknowledgment through the NHS because the way it’s handled is to first blame the patient and assume they’re sitting on their arses guzzling chips. Perhaps if that first port of call wasn’t so judgemental and dismissive we’d be a healthier population.

You might be genuine or not.
Almost every obese person has a health condition or a reason outside their own responsibility why they are obese.

I don't buy it. Some people in my family are obesBut I agree that a small % of the population has issues that are leading to obesity.

But 1/3 of all adults?

MargoLivebetter · 04/09/2025 11:19

@Periperi2025 the primary semaglutide patent is set to expire in March 2026, which is what Wegovy & Ozempic is made from. It will be interesting to see what other suppliers will be allowed to do in the European / UK markets thereafter.

Periperi2025 · 04/09/2025 11:14

RingoJuice · 04/09/2025 11:10

There’s a lot of normal weight people experimenting with these drugs for various conditions in the US, especially among those of us using it to treat infertility/PCOS.

You can get them for quite a reasonable price from compounders. It seems the market is not quite so developed in the UK but with these price increases that people are talking about, they are sure to pop up to fill the gap in the market.

That's interesting. Hopefully someone will start gathering data sets on this soon.

Just out of interest is there the same vitriol around obese people and WLI use in the comment sections of US forums and news articles, or is this more of a British problem?

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Verv · 04/09/2025 11:14

IMO any "acceptable" recipient of Mounjaro/WLI is anybody willing to self fund it if they don't meet the threshold, and anybody who does meet it to use it through the NHS.

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