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So upset with my brother and his wife

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Brunettesmorefun · 03/09/2025 18:10

I’ll try and keep this short. I lost my daughter 6 years ago and it has been hard. 3 years ago I was very upset by my sister in law and a post she made on social media. I spoke to her and my brother and told them how upset I was. We talked it through and I apologised. We alll said we would forget it and move on. Only she hasn’t. I tried to make amends by sending nice presents etc and never received a thank you.

Three months ago out of the blue they announced that I was not allowed in their house! To say I was upset is an understatement and I am so upset with my brother for not standing up for me. I am finding it difficult to get over and feel so sad.
How do others cope with similar situations?

OP posts:
DeeKitch · 03/09/2025 18:16

What did she do?

Sorry for your loss xx

BurnTheFamilyTree · 03/09/2025 18:15

Merseymum1980 · 03/09/2025 18:14

Could you elaborate on the original post she made that upset you. Its hard to give advice with out the full information

Yes, I agree. Context is everything.

MolliciousIntent · 03/09/2025 18:15

I feel like we're missing 95% of the story here.

Merseymum1980 · 03/09/2025 18:14

Could you elaborate on the original post she made that upset you. Its hard to give advice with out the full information