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In hospital w possible heart attack - what do I tell my children

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Ethina · 03/09/2025 17:13

I’m in the a&e for chest pain and difficulty breathing, and they just did an ecg which I was able to upload to chat gpt while waiting. I fully expected this to be nothing so I was totally shocked when chat gpt said the ecg ‘strongly suggests a heart attack is happening now’. While I obviously hope chat gpt is completely wrong I’m now thinking way ahead, wondering how to tell my 12yo plus two teens about this if it turns out it’s actually serious.

This feels unreal and like I said I hope chat gpt is wrong - but if it is serious, what’s the best way to handle this in my family? I don’t want to frighten or stress my children. I would have been so worried if this had happened to my mother at that age. If anyone has been in a similar situation and has any tips to share that’d be so helpful

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IDontKeepChickensButBelieveTheyExist · 03/09/2025 17:18

I suggest waiting for actual Drs to give you their findings and don’t rely on ChatGPT tbh.
Please don’t panic until you have had blood tests & ECG results explained to you.
IF it is a heart attack, plenty of people go on with the rest of their lives with no issues. You need to wait for the Drs, but I hope all turns out okay for you Flowers

ninjahamster · 03/09/2025 17:18

I would wait and see what the medical staff say first. Then you can be factual with your children and reassure them of the care plan.
Thinking of you.

Dancingsquirrels · 03/09/2025 17:17

I'd focus on being well cared for in hospital, thank goodness for NHS, importance of healthy lifestyle ie realistic but not frightening

And don't rely on Chat / AI for medical advice (although I understand the temptation)