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YourOpenNavyAnt · 03/09/2025 03:54

Our neighbours, 2 highly skilled Indian immigrants, who have been in the UK for 8 years are emigrating to another country. He’ll get an 50% pay increase for doing the same job in another country, plus a lower housing costs. According to him, a sizeable cohort of his friends, also want to leave the UK.

I have two cousins who have spent £10000s for their children to study for a masters in another country to make it easier for them gain the right to work.

A colleague’s children (both junior doctors) have both migrated to Australia, with no plans to return. Another colleague’s daughter (a dentist) has moved to New Zealand for 6 months, to determine if she wants to settle permanently.

I have a large circle Aussie friends and acquaintances from my time living in London and most (8-10 people) have either returned or are planning to return. These are people who’ve lived here for 10+ years and have British citizenship but they view the UK as being in terminal decline.

Has anyone else noticed this trend? Is this country really that shit?

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HappiestSleeping · 20/09/2025 06:19

StandFirm · 20/09/2025 05:26

As a Remainer since the very first minute that dreadful referendum was announced (will NEVER forgive Cameron for that irresponsible decision), I absolutely hate being right about all of it. You have no idea how much I wanted to be proved wrong by Leavers.

I know exactly how you feel. Cameron was a complete buffoon.

StandFirm · 20/09/2025 05:26

HappiestSleeping · 03/09/2025 04:15

I never thought I'd say this about England, but since Brexshit, I'd leave if I could. The Conservatives screwed the country up, climate change pushing prices up, Farage pushing division and racism, the economy in decline, effects of Ukraine etc

It will take a long while to recover, if it ever does.

As a Remainer since the very first minute that dreadful referendum was announced (will NEVER forgive Cameron for that irresponsible decision), I absolutely hate being right about all of it. You have no idea how much I wanted to be proved wrong by Leavers.

AzurePanda · 20/09/2025 04:33

@Grammarnut yes, Ireland’s success is built on sand and Trump has the country’s tax incentives well in his sights.

SophW89 · 19/09/2025 16:28

ninjahamster · 03/09/2025 09:37

I think the biggest issue is the cycle of negativity that’s being perpetuated by the media. Everything is doom and gloom. The entire narrative is that the economy is shit, COL is shit, benefit users are shit, asylum seekers are shit, the nhs is shit, the education system is shit, MH has gone to shit etc etc.
I really don’t think everything is as bad as the media would have us believe.

Completely agree. The media makes out that there's rioting, mugging, and God knows what else on every street corner. I'm not saying the country is without problems, but I also this we love a bit of negativity!

Grammarnut · 10/09/2025 22:15

AnPiscin · 05/09/2025 10:27

Yes it did. Between 2016 and 2021, 135 companies moved from the UK to Dublin as a direct consequence of Brexit. Bearing in mind that Dublin has a population of 1.5 million and the country as a whole has a tiny population of just over 5 million, that's a huge number.

Ireland had a budget surplus in 2024 of 21.9 billion euros.

But will be hit soon by the EU's tax policies. Dublin has allowed huge tax breaks to companies such as Amazon but is facing the removal of their right to do this. 135 companies sounds a lot, but is a minute number of such companies in the City. London remains one of the greatest financial hubs of the world and the UK regulatory system is considered one of the best and safest, which is why companies want to locate here.

Batelyboo · 09/09/2025 20:39

Dangermouse999 · 09/09/2025 18:07

The Tories have presided over many recessions - more than Labour since the war, as well as various other economic crises such as sterling devaluations and bond market crises.

Some of these (under both parties) were triggered by global factors outside of the UK’s control like the 1973 oil price crisis and the 2007 credit crunch.

But you conveniently forgot all that, didn’t you? Because of course it’s always Labour who crashes the economy.

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Right! Liz truss anyone 🙄

Dangermouse999 · 09/09/2025 18:07

Ablondiebutagoody · 03/09/2025 08:51

Labour Governments ALWAYS crash the economy. Every single one.

The tax burden is way too high and is stifling growth but they are politically incapable of cutting spending (or even slowing the rate of increase). I will be preparing DS for a move abroad. No point in working hard here for the Government to confiscate everything.

The Tories have presided over many recessions - more than Labour since the war, as well as various other economic crises such as sterling devaluations and bond market crises.

Some of these (under both parties) were triggered by global factors outside of the UK’s control like the 1973 oil price crisis and the 2007 credit crunch.

But you conveniently forgot all that, didn’t you? Because of course it’s always Labour who crashes the economy.

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

KhakiTiger · 09/09/2025 15:45

Snorlaxo · 03/09/2025 04:27

We are quickly heading towards where the US is today. There’s a loud minority who want no immigration (legal or not ) because they think that’s why things are shit for them today. Who wants to live in a country where they feel unsafe and unwelcome? Asylum hotels today can progress quickly into other risks tomorrow.

We are heading towards US?

You wish.

A quarter of the world’s GDP, high growth economy and a country that is self sufficient on energy. We could only dream of being like the US.

KhakiTiger · 09/09/2025 15:44

We should be worried about emigration.

Unfortunately the people emigrating all high earner, high skilled people. And people coming in are net takers on average. So guess what, the country gets poorer.

How genius of successive governments to replace high earning, net contributors with low or non earning net takers.

Eloeeze · 09/09/2025 15:29

I think it’s excellent that people are able to leave when they want to. It’s not always possible to leave, of course. We can’t just emigrate easily and expect it all to go well in a new country. Where would we go? We have to prove a fairly high income and ensure employment in advance, it’s a lot of hoops to jump through to prove our worth.

deeahgwitch · 09/09/2025 15:27

Where are your neighbours going @YourOpenNavyAntthat salaries are way better and housing cost much less than the UK. It sounds good.

PeonyPatch · 09/09/2025 15:23

BMW6 · 09/09/2025 09:55

Lol all these people who know YOU are leaving the UK..........

I don't know anyone who has or is planning to go. Nor do any of my 6 siblings.

It's you.

I’ve noticed this trend too. I know people who have left the UK for other EU countries. We are considering it as well. Our neighbours (both doctors from South Asia descent) are looking to move back to an Asian country!

PeonyPatch · 09/09/2025 15:22

Shakeoffyourchains · 09/09/2025 08:48

It’s almost as if dismantling public services and transferring wealth upwards hasn’t magically made things better for ordinary people...who'd have thunk it?

Still I'm sure it'll work the next time we do it.

What a mess!

I wonder if they also know how to exploit a country such as the UK for some of these rights. To be honest it does make me a bit cross. Though I do not agree with holding people in inhumane conditions.

To be worried about emigration
BMW6 · 09/09/2025 09:55

YourOpenNavyAnt · 03/09/2025 03:54

Our neighbours, 2 highly skilled Indian immigrants, who have been in the UK for 8 years are emigrating to another country. He’ll get an 50% pay increase for doing the same job in another country, plus a lower housing costs. According to him, a sizeable cohort of his friends, also want to leave the UK.

I have two cousins who have spent £10000s for their children to study for a masters in another country to make it easier for them gain the right to work.

A colleague’s children (both junior doctors) have both migrated to Australia, with no plans to return. Another colleague’s daughter (a dentist) has moved to New Zealand for 6 months, to determine if she wants to settle permanently.

I have a large circle Aussie friends and acquaintances from my time living in London and most (8-10 people) have either returned or are planning to return. These are people who’ve lived here for 10+ years and have British citizenship but they view the UK as being in terminal decline.

Has anyone else noticed this trend? Is this country really that shit?

Lol all these people who know YOU are leaving the UK..........

I don't know anyone who has or is planning to go. Nor do any of my 6 siblings.

It's you.

Nearly50omg · 09/09/2025 09:50

The grass is always greener on the other side! I emigrated overseas and it is not like it appears to be!! Very much not!! Those move to Australia tv shows? Don’t mention the cost of medical treatment!! The fact the public health system is so appalling you will
Have no choice but to go private! That private health insurance is part of the tax system and compulsory, you pay full price for all medication and there’s no discount like there is in the uk!! £4000 a month for one type of medication that was essential!! £150 to go see a go, £350 for a basic blood test etc etc! Cost of living in oz is way way higher than anywhere else in the world! Yes the pay is better but by the time you’ve taken off the cost of housing - also 10,000 x uk prices! - medical and food and bills then you’re living on credit cards

IwasatClaines · 09/09/2025 08:59

LidlAmaretto · 09/09/2025 08:32

What social contract? Working people are paying for the triple lock for the largest proportion of pensioners we've ever had. I will retire if I'm lucky in 17 years. I doubt I'll get the triple lock. I doubt my kids will be entitled to a state pension at all.

The poster I was responding to wanted spending on the NHS and welfare cut right back even more. Universal healthcare still exists in the UK and it’s something precious, as watching Call The Midwife was all about.

As in America the biggest beneficiaries of tax cuts are overwhelmingly the wealthiest, because you need decent tax against which to offset the cuts. That’s why Billionaires support right wing movements, not because they care about working class people.

PeonyPatch · 09/09/2025 08:51

Shakeoffyourchains · 09/09/2025 08:48

It’s almost as if dismantling public services and transferring wealth upwards hasn’t magically made things better for ordinary people...who'd have thunk it?

Still I'm sure it'll work the next time we do it.

Exactly.

Papyrophile · 09/09/2025 08:49

Ireland is attracting inward investment because corporation tax rates are the lowest in the Anglophone world. No other reason.

Shakeoffyourchains · 09/09/2025 08:48

PeonyPatch · 09/09/2025 08:07

Because for them (those that choose to cross), it’s a lot better quality of life than their country of origin! They know they will have better rights and benefits and quality of life in the UK compared to say Afghanistan or Somalia etc.

For your average Brit though - I wouldn’t say life has improved much. If anything it’s stagnated. Quality of life declined.

It’s almost as if dismantling public services and transferring wealth upwards hasn’t magically made things better for ordinary people...who'd have thunk it?

Still I'm sure it'll work the next time we do it.

LidlAmaretto · 09/09/2025 08:32

IwasatClaines · 05/09/2025 09:59

You’re not concerned about the resulting increased social instability with tearing up the social contract?

What social contract? Working people are paying for the triple lock for the largest proportion of pensioners we've ever had. I will retire if I'm lucky in 17 years. I doubt I'll get the triple lock. I doubt my kids will be entitled to a state pension at all.

HelpMeGetThrough · 09/09/2025 08:32

Company I work for have divisions in quite a few different countries. I’m keeping an eye on what’s coming up with a view to look at transferring if the job and place is right.

TheaBrandt1 · 09/09/2025 08:26

Both ours have EU passports already been useful

NuovaPilbeam · 09/09/2025 08:21

I think there's a lot of people who think the grass is greener.

Meanwhile france are also in political turmoil struggling with a debt mountain

I have family in the US and Australia and neither are a bed of roses. Cost of living is lower in US but working culture is horrendous, there's a huge opiate and mental health crisis. In Australia house & childcare prices have rocketed. My colleague moved to London from Australia last year for better job prospects and is happy here.

Papyrophile · 09/09/2025 08:21

NameChange23456790 · 05/09/2025 06:14

Yes I agree my cousins in their 20s not a single one has chosen to set up their life here. 1 has gone to work in Canada (EV mechanic gone to Tesla), 2 (GPs) gone to Australia, 2 have moved to Dubai (IT and another in Sales)..if I look at my wider circle the list goes on. I have several lawyer friends who go out to Dubai/Doha to earn tax free for several years then some do return but bring their wealth buying property here/rental properties.

I’d say it’s well known in the groups I mix in that you won’t make your fortune here, if you want to live here you need to go generally to the Middle East and bring your wealth back. With Canada and Australia I’ve found people seem to permanently leave but they do return from the Middle East.

It's long been that way. Many of our friends went to the ME in the early 1980s and came back once they had earned enough to buy their first house. I went to the US and returned once I had done likewise.

LidlAmaretto · 09/09/2025 08:14

CallMeMessy · 03/09/2025 09:25

Good for you. Getting your DC an Irish passport means giving them the option to be in Europe for education and work. Also makes it pretty easy to go to Canada and Australia

I'm entitled to another European passport. I can then nominate my children for one. They both want to live somewhere else. I dont blame them.