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AIBU To Take 2 days Annual Leave for dog getting neutered

90 replies

ML5 · 02/09/2025 23:07

Getting our dog neutered next week so have to take Annual Leave for when he goes in & also the next day when he’s at home.
What are your thoughts on this?

OP posts:
lurcherlove · 03/09/2025 07:02

My husband just took a whole week off because I am going away on a course and usually work from home. 😂

LhudeSingCuccu · 03/09/2025 07:02

It’s your leave. If your manager authorises it, that’s all you need.

I never ask my team why they’re having time off. Sometimes it might come up conversationally or if it’s at extremely short notice, but otherwise, it’s none of my business.

MyTommyGunDont · 03/09/2025 06:58

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

Are you joking? I took 4 days leave the other week to sit in a loungewear, watch tv, walk the dog and read.

Who are you to decide how your employees should spend their legally mandated time off.

Jackreacherstrousers · 03/09/2025 06:56

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

And for this very reason I sincerely hope you are never ever considered for a managerial or leadership work role.

A person's leave entitlement is part of their employment contract, if leave is requested and is available then no manager has the right to make a judgement call on how those leave days are used.....🤔

ilovesooty · 03/09/2025 06:56

ML5 · 02/09/2025 23:33

I don’t think my Manager will have a issue
with me taking the 2 days Annual Leave off as it’s just me/work colleague who work together in one section & as long as one of us is in she’s fine with it however she most likely will ask why

It's not her business. You can sit in front of the TV for two days and neck prosecco if you want.

marshmallowfinder · 03/09/2025 06:52

Rather than the day he goes in, when he'll be in there from morning until about 4pm, I'd go to work as normal but then take the following 2 days off to spend actual time with him. It's a nice idea OP!

Summerbay23 · 03/09/2025 06:40

You don’t need to have any reason for using your allowed annual leave, you could literally take it to watch Netflix all day or get your hair done or because you know you’ll have had a big night out the night before. It’s literally no one’s business (including your managers).

Obviously if you want to take it at short notice it might help to have a sympathetic manager but if booking for some time later it shouldn’t matter.

Joystir59 · 03/09/2025 06:33

oviraptor21 · 02/09/2025 23:13

You don't even need to give a reason.
But it seems a pretty good one to me. I guess the day you take your dog in doesn't strictly need the whole day off but the day you collect and even the next day depending on what time you collect you should be there to keep them safe.

Drop the dog off on your way to work, pick up on your way home and take the next two days as annual leave. Itsa good reason for annual leave, your dog needs you.

Newnameshoos · 03/09/2025 06:30

Have done this three times over the years.
I wouldn't waste a day of leave for the day of the op. Work stopped me worrying and took my mind off things.
I dropped my respective dogs off on the way to work and collected them after work (think I finished early to collect about 4pm).
Definitely take leave the day after to sit on the couch and keep DDog from doing too much. Lots of cuddles and box sets on the TV. Especially if dog is a bouncy energetic one. The pain meds work brilliantly!
I found the time I really needed to supervise was when the fur started to grow back where they'd been shaved. Even with collar of shame my boys were trying to lick the shaven area until we got some cream for it from the vet.

KickHimInTheCrotch · 03/09/2025 06:29

I arranged to work from home when my kittens were neutered last year because I just needed to drop them off in the morning and pick them up later. I then took the following 2 days off as AL so I could keep a close eye on them while they recovered.

TheSummerof25 · 03/09/2025 06:23

Also Op - it’s really concerning you feel the need to justify your leave, is there something about your workplace that makes you feel this way? My AL requests go through with the dates on, there’s no reason to add context unless it’s very last minute and you want to to appease your manager.

Letsgoroundagainnow · 03/09/2025 06:22

Your leave OP, take it for what you want!

Our system is on line, days are requested with no reason required.

You don’t need to give a reason.

TheSummerof25 · 03/09/2025 06:21

It’s your leave, you don’t have to justify using it. Do whatever you please.

spoonbillstretford · 03/09/2025 06:19

ML5 · 02/09/2025 23:33

I don’t think my Manager will have a issue
with me taking the 2 days Annual Leave off as it’s just me/work colleague who work together in one section & as long as one of us is in she’s fine with it however she most likely will ask why

Tell her to mind her own business.

Letsgoroundagainnow · 03/09/2025 06:17

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

Are you a manager who deals with annual leave? Do
you afk for reasons for leave? If you do, why?

It’s none of your business!

spoonbillstretford · 03/09/2025 06:17

Why do you need to state a reason for taking annual leave? People take annual leave because you should take annual leave.

Maddy70 · 03/09/2025 06:14

You don't need to my dog was fine that evening it's a waste of holiday days. If you're that concerned book the neutering for a Friday

Queenofheart · 03/09/2025 06:09

ML5 · 02/09/2025 23:12

Fair enough but at the same time I can’t leave dog alone at home & also have to take/pick up from Vets

Maybe you don’t have pets you think the world of and are part of your family!

I would totally do this OP

Zanatdy · 03/09/2025 05:34

Perfectly reasonable to take AL for that. I was able to WFH but otherwise i’d have done the same.

Peptalk2025 · 03/09/2025 05:34

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

Then you'd be a pretty awful manager. It's absolutely none of your business why someone takes their annual leave. They have a set number of days - end of story.

GingerPaste · 03/09/2025 04:42

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

I hope you’re not anyone’s manager then as people are fully entitled to take their time off for any reason or no reason at all. You’re not required to have a ‘good reason’ for taking a day off.

HoppingPavlova · 03/09/2025 04:35

& as long as one of us is in she’s fine with it however she most likely will ask why

That’s not right. A manager has no right to know what people do with their leave. People can go overseas on holiday, camp in their backyard, sit and stare at a wall in their living room, or run a naked marathon. None of this is any business of the employer.

DdraigGoch · 03/09/2025 01:53

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

Who needs a reason to book annual leave?
If I want a day off, I take a day off.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 03/09/2025 01:26

IMissSparkling · 02/09/2025 23:10

I think it's a ridiculous reason to take annual leave and if I was your manager I would be a bit Hmm

Why is it ridiculous... Annual leave is there to use how you want!

MissHollysDolly · 03/09/2025 01:22

ML5 · 02/09/2025 23:33

I don’t think my Manager will have a issue
with me taking the 2 days Annual Leave off as it’s just me/work colleague who work together in one section & as long as one of us is in she’s fine with it however she most likely will ask why

Then just say you’re getting the dog neutered and taking the chance to catch up on life admin.
although tbh if either of you can work at home I’d be doing that to save the annual leave for the beach!

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