I moved to the UK about 14 years ago with the plan to move back home eventually (a country in central Europe)
Despite lots of effort from our side, this hasn't happened (my husband almost lost his job in the UK when a job over there fell through at the last minute)
I feel very guilty for living far away and consequently visit my mum and dad over there regularly - about every 3 months at the least , it's a 2 hour flight. My husband has always been very understanding and supportive and our son (5) loves to go.
The problem is that my parents, (77 and 70- but thankfully absolutely fighting fit!) are very reluctant to visit. They visit once a year at the very most. My mum does get slightly nervous about the travelling but at the same time they go to Italy, Croatia etc on big bus/ car journeys every year and to be honest I'm starting to get irritated about this - they constantly say how much they miss the grandchild but are so hesitant to visit?
AIBU to think they really could visit more?