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Dislike my partner today

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Discoprincess6 · 02/09/2025 11:32

Just a moan really.

My husband is on holiday for 2 weeks so is laying about the house and complaining that he has no space from me because I work from home. He is very untidy and I find this difficult most of the time, but let it go mostly unless I’m hormonal and I get mad.

Im responsible for all aspects of our life from DIY (have to pay someone usually) to cooking and food shop. I do all the cleaning.

Ive told him I feel unloved and suffer from lack of affection. I’m lonely. I’ve told him this to and it’s water of ducks back.

hes going shopping today. I asked him to pick eye cream up for me and I’d transfer him the money. He just point blanked said no to be an idiot not because he isn’t going there. Just made me feel sad.

I feel sad I’m in a relationship with someone who cares little about me. I doubt he loves me: spends his time telling me to go away and be quiet. He said he jokes but I don’t take it like that.

OP posts:
Cloanie · 02/09/2025 12:04

This is what you are calling “ marriage”?

KellyJonesLeatherTrousers · 02/09/2025 12:03

@dodobedo really? That’s the question that springs to mind? Rather than ‘What does he actually bring to your life?’

Shoxfordian · 02/09/2025 12:02

It doesn't sound as though he even likes you, what's the point?

dodobedo · 02/09/2025 12:00

Do you mean cosmetic eye cream or medicinal eye cream?

Sunshineclouds11 · 02/09/2025 11:59

This was me. I was miserable and grew to hate him.

I left. I'm happy.

Tagyoureit · 02/09/2025 11:57

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life feeling like this?

Complet · 02/09/2025 11:36

I think you need to start loving yourself a bit. Why are you doing everything for him, it sounds like you have little self respect. I really don’t know what you see in him, he sounds repulsive.

TreeDudette · 02/09/2025 11:33

He sounds quite unpleasant. You don't have to stay married you know...

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