DSD picking newborn up and putting him back in Moses basket

This. Don’t fret - just like Arnie, they’ll be back !!

You’ve been really unpleasant - not just to the OP, but to others on this thread. You posted that if a PP was saying that OP had been sworn at, then they must be reading a different thread. You also accused them of lying, which was patently untrue. That poster was reading the same thread and so was I. I don’t really care why the FFS’s or the ‘shitty’ comments were made. They were still swearing at OP and it was still within the first few pages. And that’s the second time you’ve flounced off the thread, so l look forward to hearing from you again the next time someone says something you don’t like. Maybe you’re the one who needs to get a grip.

I think because you said the above, other posters went to check if you were lying. And indeed you were.

Next time you're haranguing an OP, take a good look at yourself and question why you're doing it. Perhaps some therapy might help?

Don't let the door hit you on the way out. Byeee......

For crying out loud, because a couple of posters may have written FFS at the end of a sentence, you've actually gone and counted them to prove a point? Bless 😁

Can you not see that FFS was written in exasperation by posters because of the OP's over dramatical (so much so she started a thread about it) concern because her dsd picked the baby up? She didn't harm the baby or hold it by the ears, FFS, see there's another one!
I think she was referred to as a shitty SP, but that was in response to the OP's implication that she should've known that all step parents get a bad wrap on here.

I'm going off this thread now you'll be pleased to know, only because there is no point in responding to your ridiculous posts.
I'm still bewildered by you all going back to literally count how many times OP has been 'sworn at' if that's what you call it.
Get a grip.

I’m not reading a different thread and l counted six FFS’s and one ‘shitty’ in the first six pages.

You’re right, I have got better things to do. There’s some paint I need to watch drying. Honestly I was just gobsmacked at the absolute absurdity of this squabble going into day 3, hence my ‘involving myself’. I’m going to hide the thread now so that I will be unaware of the ongoing bickering!

No, I'm just telling the truth that's all. The comments people have made are there for all to see.

I quoted directly, all from first 5 pages. Looked again, they are still there. So I'd suggest you are the one reading a different thread.

@Didimum we must be reading different threads then.
As for your comments @SomeOfTheTrouble, have you not got anything better to do than to involve yourself either?

I may post again, I may leave this thread now. But whatever I do is none of your concern. HTH

How many days are you going to keep this little fight going on for? Have you not got anything better to do?

I quoted them – yes she was.

She wasn't sworn at least 5 to 6 times on the first few pages.

No need to lie.

This, simples.

P.s. as for the rest of ye bickering children, just stop all the stupid bickering in here , cos ye're making such a blooming racket that you could upset the 4yo baby from here!!

Show her how to pick him up safely.

Foster a loving, protective relationship rather than one of suspicion and mistrust.

You’re asking me why I’m not pulling up Petitchat and quoting her because you think she’s bullying you and whoever else.

You've pulled up loads of unpleasant comments from posters, yet none from the poster I've mentioned, that's because she's team OP, just like you are. What does that say about you?

Uh - yes, because I’ve told you now a few times now that my concern is OP. So leave me out of your bickering or your problems with others.

Now, I understand that OP has just had a baby, but she did choose to post on a public forum

So she’s ripe to be sworn at at least 5-6 times on the first few pages? No, that doesn’t fly.

Nice try trying to absolve yourself of making condescending comments to the OP. That doesn’t fly either.

I agree most of this has been absolute rubbish. The fact is most people wouldn't want a child of 12 picking up a 4 week old baby. If child had asked if she could hold the baby, an appropriate response could be to suggest the child sits on the sofa and has the baby placed in their arms. Providing of course the baby was awake and it was a good time. Perhaps next time she visits that could be suggested. 🙂

So true

Fuck me, are you lot ever going to give up? You’re like a bunch of teenagers, except they generally have better things to be doing than bickering on the internet all day.

Oh really? Is that the best you can do?

Are you serious? Where am I asking you to defend me? And more to the point , why the hell would I want or need you to?, I'm not a bully and I don't side with them either, unlike yourself it seems. Bloody hell, there's no need for you to make stuff up because you don't know what to write.

You've pulled up loads of unpleasant comments from posters, yet none from the poster I've mentioned, that's because she's team OP, just like you are. What does that say about you?
Now, I understand that OP has just had a baby, but she did choose to post on a public forum to ask if she was being unreasonable regarding the step daughter picking the baby up. She was told by many that she was, but also, she DID receive comments regarding her dsd's place in the family unit.

OP hasn't been a shy and retiring character in all of this, and has bitten back at many posters. She might've been better to post in the parenting section, rather than to post on a topic (AIBU) where she would invite differences of opinion.

I think Dancingintherain has set up another profile...yawn