To ask you to recommend a pillow?

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 2025-09-01T18:58:50+00:00

I'm fed up with having to replace them every few months because they have become so uncomfortable that they stop me from sleeping / I wake up with headaches. I dont want animal products or memory foam. I sleep on my side / front. I tend to hug them which is probably part of the issue. I dont mind if they are a bit spendy, I just want comfort that lasts longer than a couple of weeks. 😪 --- *MNHQ Update* Searching for the perfect place to rest your head? Our guide to the [[https://www.mumsnet.com/swearsby/best-pillows best pillows]] is up to date with a wide range of options tried and tested pillows. We hope it’s helpful! [flowers]

Sadworld23 · 07/09/2025 12:18

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 06/09/2025 18:11

It was meant to be delivered yesterday so I WFH. I was delivery number 21. I was literally sat next to the front door from delivery number 18. It still came up as delivery missed. There was a picture of my front door on the email so I have no idea how.

Im so sleep deprived and was so excited at the prospect of a full night's sleep, missing the delivery made me cry!

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Oh how annoying, dunno how deliveries always manage to choose the moment you look away.
Hope it turns up soon, can't wait to hear if its a win..

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 06/09/2025 18:11

Unforgettablefire · 06/09/2025 18:01

Let me know what you think. I have arthritis and it’s a huge help it’s been worth every penny.

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It was meant to be delivered yesterday so I WFH. I was delivery number 21. I was literally sat next to the front door from delivery number 18. It still came up as delivery missed. There was a picture of my front door on the email so I have no idea how.

Im so sleep deprived and was so excited at the prospect of a full night's sleep, missing the delivery made me cry!

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Unforgettablefire · 06/09/2025 18:01

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 03/09/2025 21:10

Ive order a Simba hybrid. Fingers crossed it is the answer to my sleepy prayers!

Let me know what you think. I have arthritis and it’s a huge help it’s been worth every penny.

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 03/09/2025 21:10

Ive order a Simba hybrid. Fingers crossed it is the answer to my sleepy prayers!

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nagnagnag · 02/09/2025 18:47

Latex ones are really supportive. I have this one and love it.

Theraffarian · 01/09/2025 21:07

Fellow side/front sleeper , after working my way through so many pillows I happily settled on the premier inn ones , pack of two, comes with lovely covers . This set have lasted just over 2 years so far .

Unforgettablefire · 01/09/2025 20:59

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:37

With the simba hybrid, can you feel the cubes? I am very sensitive to lumps in pillows.

No definitely not. They’re lovely and you can adjust it to how plush you want it.

Unforgettablefire · 01/09/2025 20:57

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 01/09/2025 20:13

I love my Simba pillow. It's small cubes a bit like a trampoline jump pit. You add however many is comfortable. I've had mine 5 -6 years (with 1 cube top up purchased as I like mine quite bouncy).

I’ll second this. Best thing ever and they pay for themselves don’t they in the long run.

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 01/09/2025 20:50

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:37

With the simba hybrid, can you feel the cubes? I am very sensitive to lumps in pillows.

I can't. They go inside a padded envelope.

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:49

JellyIegs · 01/09/2025 20:41

I know you said no memory foam, but I’m a side sleeper and have been using a Panda memory foam pillow for a few years now. It looks like a solid brick on your bed but it does support your head and neck. Previously I had awful pain in my shoulder. I also like to ‘hug’ a pillow and keep a separate normal pillow for that :)

My daughter has one of those and loves it. Ive tried that and a few others but they are not for me.

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Noodlecat · 01/09/2025 20:48

Dunlopillo - best pillows I’ve ever bought.

merryandbrightdelight · 01/09/2025 20:46

Talkinpeace · 01/09/2025 20:03

These
https://www.argos.co.uk/product/8687360?clickPR=plp:1:108

I converted my whole family two years ago.
They stay cool on the back so can be turned over in an instant in the night.

We had these and they went flat after about 6 months ☹️

Espressoicecream · 01/09/2025 20:43

My dunlopillows are amazing, worth spending £70 on each one a few years back, never had to spend 20 every 2 months again!

JellyIegs · 01/09/2025 20:41

I know you said no memory foam, but I’m a side sleeper and have been using a Panda memory foam pillow for a few years now. It looks like a solid brick on your bed but it does support your head and neck. Previously I had awful pain in my shoulder. I also like to ‘hug’ a pillow and keep a separate normal pillow for that :)

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:37

With the simba hybrid, can you feel the cubes? I am very sensitive to lumps in pillows.

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agoodfriendofthethree · 01/09/2025 20:28

We have the Premier Inn pillows and find them really comfy - so far they have lasted very well (nearly 2 years so far).

applegingermint · 01/09/2025 20:26

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:09

Is is sweaty or noisy/squeeky? I get very hot at night.

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Definitely not noisy or squeaky and I don’t find it hot at all. I’m a side/front sleeper so have the lower height.

whenimnotcleaningwindows · 01/09/2025 20:24

Just tried to see if Amazon had a similar brand to the Otty and found this which is half the price https://www.amazon.co.uk/NOFFA-Memory-Foam-Pillows-Neck/dp/B07KS2VWJ8/ref=sr_1_6?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Q3QgpeWawNnlt_IGFAY2kT1LFVSy7ai7D4C2myiGsQjlvJg3suaKxPgXVBfhdIrfqCO1gPLhw-4UjQAKw1bwVzPqURLjb8_NGdpB9YjABoKw0A_rMRhmW_FeS9P7vXgCG-ceK-T43MK_ftHfpgt9K9wStLRe3bD5gVVTk3onY4tgnO2NJeI2WQGJihF9EmslZLPGUcpk7iR_RrPaaq68w8k_miiwVQozG_fCpMMtSbcB-49F9g729MpBQO8XyA0fon5zb8R6h_EeQy43btIQMRsYmU8hgPWi3dLBV8OuXXc.7bVBBcejApnPYQLmOlxZaP6VhqQjFHn5aTCmK4dmBMQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=otty+pillow&qid=1756754603&sr=8-6

NOFFA Flat Soft Memory Foam Pillow for Neck Support, Ortopedic Pillow for Sleeping, Side Back Sleeper Soft Support Cervical (70 x 38 x 12 cm) : Amazon.co.uk: Home & Kitchen

Great prices on your favourite Home brands, and free delivery on eligible orders.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/NOFFA-Memory-Foam-Pillows-Neck/dp/B07KS2VWJ8/ref=sr_1_6?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Q3QgpeWawNnlt_IGFAY2kT1LFVSy7ai7D4C2myiGsQjlvJg3suaKxPgXVBfhdIrfqCO1gPLhw-4UjQAKw1bwVzPqURLjb8_NGdpB9YjABoKw0A_rMRhmW_FeS9P7vXgCG-ceK-T43MK_ftHfpgt9K9wStLRe3bD5gVVTk3onY4tgnO2NJeI2WQGJihF9EmslZLPGUcpk7iR_RrPaaq68w8k_miiwVQozG_fCpMMtSbcB-49F9g729MpBQO8XyA0fon5zb8R6h_EeQy43btIQMRsYmU8hgPWi3dLBV8OuXXc.7bVBBcejApnPYQLmOlxZaP6VhqQjFHn5aTCmK4dmBMQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=otty%20pillow&qid=1756754603&sr=8-6&tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-am-i-being-unreasonable-5402904-to-ask-you-to-recommend-a-pillow

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:18

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 01/09/2025 20:13

I love my Simba pillow. It's small cubes a bit like a trampoline jump pit. You add however many is comfortable. I've had mine 5 -6 years (with 1 cube top up purchased as I like mine quite bouncy).

🤣 I've literally just said about a pit.

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whenimnotcleaningwindows · 01/09/2025 20:17

Had these for 3 years and all still the same as when bought - firm but comfortable and you can unzip and wash the cover https://otty.com/products/otty-deluxe-pure-bamboo-pillow?_gl=116x92he_upMQ.._gsMQ.._gaMTE5Njc1MzY5OC4xNzU2NzU0MTUw_ga_SRQJVJGNPH*czE3NTY3NTQxNDckbzEkZzAkdDE3NTY3NTQxNjMkajQ0JGwwJGg5NjExNzcyMA..&gclid=CjwKCAjwiNXFBhBKEiwAPSaPCaWqvKp_dEM6h_FCBRAz37lAlHLEBpUQH9D9dJf83Bd5xx4SZ2gYNBoCXagQAvD_BwE&gbraid=0AAAAADRCZ5UJ-dVaXgAFic1CnpBwcxXkg

Bamboo Memory Foam Pillow With Charcoal - OTTY Deluxe Pure Pillow

The OTTY Pure Bamboo Pillow With Charcoal is anti-bacterial, eliminates odours, absorbs excess moisture, and regulates temperature. Great for people with allergies, asthma, sensitive skin and looking for a product that minimises germs.

https://otty.com/products/otty-deluxe-pure-bamboo-pillow?_gl=1*16x92he*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..*_ga*MTE5Njc1MzY5OC4xNzU2NzU0MTUw*_ga_SRQJVJGNPH*czE3NTY3NTQxNDckbzEkZzAkdDE3NTY3NTQxNjMkajQ0JGwwJGg5NjExNzcyMA..&gbraid=0AAAAADRCZ5UJ-dVaXgAFic1CnpBwcxXkg&gclid=CjwKCAjwiNXFBhBKEiwAPSaPCaWqvKp_dEM6h_FCBRAz37lAlHLEBpUQH9D9dJf83Bd5xx4SZ2gYNBoCXagQAvD_BwE

RoseAlone · 01/09/2025 20:15

AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:12

Off to Google. Thanks.

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I've used these and binned them, they didn't last any length of time for me before they were flat and hopeless.

If you have a harry corry anywhere near you, they have a vast selection of pillows that you can actually feel. I've never found anywhere with so many actually on display and unwrapped. It might be worth a look.

BunMum26 · 01/09/2025 20:14

I agree with pp, latex. I’ve had my dunlopillo for 2 years and will never go back. Doesn’t get hot or sweaty and I’m also a side/stomach sleeper and have never found a more comfortable pillow. Worth the expense.

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:14

Mimsykins · 01/09/2025 20:07

Simba Hybrid. Worth every penny. I even take it on holiday with me..

Just goggling. The video makes the cubes look like those big foam pits. 🤣

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HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 01/09/2025 20:13

I love my Simba pillow. It's small cubes a bit like a trampoline jump pit. You add however many is comfortable. I've had mine 5 -6 years (with 1 cube top up purchased as I like mine quite bouncy).

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AlanAtSnapeMaltings · 01/09/2025 20:12

Talkinpeace · 01/09/2025 20:03

These
https://www.argos.co.uk/product/8687360?clickPR=plp:1:108

I converted my whole family two years ago.
They stay cool on the back so can be turned over in an instant in the night.

Off to Google. Thanks.

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