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School stopping Meat Free Monday doesn’t make any sense

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Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 18:59

Our schools trust has recently stopped being part of Meat Free Monday for school lunches. The school have said some parents complained about it.

The school is very focused on being environmentally conscious- crisps not allowed as a break time snack due to potential errant packets, single use plastic actively discouraged etc. I can’t see a single reason why a school or a parent would have any issue with lunches being meat free for one day a week but maybe I’m missing something?

You are being unreasonable- being meat free for one meal is not a reasonable request

You are not being unreasonable -being meat free for one school meal is not a bad thing

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Strawberryorangejuice · 01/09/2025 21:32

I wouldn't like it. My child struggles with food. She likely has ARFID. Most vegetarian meals wouldn't work for her. There should be a meat option in my opinion.

Superscientist · 01/09/2025 21:30

Its pretty much impossible to feed my daughter without meat due to multiple food allergies. She has a completely bespoke menu due to the complexity of her allergies

BogRollBOGOF · 01/09/2025 21:27

Meat-free/ vegetarian at my DC's primary school either involved quorn or random ultra-processed vegan "plant based" not-food (because it's described as what it isn't not what it actually is). It has less in common with a plant than an economy sausage has in common with a pig.

With a low tolerance to soya, "plant-based" not-food is a bloody nightmare.

I enjoy a lot of decent quality naturally vegetarian food, but vegan is a pain in the arse. Literally. Thanks soya intolerance.

Meat-free Monday was a cheap gimmick green washed as environmentalism and the reality tends to be unappealling, low quality, processed stuff, not healthy food made with recognisable plants.

Simpleturnip · 01/09/2025 21:24

TheGreatWesternShrew · 01/09/2025 20:34

Why would lack of meat affect a gluten allergy?

I have explained above, many meat substitues contain wheat/gluten. Throw in a dairy allergy and it rules out a lot of options whereas I know I can get a good meal if its meat or fish based. A healthy vegetarian diet is often harder to achieve for those with allergies.

HeddaGarbled · 01/09/2025 21:24

Schools aren’t going to source local meat from local farmers! School meals are mostly out-sourced to private catering companies and run on a shoestring.

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 21:19

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 21:08

I’m not focused on either. I don’t work in catering and do not involved with sourcing. The school my DC go to doesn’t often offer fake meat - tend to do lentil bolognese for veg option vs beef bolognese for meat option type offerings

So why is it important to you that dc who want to eat meat are stopped from doing so?

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 21:08

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 21:05

Why aren't you more focused on sourcing local meats from local farmers rather than providing rubbish tvp?

I’m not focused on either. I don’t work in catering and do not involved with sourcing. The school my DC go to doesn’t often offer fake meat - tend to do lentil bolognese for veg option vs beef bolognese for meat option type offerings

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PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 21:05

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 20:49

I’m not upset at all. I’m curious to hear what other views are on this and some responses have been thought provoking. I’m not asking from the perspective of vegetarians. I’m interested in understanding what’s behind people refuting or not caring about the known benefit of reducing meat consumption on the environment.

Why aren't you more focused on sourcing local meats from local farmers rather than providing rubbish tvp?

The8thOfThe7Dwarfs · 01/09/2025 20:57

I have no problem in principle with meat free Monday despite working within the meat industry and being 'pro' meat.
My problem is often the substitute in these setting is not more environment friendly, and is also often much more processed. If it was local seasonal produce that would great and I would support that but often it isn't. As a parent I would be complaining if my child was bring fed processed quorn instead of chicken for example.

Lucy5678 · 01/09/2025 20:54

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/09/2025 20:43

Here, it's spicy chicken wings and rice, followed by fruit (or pastries at breaktime). If somebody's paying around fifteen-plus quid a week, they're going to want something available that the kid will actually eat.

Yes - meals here are £2.80 and as well as expecting it to be something child will eat, parents also regarded pasta with tomato sauce or macaroni cheese and the like as a very cheap meal they could make themselves for less than £2.80. I’m well aware of wages, energy prices etc but a lot of parents just weren’t willing to pay that for pasta and sent a packed lunch. They will, and do, pay happily for a roast dinner, fish Friday, chicken curry and the like.

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 20:49

SpryUmberZebra · 01/09/2025 20:34

And why does there need to be a non meat day? How does it impact vegetarians at the school? As long as vegetarians have their options and meat eaters have their options I can’t see why you’re upset. You seem to want ensure there’s a day where meat eaters must adhere to a vegan or vegetarian diet.

I’m not upset at all. I’m curious to hear what other views are on this and some responses have been thought provoking. I’m not asking from the perspective of vegetarians. I’m interested in understanding what’s behind people refuting or not caring about the known benefit of reducing meat consumption on the environment.

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Cosyblankets · 01/09/2025 20:43

tripleginandtonic · 01/09/2025 19:54

This. Why force vegetarian/vegan food on people? There should be a choice of meat/ non meat every day.

Fully agree

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/09/2025 20:43

Vitriolinsanity · 01/09/2025 20:26

Every school in England didn’t collectively decide on Meat Free days. These directives, as well as the balance of food, is ordained by the DfE.

With a school menu, attempting to fulfil those requirements and making food children want to eat is a challenge that makes you want to lay down and weep.

Multiply that by several hundred kids, SEN kids with sensory requirements, allergies, religious preference, diabetics and coeliac children and children you know full well don’t get to eat healthily or well at home you get a better idea of that challenge.

I can tell you the crowd pleasers are Mac and Cheese, Cauliflower and Broccoli bake, Roasts, and Toad in Hole.

Here, it's spicy chicken wings and rice, followed by fruit (or pastries at breaktime). If somebody's paying around fifteen-plus quid a week, they're going to want something available that the kid will actually eat.

UsernameMcUsername · 01/09/2025 20:41

Vitriolinsanity · 01/09/2025 20:26

Every school in England didn’t collectively decide on Meat Free days. These directives, as well as the balance of food, is ordained by the DfE.

With a school menu, attempting to fulfil those requirements and making food children want to eat is a challenge that makes you want to lay down and weep.

Multiply that by several hundred kids, SEN kids with sensory requirements, allergies, religious preference, diabetics and coeliac children and children you know full well don’t get to eat healthily or well at home you get a better idea of that challenge.

I can tell you the crowd pleasers are Mac and Cheese, Cauliflower and Broccoli bake, Roasts, and Toad in Hole.

I wish it were otherwise, but the gap between what kids will eat and what the powers that be would like them to eat is pretty massive, with schools stuck in the middle And schools are massively under pressure on meal budgets - the three big costs for a school kitchen are food, energy and wages (mostly minimum wage) and as we all know all of those have gone up & up.

lizhmj · 01/09/2025 20:40

Can you imagine if we started a meat only day.

there should be choice for all, every day.

AnimalFarm567 · 01/09/2025 20:39

My child is allergic to dairy and eggs so meat free Mondays would be quite restrictive. Veggie options are always covered in cheese and more often than not have some egg in it.

He's not school age yet but I wouldn't be thrilled by meat free Monday. At home he eats lots of fish, but I can't imagine a school serving him sardines or roast salmon as part of veggie Monday.

UsernameMcUsername · 01/09/2025 20:37

My guess- having seen all this from the other side- is that the school found that school meal take up was very low on meat free days, which schools can't afford, so they scrapped it. That's probably the real reason. IME vegetarian / vegan options in schools are pretty poor & take up is very low.

ManyATrueWord · 01/09/2025 20:36

Meat free seems to mean "carbs and fat" here. Not healthy or filling or delicious. They have fishy Friday every week, which is meat free.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 01/09/2025 20:34

Bushmillsbabe · 01/09/2025 19:27

As others have said, this may have causes issues for children with allergies,coeliac disease etc. My daughters school has just completely changed their menu, and it has been an absolute nightmare for her as coeliac. The new provider uses extra cheap meat, with lots of fillers - gluten. So she is having to become a vegetarian at school - which isn't an issue if it was fresh food - she loves fresh veggies etc more than meat, but they often have meat replacements in them which also often contain gluten, so we are now a bit stuffed.

Why would lack of meat affect a gluten allergy?

SpryUmberZebra · 01/09/2025 20:34

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:07

Still a veggie option everyday but they’ve just stopped being part of meat free Monday where no one was offered meat.

And why does there need to be a non meat day? How does it impact vegetarians at the school? As long as vegetarians have their options and meat eaters have their options I can’t see why you’re upset. You seem to want ensure there’s a day where meat eaters must adhere to a vegan or vegetarian diet.

lizhmj · 01/09/2025 20:33

Glenkirie larder glenshee.

campaign to stop ultra processed food in schools and increase choice of fresh local produce.

SpryUmberZebra · 01/09/2025 20:31

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:06

They’ve said it’s to do with some parents not liking it but didn’t specify why. The food choices on meat free days were not any more processed than offerings on other days ie not fake meat

I don’t get why there needs to be a meat free day, everyday there should be both meat based and non meat based options to choose from.

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 20:31

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:07

Still a veggie option everyday but they’ve just stopped being part of meat free Monday where no one was offered meat.

But why? If the dc want to eat meat, and there's a healthy option, why should they be prevented from this because of adults political agendas?

Vitriolinsanity · 01/09/2025 20:26

Every school in England didn’t collectively decide on Meat Free days. These directives, as well as the balance of food, is ordained by the DfE.

With a school menu, attempting to fulfil those requirements and making food children want to eat is a challenge that makes you want to lay down and weep.

Multiply that by several hundred kids, SEN kids with sensory requirements, allergies, religious preference, diabetics and coeliac children and children you know full well don’t get to eat healthily or well at home you get a better idea of that challenge.

I can tell you the crowd pleasers are Mac and Cheese, Cauliflower and Broccoli bake, Roasts, and Toad in Hole.

AlertEagle · 01/09/2025 20:24

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:07

Still a veggie option everyday but they’ve just stopped being part of meat free Monday where no one was offered meat.

Tbh thats fine as long as there is vegetarian for the vegetarians then its fine.

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