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To tell you that I gave blood today?

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MadameDeveria · 31/08/2025 17:05

and to ask that if you haven’t done it before (and are able to), you make an appointment to give blood?

You usually have to book at least a couple of months in advance.

Today I made my 30th donation!

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midlifeattheoasis · 31/08/2025 20:18

I used to give blood regularly (got my silver badge!), but had a blood transfusion years ago so can’t anymore.

As a result of this my husband started to give blood, but he’s on blood thinners now so can’t either!

RoverReturn · 31/08/2025 19:55

Last time I tried to give blood I couldn't book for about 6 months. Sorry that doesn't work for me.

I actually followed it up and they said that they didn't need blood as much as they previously had.

Tagyoureit · 31/08/2025 19:51

Such a worthy cause!! I gave blood frequently but now that I received a transfusion, i can no longer donate and im really upset by it!! I would if I could!

Though I do send DH along 🤣

GleisZwei · 31/08/2025 19:22

Not everyone can - health reasons and geographical reasons can prevent folk donating.

MigGril · 31/08/2025 19:20

Well done OP and thank you. I haven't been able to give blood for years due to medication but always feel guilty about it.

I try to encourage DH instead.

MeridaBrave · 31/08/2025 19:18

Figsandtreesandleaves · 31/08/2025 18:53

Is that true? I was never told that! I was told that my medical condition meant I wasn’t allowed? And does everyone know that they’ve ever been given blood?

Yes that’s true. Once received can never donate.

Cliffedge25 · 31/08/2025 19:02

I’m in next Sunday to donate my 13th bag of blood.

I float on air once I’ve donated because my one bag of blood (apparently) treats up to 4 premature babies as it is free of a particular virus that a large percentage of the adult population carry.

I never miss and take supplemental iron & multivitamins so I keep topped up between donations.
It’s a privilege to do. Plus the biscuits are good 😊

Figsandtreesandleaves · 31/08/2025 18:53

TribeofFfive · 31/08/2025 18:00

Once you’ve received blood, you’re not eligible to donate. It’s a shame as I would love to give back after my transfusion.

Is that true? I was never told that! I was told that my medical condition meant I wasn’t allowed? And does everyone know that they’ve ever been given blood?

ScrambledEggs12 · 31/08/2025 18:30

I'm up to 43 now. Over the years it has got harder and harder to donate I've found - less sessions, less locations, more rules (e.g. no longer allowed to take children with you, not allowed to retry if they fail to get your blood the first time....)

I hope to get up to 50 at least.

TribeofFfive · 31/08/2025 18:00

Figsandtreesandleaves · 31/08/2025 17:52

I received blood as a child and I’d love to give blood. But I have a medical condition which means I’m not allowed. Personally, I’d give it a go! I don’t have anything that can be passed to anyone else, it could just be a bit unpleasant for me, but I’d risk it if they’d let me.

Once you’ve received blood, you’re not eligible to donate. It’s a shame as I would love to give back after my transfusion.

Toasted · 31/08/2025 17:58

Well done and thank you to all who have donated. It gave my family some extra time with a loved one recently for which we are truely grateful 🙏 I have since signed up and waiting to donate

TribeofFfive · 31/08/2025 17:58

MadameDeveria · 31/08/2025 17:05

and to ask that if you haven’t done it before (and are able to), you make an appointment to give blood?

You usually have to book at least a couple of months in advance.

Today I made my 30th donation!

I just want to thank you and all the others who donate. I needed 2 units of blood at the start of the summer and I felt so grateful immediately. I got to go on our summer holiday which I didn’t think I would be able to do and feel so much better since.

Berlinlover · 31/08/2025 17:57

Thank you. I was diagnosed with cancer nearly two years ago and have had two blood transfusions. I’m very grateful for people like you.

AnneLovesGilbert · 31/08/2025 17:57

I can’t donate so I’m hugely grateful to those of you who do, thank you!

SauvignonBlanche · 31/08/2025 17:56

Well done OP and all you other donors. 👏

I believe we’re still on amber alert for O -ve blood, we were constantly making plans for wether we could go ahead with elective surgery at one point.

Sorry to hear that there’s only 2% of people donating, I’d love to but am unable to, DS does it for the family as he’s the only one eligible.

LhudeSingCuccu · 31/08/2025 17:54

Well done. We’d be buggered without blood donors. Anyone that can, should.

54 donations here 😊

Figsandtreesandleaves · 31/08/2025 17:52

I received blood as a child and I’d love to give blood. But I have a medical condition which means I’m not allowed. Personally, I’d give it a go! I don’t have anything that can be passed to anyone else, it could just be a bit unpleasant for me, but I’d risk it if they’d let me.

MeridaBrave · 31/08/2025 17:49

i have done 55 donations. If anyone has been anaemic try taking spatone regularly, will fix the aneamia. I’m O- so they chase me if i am even a day late to donate.

Lifebeganat50 · 31/08/2025 17:49

Well done to all the donors on here!

I’ve donated since I was 21, had a break for a few years when the kids were small, but think I’ve done 35.
I’ve recently switched to giving plasma, which you can do every 4 weeks rather than 16 for blood

cryinglaughing · 31/08/2025 17:46

MadameDeveria · 31/08/2025 17:36

@cryinglaughing is it really only 2%? That is shockingly low!

Yes, it said on my letter from when I donated about 3 weeks ago it was 2%.

They don't seem to campaign to encourage more people to give, maybe they have found it isn't worth the financial outlay for the amount of new donors that sign up.

It's a shame more people don't think to do it.

mummysmagicmedicine · 31/08/2025 17:45

I can’t donate blood, plasma, stem cells etc due to a chronic condition but I admire the people like you who can and do. Most people receiving blood are in the most unimaginable circumstances and this could truly happen to anyone which is why it’s so important to give if you can.

HansHolbein · 31/08/2025 17:43

Well done you! I’m O- so always donate. Think I’ve done it about 25 times now. Of course, I only go for the orange club biscuits at the end Grin

bugalugs45 · 31/08/2025 17:36

cryinglaughing · 31/08/2025 17:34

Are you anaemic on the finger tip test, or generally anaemic?

They have recently changed how they test for anaemia because they were turning away do many people.
If your blood doesn't sink in the solution, rather than prick another finger and put it in the machine, they take blood from your arm.
Apparently, this has proven more accurate and allowed more people to donate.

Unless you have been told not to try again, it may be worth trying again.

Only 2% of eligible people donate, that is shockingly low ☹️

I was the same but a multi vitamin with iron from boots
or supermarket taken over the last decade meant I never had another low reading ever again!

MadameDeveria · 31/08/2025 17:36

@cryinglaughing is it really only 2%? That is shockingly low!

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SparrowSally · 31/08/2025 17:35

I've donated 25 pints so far (last one about 2 weeks ago!).
My dog is also signed up to be a blood donor, so it's definitely in the family 🤣. He had his first session a few months ago. As it was his first one, we didn't get to the donation part (normal on a first try), but we're going again in a few weeks.