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Would you like to round up to £1? No I fucking wouldnt.

384 replies

DavAtTheCampaignForMoreBankHolidays · 31/08/2025 15:28

I cant be the only one who is getting increasingly pissed off at being asked to donate 20p everytine I pay for something?

The recent one in a charity shop was being asked to round up to the nearest pound AND then being asked to donate 25p. In fact, it wasnt even asked, it was "shall I round it up?" and "press green to say yes".

I always end up feeling really tight but apart from the fact that it would cost a fortune if I gave a donation every time I was asked, I really resent that businesses get tax relief for this whilst also bragging that they donated £x to charity.

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MasterBeth · 01/09/2025 14:55

ChiefCakeTestertoMaryBerry · 31/08/2025 15:41

Oxfam price something at say £19.99 and then ask if you want to round up to £20. Just charge £20 if you want £20!

Yeah, bloody Oxfam scum gouging you out of 1p!

nomas · 01/09/2025 14:53

Yes, I prefer to give charity directly, not via supermarkets.

Whose to say their systems/staff are even adept at separating the charitable donations from the cost of the shopping. I certainly wouldn't trust them.

I work in a related industry, things like this often go wrong.

Coconutter24 · 01/09/2025 14:52

DavAtTheCampaignForMoreBankHolidays · 31/08/2025 15:45

Yes they can. They can remove the charitable donations (that customers make!) from their profits.

As someone above said, they arent doing it out of the kindness of their heart!

They remove the donations from their profits because it isn’t Tescos money. By collecting the donations they don’t get any extra profit. When they donate all the money raised to the charity its comes of what would be the profits before the company’s tax is calculated.

MyLimeGuide · 01/09/2025 14:50

It used to be 1 or 2p, the charities were doing really well out of it, i didn't mind that...then they got greedy and now no one likes it.

BIossomtoes · 01/09/2025 14:45

Jiski · 01/09/2025 14:41

I hate it! It should be banned as I bet lots of older people feel obliged or end up pressing the wrong buttons.

Do you think “older people” (how much older?) suddenly become incapable of saying no or differentiating between buttons? I’m so sick of this ageist crap on MN.

Jiski · 01/09/2025 14:41

I hate it! It should be banned as I bet lots of older people feel obliged or end up pressing the wrong buttons.

Jollyhockeystickss · 01/09/2025 14:37

I say i cant see i dont have my glasses on i just want to pay or i have said i just want to bloody pay, i was asked to leave a tip in Boots and id spent £1.25!

Franpie · 31/08/2025 18:42

No one needs to feel guilty if they say no or press the no thanks button.

The retailer doesn’t care whether or not you donate. They are giving you the option. The shop assistant especially doesn’t care.

sleeppleasesoon · 31/08/2025 18:40

AugustSlippedAwayIntoAMomentInTime · 31/08/2025 17:16

Same

I knew someone who used it when their child had cancer.

It's one of the few I regularly do round up/tip on or put all my loose change in their collection boxes.

McDonald’s makes extortionate profits. It would be spare change for them to build those places.

It’s shameful they ask working people to donate. They’d be the last ‘charity’ I’d donate to.

immalesorry · 31/08/2025 18:37

PauliesWalnuts · 31/08/2025 15:37

I refuse. They donate and say oh, this is from “insert retailer name here” when it’s the customers doing the donating.

Perhaps I'm missing something here, but I've tended to the view that the important part of giving to charity is that a worthwhile cause is supported, not that my name gets publicity about the 20p I've donated.

FastMauveQuoter · 31/08/2025 18:28

I always decline and don't feel one iota of guilt. I give regularly to my chosen charities and won't be guilt tripped. One advantage of getting older I suppose.

SchrodingersParrot · 31/08/2025 18:25

It's annoying constantly being asked.

Absolutely. You're made to feel mean if you say no, and I think the shops rely on that to guilt-trip you into agreeing.

If I buy something and I'm asked to round up the payment, I say "I'd rather not, because it isn't my money. I'm buying this for someone else."

Sunnysideup999 · 31/08/2025 18:25

All the questions and button pressing drives me mad. I just want to buy my milk and get out.
i donate generously to charities of my choosing out of household budget not my grocery budget .

ItsNotYou852 · 31/08/2025 18:22

Strider55 · 31/08/2025 17:21

I hate it as well. Why don't these companies who earn billions ever single year start rounding up to a £1 on what their customers spend and donating money to charity instead of asking their customers.

Maybe sacrifice those huge bonuses the CEOs and board of directors are getting. Oh, and pay their staff fairly and stop treating them like crap while they're at it.

This
And I will choose my own charities to donate to thanks, not the ones where only 2p in the pound goes to the actual cause!

ns87 · 31/08/2025 18:21

Yes, I am sick of companies doing this, especially supermarkets.

Jigglypuffff · 31/08/2025 18:14

Oh I just had this today, in Uniqlo - it popped up on the self service screen. I was particularly irritated by the choice of options increasing from I think £1 down to £5, with the ‘not now’ option tucked at the bottom of the screen just below the £5. Not only in a darker colour so hard to make out if your eyes aren’t sharp, but also placed so that those of us with fat / clumsy fingers are at risk of hitting the £5 by mistake!

StepAwayFromGoogling · 31/08/2025 18:13

I'm not sure where anyone is getting the idea that it is any kind of tax break for the company. It isn't. I work at a retailer. We do round up at the tills from time to time. Every penny goes to the charity and they make HUGE amounts from it so I do it every single time I'm asked, because I know how much that money means to the charities it goes to. If you don't want to donate, just say (or press) no. It's not hard.

dynamiccactus · 31/08/2025 18:09

I say no, I don't care what people (or a machine!) think of me. I have my selected charities that I donate to via GAYE and I am a member of a few other charities like my local wildlife trust.

I also might not like the retailer's chosen charity anyway. Not all charities are good causes for all people.

RenovatingTimes · 31/08/2025 18:09

It’s even worse when they ask you at the till and you say no. I do donate to charities so I’m not donating more at the till. Still makes me feel ashamed when I say no.

OhNoNotSusan · 31/08/2025 18:04

at coop you have to press how your service was at the manned checkout,
i wonder what the check out operator would do if you put the angry face

BrightYellowDaffodil · 31/08/2025 18:01

YANBU. Superdrug are particularly bad for this.

Middlemarch123 · 31/08/2025 18:00

I donate to charities of my choosing.
This grinds my gears. Holland and Barrett, Superdrug, I’m looking at you.
I don’t want to donate, I don’t want countless emails, I just want to buy my items and go,

Friendlygingercat · 31/08/2025 17:58

The one that ticks me off is companies and chuggers unwilling to take a small cash donation and wanting me to set up a direct debit by giving me their bank details. Like Im going to give away such sensitive information to some random who stops me in the street or knocks at my door. Yeah, right!

OneFlewOverMy · 31/08/2025 17:57

I always say NO loudly with the biggest smile. I already do 12 charities a month on standing order !

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 31/08/2025 17:54

Never give anything to so called charity. They are businesses and in a lot of cases criminal enterprises.