Couple having sex in front of window

Definitely exhibitionists. They know that people live within view of their large uncovered windows.There has been a lot of comments like 'It's their own business 'and 'dont look' well sorry I would not want my young kids Subject to this .I would actually go and say something. This woke do whatever you want and fuck everyone else attitude sure stinks.

What a load of crap.

OP leave a passive aggressive note (normally completely unacceptable, but ok for this instance) saying every window they can see has people being subjected to their sex life.
Also say if you’re being coerced into displaying your sex-life that it is a crime and maybe women’s aid can help with that.

(obviously needs a rewrite but you get the message)

I don’t agree. When I was younger I used to dress in front of an uncurtained window at night with the light on. I didn’t realise that people could see me. With light turned off, no problem. Someone told me which was a bit embarrassing but far better than continuing undressing so people could see me. I would drop a note perhaps.

Put a note through their door. They might not even realise they can be seen.

The loft window will not be on the moon you know. It's perfectly easy to see into a loft window if people are shagging right by it. 🙄(Especially if they have the lights on.) It's just a few feet above the bedroom windows.

In all seriousness, they may not realise how visible they are.

My mum likes to wander around her bedroom half clad with the curtains open, and I remember going to our neighbours' house to babysit when I was a teenager and realising that they must be getting a front row view of my mum's tits every day from their living room window.

You could leave them a note saying, "Please close your curtains, our children can see you having sex."

Stranger things have happened. I did briefly wonder if this couple were on Only Fans or similar and were going about their 'job' with the cameras on them, needing the curtains open to maximise the light. Well stranger things and all that ....

Had you considered blinds for your house? I’d tell you to stop looking through my windows if that letter appeared on my doorstep, or even forward to the police: peeping toms! Are you in a newbuild by chance? They are often very clumsily squished into landscapes in my opinion.

Honestly, the last thing I would want to do is draw the attention of someone with at the very least a probable exhibitionism kink to my specific children, or give that person the ability to picture anyone in my family as the audience next time they do it.

I'd "tell" them, not in a "I don't want me/ my husband/ children to see" but in a "giving you a quick heads up, we're you aware that neighbours CAN see you" kind of way.
My own neighbours teenage daughter used to have a shower, and then practise singing, in the nudes, in front of her mirror. I just went over to flag it up. Not because she was "wrong" for doing it, but because she was unaware that she was exposing herself in this way.

And reviewing the links kindly provided by others, emphasising to the police that (a) they are visible to children / minors, and (b) that you are distressed by it, meets the threshold for prosecution. Not that the police would necessarily go down that road (at first), just that they would have an offence to take seriously. Intent is also necessary, eg so maybe the police would warn them in the knowledge that if an offence is likely if they repeat it.

They need to turn the light off firstly

How old are your kids? If they are maybe 5 or 6 I would walk past the neighbours' house on your way everywhere and tell your kids to point and say really loudly, "Mummy, I saw that man's willy through the window!" really loudly the next time you pass them on the street.

I would not write a note or contact them directly in any way - if they're exhibitionists they might get off even more on being able to picture the exact people or children who might be seeing them having sex.

I'd either make any contact anonymous (and I'd focus on how they are soon going to be reported to the police, not on asking them to think about who might be seeing them - they don't care and they might even like that), or I'd go straight for the non-urgent police enquiry.

Obviously it’s not a mile away.

https://www.tylerhoffman.co.uk/blog/can-you-be-charged-indecent-exposure-your-own-home

You can take it further if you want to.

I would have thought this was indecent exposure and is a criminal offence. To have sex in a big window with the lights on is not accidental! I am no prude but I wouldn't want to see it and definitely not want my young children to either. I would have a word with the police.

For all those saying that they can do what they want in their own home and the OP should look away - would you feel the same if it was a man stood naked in the window masturbating in full view of your children?

I wouldn’t want my kids to see that. I suspect if you drop them a note saying both us and the neighbours have seen you at it and my husband was in our young children’s bedroom and would really rather they didn’t see it could go both ways but the chances are very high that they would sort it out.

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I absolutely agree. It’s not in the privacy of their own home if it’s in front of a full height window with the lights on. I’m surprised people think this is acceptable.

The distance involved is critical to make a proper evaluation. People (not least the police) would take a different view of events if it turn out the offending house was indeed a mile away.

A note advising that your birdwatch camera has picked up them having sex…but that you managed to intervene on this occasion before oblivious DC posted it to Tiktok…

@doremifaso pretty sure I have read about men being charged by police for masturbating in front of their windows in view of people! surely that law would apply in this instance too? it is classed as a sex act in public view

Need more info ? . What part of two bollock naked dog humpers with floodlights and no curtains dont they get