Couple having sex in front of window

Its called outraging public decency.
They must know people can see them..
Report them to the police

Yes anonymous note "sorry this may be slightly embarrassing but I've seen you having sex through your window, please could you close the curtains? Thanks"

Not sure how anonymous it would be as not sure how many people have a view of this window?

I think I'd only be bothered if my children were young.

If they were older it wouldn't bother me so much.

But yeah it very inappropriate for young children and also can see it's offensive to anyone of any age but personally I wouldn't be bothered if it was infrequent. I'd just look away.

Failing that suppose it would be reporting it to the police next.

Once on Monday.
Once on Tuesday
Once on Wednesday
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it's all a bit Craig David now.

Whilst I can see why your unhappy and I do think they are inconsiderate. Surely you can get blinds for your kids room?

There is ofc a small risk of them peeking though. They likely think they are high enough not to be noticed.

You could write to them i dont see the harm but I wouldnt take it any further if they do not comply. I think if you explained that their window is in full view of childrens bedrooms they would do something to ensure they are no longer seen. Even if its just turning the light off.

I think people having a go here are not appreciating that its your kids seeing this that your bothered about which is completely understandable and I would have exactly the same concerns

Your husband seems like he made very close observation.

Yes, that might help. You say the distance is less than a mile. I couldn't see what people were doing through the windows of houses opposite me, I might have seen vague movements but not be able to identify what they were doing without a telescope. It's about a hundred yards from my old house to the post box and I certainly couldn't see in anyone's window that far away, definitely no willies or boobs.

How has it been resolved?

Apologies. Duplicate post because of the silly issue with text remaining long after posting

It has never been proven that intelligence and humour are related.

I believe.

Exactly. I don't know who all these posters are who have no issues with children seeing people have sex, but I wouldn't want them anywhere near my children that's for sure!

It's all bullshit!

If the OP had said my dc accidentally saw me having sex she would be told her dc would grow up to be a serial killer, need therapy, call social services, blah blah.

Omg it was a joke. Sorry forgot to add “joke” at the end! Also don't lob eggs. That was a joke too 🤦🏻‍♀️

These ridiculous close your curtains responses. It is not acceptable to be exposing yourselves to others. Despite being in their own house they are behind floor to ceiling windows with a light on at night - I expect that is pretty visible from all around even quite some distance!
How is that acceptable for kids who could be watching? You can’t expect parents to permanently be on the look out and closing curtains all the time!

Lots of wine…..☺️

Absolutely DO NOT put their photo on facebook, faces blurred or not!!!

@MovingOn2025 awful advice, that would be a criminal act.

Exactly. I don't know who all these posters are who have no issues with children seeing people have sex, but I wouldn't want them anywhere near my children that's for sure!

How was it resolved?

:-). that is brilliant!

Seriously, I doubt very much this couple are intentionally having sex publicly. They probably have no idea they can be seen and would be embarrassed if they knew.

This appeals to my sense of humour 😂👏👏👏 Best comment IMHO

Does make me wonder whether they believe they've had privacy film fitted, which has been missed - is often a requirement on developments with large windows that are overlooked/ overlooking.

Some of these posts are classic contrary MNs!

I’d tell you to stop looking through my windows if that letter appeared on my doorstep, or even forward to the police: peeping toms!

Close your curtains you weirdo!

Firstly, id go and have a word. As excruciatingly embarrassing as it will be. If they wont stop, id Take a photo, blur the faces and pop it on your local spotted fb page to publicly shame them! Alternatively, ask the police for advice to see if they can speak to them as its in full view of young kids, surely theres some law there even if its in their own home. You could also get the deck chairs out and a 15 pack of eggs and start lobbing them at the window whilst theyre mid shag 🤷🏻‍♀️🤭 that would piss them off and put a stop to it!

We had this in a flat share once, our living room faced their bedroom. It was a summer evening so windows were open and we couldn't help but piss ourselves laughing. I don't think it was intentional judging by how they stopped & the curtains were never left open again 😆😆

😂

They sound like a pair of exhibitionists who are deliberately having sex in full view of others. I don't think this is any different to a man or woman standing at the large, visible window with lights on pleasuring themselves alone in full view of everyone. I expect the reactions would be different though.

If you found out your shagging was in full view of a child's bedroom you wouldn't stop shagging in front of your floor to ceiliing curtainless windows?

There's a word for someone who knowingly has sex in potential view of children

You might consider a quiet word with them as they might not realise just how much people can see……perhaps they think, because it’s an upper floor that no one can observe them. Do they not realise that someone could actually be covertly filming them to use against them? There are some really powerful lenses available so capturing all their bedroom action would be so easy with the right equipment.
Also point out that your prime concern is the fact that your own children might see them.

I don't think you understand safeguarding. That's what I think.

Haha! Yes, you have completely understood me. And I am most certainly ‘made up’ and am actually a robot typing this answer.

Could you be any more ridiculous. 😀

Just because I don’t like Benny Hill humour (which is the only humour worth a giggle apparently).