Couple having sex in front of window

I had an elderly uncle that like to walk around with no clothes on. He got a warning letter (I think from the police - maybe the council). This was within his own home so anyone who reported him must’ve seen him through the window.

So next time you see it nip round and lean on their doorbell until they are interrupted

Just giving two extremes to make the point. I personally wouldn't call the house at the bottom of my garden 'a distance away' either. We don't know what the OP means

A quick google suggests that people can be charged with indecent exposure even if they are in their own home, so I would suggest contacting the police on the non emergency number to see if they would send an officer round to have a quick word. The threat of prosecution if it happens again might be enough to stop them.

I'd write a note saying they've been seen on more than one occasion by neighbours and that if my DC see them I will be reporting them to police. In fact scrap that, I think I'd just go straight to a police report. What's the point in turning it into a game for them. There's no way they aren't aware people can see them through a massive window.

This is what I would do. x

Of course, the benny hill type responses are all par for the course.

If it’s a mile away, how would OP and her family be able to see clearly ? 🤦‍♀️Don’t be silly.
It’s clearly within eyeline and noticeable.
Some husbands/fathers would be round at that house like a flash sorting that particular issue out.

Posters are being deliberately disingenuous to try to appear "cool". It's a very weird aspect of this forum.

Agree. It was the same on the thread about the DH wanking in bed beside his wife.

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seriously though op, it’s not the end of the world. Your kids are likely to be more focussed on their own activities. Even if they did see, you could explain in a child friendly manner. these people are in their own home, although they do seem a bit exhibitionist to be doing this with gigantic visible windows there.

they are very unlikely to install curtains/blinds imo. It would be very expensive for a large/awkward window.

Had the same thing with neighbours of ours. I was so shocked I nearly dropped my binoculars

Have a word with them about indecent exposure, flashing etc- they must be aware they have neighbours and dont like in a detached house in the middle of a forest.

Do not do this revenge porn

I was joking hence the emoji

A mile away?

This surely is a police matter but the police don't do anything about organised shoplifting so I doubt you would get much from them.
It is appalling, then again you could open an only fans account, live stream it and make some money🤷🏻‍♀️

Yeah, don't do this

If you can see the detail that clearly video them and post it on all social media you can think off 😂(Although you might make their day!)

Tbf, we don't know if they're disgusting exhibitionist or not, because OP isn't telling us how far away the house is. I would imagine if it was a mile away, they probably have a reasonable expectation of privacy. If it's just at the bottom of the garden, then not so much

The phrase 'a distance away' means different things to different people, dependent on context.

It’s one of 2 things. Either they have no idea people can see them or they do and they are getting off on the fact. I’d drop a letter round saying just FYI we can see you having sex. If they didn’t realise it will then stop, if they do realise and like this they will keep doing it. If you see them doing it again after you’ve told them, I’d report it to the police then as you have clear evidence of exhibitionism and they can’t claim they didn’t know people can see them.

Don’t agree with some of the replies on here -they’re disgusting exhibitionists to do that. Lots of people would march round and have it out with them if their children were in eyeline of that behaviour.
Report, write a letter, go round and confront but I wouldn’t MYOB as lots of people have advised. It’s weird and anti-social.

Are you implying her DH is a perve rather than worrying about his children? It is not prudish to not want them to see a live sex show, which is indecent exposure.

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Exactly. How is this even feasible? Yes, the OP can put privacy stuff on the children’s window but how does that help at other windows the children may look out of or when they go outside. It’s exhibitionism or the neighbours are unaware ((unlikely) so, if so, need to be made aware.