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Retiring right now

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Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 19:38

I am retiring right now. I have no mortgage or debts and 120k savings. I have index linked pensions that add up to around 40k pa. I have a house that I love in an area that I adore. I live alone with my wee cat. I have 2 kids that I have already helped to buy their own houses. Am i unreasonable feeling insecure?

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Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 23:23

@vipersnest1 this has been the nicest thread for me. I wish you loveliest retirement xxx

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vipersnest1 · 30/08/2025 23:20

@Retiringrightnow, I totally get you. I don’t work on the NHS bit also have a public-facing role and I will be retired at the end of the month. I turn 60 during September.
im not retiring out of choice but because I can’t continue in my current role and going part time would impact my pension (I know that sounds crazy).
Enjoy every moment. I described in my leaving speech that I was giving myself the gift of time - I hope it will be the same for you too.
All the best.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 30/08/2025 23:06

I think that if your worry is that your savings may not be enough should you need paid assistance in future, you should be able to live reasonably comfortably on less than the £40k pension you have so should still be able to add to that savings pot, especially when you get your state pension in 2-3 years time. You should still be able to travel/take holidays if that’s what you want to do, as you can take advantage of cheaper deals now you are more flexible with your time. And I imagine living by the sea would be a bonus for both your physical and mental health.

I retired 18 months ago now - don’t regret it!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 30/08/2025 22:48

Sounds like you’re in a fab position and really don’t need to worry. Try to relax and enjoy it.

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 22:34

@venusandmars thank you in particular. Many nice people here. I/we will survive ! Love to all.

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Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 22:15

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 22:12

id mainly defined benefit final salary pensions from various sources. Some came in at 60, tbh I feel some things i did for a good reason ended up helping me. I remortgaged my main home to help my son i bought him a flat near his uni. I ended up not only helping him, at a massive risk to me, but gained from it. Then I sold my own house and made money because i moved to much cheaper place but for me a much nicer place near the sea. I’’ve just been lucky money wise. I now live by the sea in a place i love. Everything was always a risk. I was lucky.

I had the jobs from hell back in the day. Where I was bullied senseless. But earned loads. It took away my mental health. That’s a struggle to this day.

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Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 22:12

ItsAWonderfulLifeforMe · 30/08/2025 22:03

If you had a standard pension pot I thought that you had to have approx 100k in the pot to get back 4k/ 5k a year, so this is the equivalent of a 800,000-1mil pension pot? As you can see OP this is a huge pension to most people and you should be feeling very content entering retirement that you have made some great decisions and put in a lot of hard work to get to this point

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id mainly defined benefit final salary pensions from various sources. Some came in at 60, tbh I feel some things i did for a good reason ended up helping me. I remortgaged my main home to help my son i bought him a flat near his uni. I ended up not only helping him, at a massive risk to me, but gained from it. Then I sold my own house and made money because i moved to much cheaper place but for me a much nicer place near the sea. I’’ve just been lucky money wise. I now live by the sea in a place i love. Everything was always a risk. I was lucky.

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ItsAWonderfulLifeforMe · 30/08/2025 22:03

If you had a standard pension pot I thought that you had to have approx 100k in the pot to get back 4k/ 5k a year, so this is the equivalent of a 800,000-1mil pension pot? As you can see OP this is a huge pension to most people and you should be feeling very content entering retirement that you have made some great decisions and put in a lot of hard work to get to this point

venusandmars · 30/08/2025 22:02

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 21:55

@venusandmars thank you so much. Xx

I edited my post and added more!

caringcarer · 30/08/2025 21:56

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 19:50

I am 64

You are in a great position and in a few years time you'll get state pension too. Good on you. I expect you had to work hard for many years to be in your position. I'm also 64 and I retired from teaching at 57. I live on my Teachers Pension and passive income from btl portfolio and investments. In 3 years time I'll get a full State Pension too. You'll find you can go on holiday out of peak times and great bargains on holidays. Make sure you have plenty to keep you occupied after you retire.

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 21:55

@venusandmars thank you so much. Xx

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venusandmars · 30/08/2025 21:53

@Retiringrightnow It is such a big change in life. You've worked had a salary and prospects and suddenly that's gone. You have a finite income (however generous that might be) and now you have to live on what you have.

It is a scary prospect.

But you will be OK. You have a good income, and in 3 or 4 years time you'll have your state pension too (minus tax). The first year can be scary, so I advise that you monitor your income and expenditure carefully, and in some detail. What are all the fixed costs: utilities, insurance, council tax, car. What are the slightly variable costs: food, household costs, meals out, clothes. What are the variable costs or luxuries: holidays, meals out, clothes.

After a year you will be so much more reassured. Enjoy your retirement.

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 21:47

This thread has made me feel privileged. My life has been very difficult. We all have difficult lives in many different ways. The posts saying I’ll be ok financially help me. All sorts of financial situations out there. I’m very much on my own. I appreciate the lovely sentiments and advice. Xx

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MoominMai · 30/08/2025 21:40

As a PP said, your retirement pension pre State pension is already higher than the national wage average and you have have over 100k savings, a lot of which I imagine you could invest in an ISA and just leave to happily generate continuous tax free interest.

The 40k will eventually become 50kpa and you’re 64 so I’m wondering why you’re worried it won’t be enough for the rest of your lifetime?

If there are things that worry you, maybe talk to a financial advisor to set your mind at rest. There may be some good investment products/plans etc that they could advise you on to make you feel a bit better?

You’ve been v generous with your DC and definitely will need to stop funding them any longer and focus on yourself.

Hope you have a long and happy retirement!

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 21:32

IGaveSoManySigns · 30/08/2025 21:30

This is a very strange stealth brag.

Your income will be higher than the average salary in the UK, you have no debts and presumably very small outgoings.

sorry.

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IGaveSoManySigns · 30/08/2025 21:30

This is a very strange stealth brag.

Your income will be higher than the average salary in the UK, you have no debts and presumably very small outgoings.

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 21:28

@FollowSpot you have completely summed it up for me! Thank you so much. There is a peace group also just setting up near me. I might join that. I was in 2 minds. I was a little afraid. I will go there tomorrow.

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FollowSpot · 30/08/2025 21:13

Well done OP!

I am a couple of years ahead of you and with a much lower D.C. pension.

It feels different, and yes less secure, to not be earning an income, and the finiteness of it: what you have is it, and will only deplete.

But you will definitely be ok unless you have very extravagant tastes and habits.

On £40k income you will probably be able to save especially once you get state pension. A fund for next car, boiler, house maintenance.

I have time and flexibility to get good deals: cheap theatre tickets, off peak train deals, cheap cinema tickets. I go to the gym, swim, walk, go camping, hiking, and am part of a political campaign.

I am not prepared to be tied down by the needs of a dog and the restrictions that dog ownership brings. Or any regular commitment to any volunteering.

See how it feels and how it pans out before making any big changes, commitments or decisions - just relax and enjoy yourself.

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 20:49

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 20:43

I’ve just had to buy new car and tax insure etc. electric so that it doesn’t cost much. I’m planning to minimise outgoings, i know that’s equivalent to budgeting. I’ve had a lot of outgoings that have triggered this thread. I won’t have that pension income until about December as it takes a while to get sorted. I’m sorry if it’s triggered anyone. I’m very much alone with no backup really. That’s made me quite worried. I got so annoyed with the insurance people yesterday that I was annoyed with myself. Made me more stressed than it should have. I am taking on board all the lovely answers to just enjoy myself. I am worrying unnecessarily.

Ps i mean electric car has lower running costs as I’ve got low cost electric overnight rate. Not that it’s cheaper to buy. I hope this wee car will be with me for many years.

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Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 20:43

I’ve just had to buy new car and tax insure etc. electric so that it doesn’t cost much. I’m planning to minimise outgoings, i know that’s equivalent to budgeting. I’ve had a lot of outgoings that have triggered this thread. I won’t have that pension income until about December as it takes a while to get sorted. I’m sorry if it’s triggered anyone. I’m very much alone with no backup really. That’s made me quite worried. I got so annoyed with the insurance people yesterday that I was annoyed with myself. Made me more stressed than it should have. I am taking on board all the lovely answers to just enjoy myself. I am worrying unnecessarily.

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JLou08 · 30/08/2025 20:40

Well done! Enjoy your retirement. It sounds like there is no reason for you to feel insecure. You've set up a nice retirement for yourself and given your children a good start.

DuesToTheDirt · 30/08/2025 20:40

40k a year, plus an extra 12k in 3 years? I don't see your problem.

IOSTT · 30/08/2025 20:37

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 20:33

no but you have alleviated my fears. Thanks.

Income is more important than savings so you’ll be fine Op

Retiringrightnow · 30/08/2025 20:37

skippy67 · 30/08/2025 20:36

A humble brag with zero humility.

I am very humble!!!!

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skippy67 · 30/08/2025 20:36

FenderStrat · 30/08/2025 19:44

Bit of a humble brag.
I'm pretty certain you know full well a pension of £40 000 is pretty good.

A humble brag with zero humility.