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Convinced I have a serious fatal illness

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Sellingsunsets · 29/08/2025 21:22

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I've convinced myself I have a serious fatal illness and I'm not sure what to do. Deep down I know that maybe I'm over reacting but the fear is real. Last week I started with pain in my upper back and my right side. This persisted for a few days, then I started to get a sharp pain in my right side but lower down towards my back but only when swallowing say a drink, not food. The pain in drinking is still there like a sharp pain. I just another post somewhere about someone who had an aortic dissection and now I'm consumed with the thoughts that this is happening to me and I've worked myself into a panic and I'm convinced I'm going to I die suddenly from this. Has anyone else had anything like this?
Just to add I do have diagnosed gallstones but this IS NOT that. I just know it's not because it's a different kind of pain and I've had them for three years. I do have diagnosed OCD and anxiety but I've been well for a long time now. I just can't shake this feeling something is seriously wrong.

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Sellingsunsets · 29/08/2025 21:31

MidnightPatrol · 29/08/2025 21:23

Have you contacted your GP to discuss?

If you feel it is urgent, call 111 for advice.

I haven't contacted GP cos I dont think they will believe me. I've spent a lot of time at the Drs and The hospital over the years and now I get robbed off with it all being in my head.

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Sellingsunsets · 29/08/2025 21:30

DareMe · 29/08/2025 21:26

If it was an aortic dissection you’d already be dead by now.

Would I though? Cos I read that they can be slow rupturing sometimes

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DareMe · 29/08/2025 21:26

If it was an aortic dissection you’d already be dead by now.

Briningitallin · 29/08/2025 21:25

Health anxiety exists for a very good reason. The anxiety drives us to get ourselves checked out by a doctor. This is what you need to do @Sellingsunsets .

Unfortunately health anxiety can get out of control. This is when cognitive behavioural therapy should be sought.

MidnightPatrol · 29/08/2025 21:23

Have you contacted your GP to discuss?

If you feel it is urgent, call 111 for advice.

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