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The Clooneys - is it real

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VanessaSanessa · 29/08/2025 17:12

Just that, they seem so deliriously in love in every picture I've seen of them.

More power to them if they are that happy, they've both hit the jackpot in so many ways.

But.. to still look so enthralled with each other after so many years??

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Bambamhoohoo · 31/08/2025 09:31

Caplin · 31/08/2025 09:27

Wasn’t she already high profile working on the return on the Elgin Marbles when they met?

Again, I have met them and can’t believe the nastiness on here about her. She is lovely, incredibly impressive, a bit shy, not someone who is desperate to get in front of a camera, and deeply passionate about her work. Sorry if that doesn’t track with your theories. Meanwhile he super charming and clearly adores her and is very protective.

She’s a barrister. She has specific skills and gets hired to work on cases. Not sure why working on the Elgin marbles is high profile? Hundreds of lawyers over decades would’ve worked on that, can you name any others?!

As I said before, both things can be true- she’s successful talented and beautiful (and seems very nice!) but wasn’t well known as a barrister outside of her own circle before she met him.

Caplin · 31/08/2025 09:27

silverygreen · 30/08/2025 05:04

A lot of that absurd success is PR spin. She was just a junior entertainment lawyer pre-Clooney.

He's gay. She's a beard. The babies were carried by a surrogate. The rest is PR, arranged by the same fixers that brought her in to show he isn't gay, after the incident at Lake Como.

Wasn’t she already high profile working on the return on the Elgin Marbles when they met?

Again, I have met them and can’t believe the nastiness on here about her. She is lovely, incredibly impressive, a bit shy, not someone who is desperate to get in front of a camera, and deeply passionate about her work. Sorry if that doesn’t track with your theories. Meanwhile he super charming and clearly adores her and is very protective.

mycatismyworld · 30/08/2025 17:24

I knew a couple who had a Lavender marriage. Man was in his 60s ,women in her mid 40s. They had a baby girl. Man ran a pub,he was quite a character, and the women worked as a solicitor. They seemed very happy together

This was mid 80's in the black country. Nobody batted an eyelid about their unusual relationship.

Petrolitis · 30/08/2025 17:07

People often fall in love with someone who shares similar facial features. It's called assortative mating. I suspect it's where love at first sight stems from.

Look at the Clooneys eyebrows and eyes. You can really see a strong likeness.

HRTQueen · 30/08/2025 16:59

I don’t think she married up at all or lost any both are extremely successful for different reasons

Her hard work and intelligence has got her to where she is

his is from his good looks, being in the right place at the right time and good choices he has made

VanessaSanessa · 30/08/2025 16:56

Tealeaf3 · 30/08/2025 16:37

I don’t think she necessarily lost her credibility by marrying George per se or even taking his name, it’s that she APPEARED to adopt that shallow celebrity lifestyle - the massive wedding, the superstar style appearances, the clothes, the celebrity “friends “( Meghan Markles baby shower anyone?), the instagram which is basically all about what she’s wearing, the interviews in celeb magazines etc. I know it shouldn’t matter - why shouldn’t anyone want to look good and have famous friends - good for her - but somehow it projects a frivolous and shallow image which we don’t expect from a serious human rights lawyer.

I agree.

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Tealeaf3 · 30/08/2025 16:37

VanessaSanessa · 30/08/2025 14:09

In a funny way, Amal lost a bit of professional credibility by marrying George.

I was most surprised she changed her name.

I don’t think she necessarily lost her credibility by marrying George per se or even taking his name, it’s that she APPEARED to adopt that shallow celebrity lifestyle - the massive wedding, the superstar style appearances, the clothes, the celebrity “friends “( Meghan Markles baby shower anyone?), the instagram which is basically all about what she’s wearing, the interviews in celeb magazines etc. I know it shouldn’t matter - why shouldn’t anyone want to look good and have famous friends - good for her - but somehow it projects a frivolous and shallow image which we don’t expect from a serious human rights lawyer.

CountryMouse22 · 30/08/2025 16:33

"She can probably afford a Brazilian every week."

Who would that be?

CountryMouse22 · 30/08/2025 16:29

TartanBarmy · 30/08/2025 10:41

The description of her on her chambers website was likely written by her - that’s an advert. Like any other company profile.

I also know a few people in the “Legal 500” - it’s not as chichi as it makes out - one in particular is not a particularly good advocate but has charm and personality - by no means a great legal mind though!

Anyway. She has a good job but she is most well known for being George Clooney’s wife. I don’t think we’d have heard of her without that. And I think she’s as gay as he is! So there!

It can't contravene the Trade Descriptions Act!

CountryMouse22 · 30/08/2025 16:25

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 29/08/2025 20:42

sex sells especially in Hollywood

sadly i think its impossible in Hollywood to be openly gay actor with a male partner and be A list box opening star , leading man to ladies
those that have come out and said they were gay there careers have tanked

yes there are some up and coming actors who are openly gay but I don’t think they will ever reach the AList level of say George Clooney Tom Cruise

My thoughts on who are gay but hiding it
( badly)

George Cloony
Will Smith
joh travolta
Leonardo De caprico
all of these have always played the leading generally alpha lover type male in films with a love interest who is a woman

tom cruise - in love with himself 😂

they are all huge Hollywood star who pretty much everyone knows who they are and I bet everyone on here has seen at least 1-2 if not all of there films

if your old like me then you can remember what a huge huge star Leonardo De Caprico was in titanic and he was marketed as a heartthrob for young girls / women

He was bloody everywhere and women and young girls loved him ( including me )

if he had come out as said he said he was gay his career would have sunk quicker than the the titanic did 😂

sadly coming out as gay if your an actor and your main roles are action hero. Leading man / chasing women is career suicide

Hollywood is still quite conservative with its views on sex.

TankFlyBossW4lk · 30/08/2025 15:55

charlieandthechocolatfactory · 29/08/2025 18:09

This

and she is absolutely stunning

It wouldn't have harmed her career to have a high profile marriage. Quite the reverse I would have thought.

daleylama · 30/08/2025 15:46

Bambamhoohoo · 30/08/2025 15:44

There is no misstating of facts and everyone has consistently said she is accomplished and brilliant. However her importance in the legal world is often exaggerated.

Most people commenting are in no position to judge - Sorry ! Forgot where I was!

Bambamhoohoo · 30/08/2025 15:44

daleylama · 30/08/2025 15:39

astonishing amount of deliberate downplay of Mrs Clooney's experience and qualifications on this thread. Some serious investment in malicious mis-stating of facts by some unhealthily interested individuals

There is no misstating of facts and everyone has consistently said she is accomplished and brilliant. However her importance in the legal world is often exaggerated.

daleylama · 30/08/2025 15:39

NoSuchThingAsAFreeHoliday · 30/08/2025 08:42

Yes, that’s quite an astonishing deception.

astonishing amount of deliberate downplay of Mrs Clooney's experience and qualifications on this thread. Some serious investment in malicious mis-stating of facts by some unhealthily interested individuals

RanyaJerodung · 30/08/2025 15:30

Wishimaywishimight · 30/08/2025 13:40

I think probably there are people who are a little jealous of what looks like an exceptionally charmed life - 2 good looking people, very rich and successful and seem really happy together - and try to make themselves feel better by saying it must all be fake.

Yes, my thoughts exactly. Especially pulling a woman of achievement down like that.

VanessaSanessa · 30/08/2025 14:09

In a funny way, Amal lost a bit of professional credibility by marrying George.

I was most surprised she changed her name.

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VanessaSanessa · 30/08/2025 14:00

NoSuchThingAsAFreeHoliday · 30/08/2025 13:58

Who cares about the 500. This is all semantics. By any reasonable definition she is a highly regarded lawyer and successful in her own right.

The desire to diminish this woman on this thread is startling.

I agree, she's well accomplished, there's no denying that.

And we need women like her to be in the room with the likes of Putin, Kofi etc.

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NoSuchThingAsAFreeHoliday · 30/08/2025 13:58

Who cares about the 500. This is all semantics. By any reasonable definition she is a highly regarded lawyer and successful in her own right.

The desire to diminish this woman on this thread is startling.

Wishimaywishimight · 30/08/2025 13:40

I think probably there are people who are a little jealous of what looks like an exceptionally charmed life - 2 good looking people, very rich and successful and seem really happy together - and try to make themselves feel better by saying it must all be fake.

LesCigaresVolants · 30/08/2025 13:33

I know loads of people in the Legal 500. Including my husband, who has a god- like write up 😂. Many are average at best, they just have good PR in their firms and high profile cases/clients that make for impressive reading.

Weepixie · 30/08/2025 13:28

A couple of interesting and factual link explaining the workings of the Legal 500

www.nonbillable.co.uk/posts/what-is-the-legal-500

gericoassociates.com/en/insights/what-is-the-legal-500/

Bambamhoohoo · 30/08/2025 12:27

BadDinner · 30/08/2025 11:56

I would think knowing anyone who is in the 'legal 500,' is pretty rare.

And why the need to pour water on it and somehow dilute it's prestige? As if it's just a cut above someone working in a high street solicitors firm?

She's the only woman in that picture in the Kremlin that the pp put up above. Although it's a cropped picture so there may be others. But that's a massive achievement in itself and making pathways for women.

As women in law go, and certainly as Hollywood wives go she is elite. She would have been highly successful in her field without the Clooney name. Clearly it's boosted her profile and reach. Intelligent women in extremely advantageous marriages do tend to become more high profile if they carry on working and maximise their influence.

Has she got an OBE or any honours?

How comes she hasn't got one but Angelina Jolie has? That's interesting.

The “legal 500” is just a directory tbh, although it is of course prestige to be ranked and I very proud of those who I know who are.
But it’s not the 500 “top lawyers” -there are submissions for each discipline. Presumably she’s one of the top 500 human rights lawyers (in London)

BadDinner · 30/08/2025 11:56

I would think knowing anyone who is in the 'legal 500,' is pretty rare.

And why the need to pour water on it and somehow dilute it's prestige? As if it's just a cut above someone working in a high street solicitors firm?

She's the only woman in that picture in the Kremlin that the pp put up above. Although it's a cropped picture so there may be others. But that's a massive achievement in itself and making pathways for women.

As women in law go, and certainly as Hollywood wives go she is elite. She would have been highly successful in her field without the Clooney name. Clearly it's boosted her profile and reach. Intelligent women in extremely advantageous marriages do tend to become more high profile if they carry on working and maximise their influence.

Has she got an OBE or any honours?

How comes she hasn't got one but Angelina Jolie has? That's interesting.

RanyaJerodung · 30/08/2025 10:46

Needmorelego · 30/08/2025 10:46

Really though...
who cares?
They're married. So what? It's just a legal contract. There's no rules as to what sexual practices "must" happen in a marriage. That's up to the couple.
As long as everything that happens is legal then why does it matter?

Exactly. It obviously works for them, so good luck to them!

Needmorelego · 30/08/2025 10:46

Really though...
who cares?
They're married. So what? It's just a legal contract. There's no rules as to what sexual practices "must" happen in a marriage. That's up to the couple.
As long as everything that happens is legal then why does it matter?