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Cycling Mikey doesn't deserve the hate he's getting

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ByDandyTurtle · 28/08/2025 20:35

He's not putting fumes in people's lungs from his car and sees people doing illegal activities that kill others or make our premiums go up.

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OhNoNotSusan · 28/08/2025 21:45

what does jeremy vine say?

SweetPenelope · 28/08/2025 21:45

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:23

The overwhelming majority of people he dobs in aren't actually doing anything dangerous. While they might technically be breaking the law, that's because the law is inflexible and doesn't adapt to every person in every single situation.

Take for example a long line of stationary traffic, with cars inching forward a few feet every couple of minutes. It's true that it's still illegal for a driver to use his mobile phone in that situation, but in actuality it wouldn't be endangering anyone.

Yet these are the drivers he goes after. Same with most other offences. He picks low hanging fruit, people who are going about their day, not being a public nuisance or danger.

And before the smug holier than thou fuckers reply, please tell me you've never ever driven 21 mph in a 20 mph zone.

Looking at phones, sending messages, watching videos in slow moving or stationery traffic is dangerous. You're not looking at the road or around you. Someone honks and you set off without looking. Just don't.

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:43

Chompingatthebeat · 28/08/2025 21:40

Bit odd to comment on something you haven't watched.

I didn't comment on something I haven't watched - I commented on what OP said, and explicitly said I wasn't commenting on him or his videos, only on OP's comment. If you didn't read what I said before deciding to have a problem, that's not my fault.

If I started a post about Love Island and said "cats are black but dogs aren't", it doesn't take knowledge of Love Island for someone else to say "I haven't watched Love Island so I don't know what happened with Yasmine but I have a black dog so dogs can be black".

the5thgoldengirl · 28/08/2025 21:43

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Chompingatthebeat · 28/08/2025 21:40

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:36

OP was talking about pursuing motorists though. That's the point. I haven't said a single thing about this guy and said I haven't seen his videos. I was specifically referring to OP's point about pursuing motorists. How many times does that need to be said!?

Bit odd to comment on something you haven't watched.

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:40

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:37

Of course it’s dangerous. A child could run across, not looking left as they don’t expect to. You could hit a cyclist or another car coming round the corner.

Why do you think it’s illegal to use your phone even in stationery traffic?

You can't hit anyone in stationery traffic. That's the point they're making. Starting to move again when you haven't checked properly is obviously dangerous - sitting in stationery traffic is not. Yet both are equally as illegal. That's the point being made. Illegal does not always mean dangerous.

I say this as a non-driving cyclist. It's not a difficult point to understand.

zerofeeling · 28/08/2025 21:39

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:37

If they hit someone, by definition that would be dangerous driving.

That isn't the definition of dangerous driving.

XenoBitch · 28/08/2025 21:39

TheNightingalesStarling · 28/08/2025 21:33

Because you aren't paying attention to the road.

Yep. I got my motorcycle license years before my car one. When I was in my car, when waiting in traffic, I would be looking around all the time for bikers coming up the middle etc.

There is the SMIDSY campaign (Sorry Mate, I Didn't See You).

YanTanTetheraPetheraBumfitt · 28/08/2025 21:39

In stationary traffic it isn't actually dangerous to use your phone. Nor is it always dangerous to drive a couple of meters on the other side of the road (eg clear empty road, and you want to skip the queue to make a right turn).

id disagree with this. If you’re in your phone and suddenly realise the traffic has moved the chances are you chuck your phone down and set off in a hurry without properly checking there’s no cyclist filtering through.

the corner he often stands on where people,go the wrong side of the road to turn right (if clear) is dangerous. It’s on a junction. By the time they’ve pulled out and committed to being on the wrong side of the road a cyclist or indeed a car could turn left from the main road into their path.

Chompingatthebeat · 28/08/2025 21:39

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:36

No, he dobs them in. The telling off is just a bonus ego boost. He is the worst kind of human, as his misanthropy is coated in slimy do-gooderism.

Worse kind of human's a bit strong! Not paedophiles, murderers and dictators?

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:37

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:34

In stationary traffic it isn't actually dangerous to use your phone. Nor is it always dangerous to drive a couple of meters on the other side of the road (eg clear empty road, and you want to skip the queue to make a right turn).

If legality is your compass, then doing 21 in a 20 zone is illegal. But if it's common sense then most of CM's victims aren't actually doing anything dangerous.

The punishment of points and a fine certainly don't fit the crime of checking your phone is standstill traffic.

Of course it’s dangerous. A child could run across, not looking left as they don’t expect to. You could hit a cyclist or another car coming round the corner.

Why do you think it’s illegal to use your phone even in stationery traffic?

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:37

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:36

If they killed someone crossing the road legally at 3am, would you class it as dangerous driving? Or is it just bad luck?

If they hit someone, by definition that would be dangerous driving.

ChattyGeePeaTea · 28/08/2025 21:37

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:23

The overwhelming majority of people he dobs in aren't actually doing anything dangerous. While they might technically be breaking the law, that's because the law is inflexible and doesn't adapt to every person in every single situation.

Take for example a long line of stationary traffic, with cars inching forward a few feet every couple of minutes. It's true that it's still illegal for a driver to use his mobile phone in that situation, but in actuality it wouldn't be endangering anyone.

Yet these are the drivers he goes after. Same with most other offences. He picks low hanging fruit, people who are going about their day, not being a public nuisance or danger.

And before the smug holier than thou fuckers reply, please tell me you've never ever driven 21 mph in a 20 mph zone.

It takes about 30 seconds for a driver to refocus after interacting with their phone, so a driver who is at the front of a line of traffic texting, thinking "it's fine because I'm stationary," is vastly more likely to cause an accident when they move off from the lights than one who hasn't been texting. So yes, it would be capable of endangering others.

Here is one source for that, there are dozens of others: https://www.onfocus.news/new-study-34-of-crashes-happen-within-60-seconds-of-phone-distraction/

Love from a smug holier than thou fucker who doesn't have "just one drink" when driving, doesn't text "just in stationary traffic," doesn't transport a toddler without a car seat "just a mile down the road," doesn't go through red lights "just behind the last car," doesn't park in disabled bays "just to pop in for a pint of milk" and also doesn't break the speed limit "just by a couple of mph".

New Study: 34% of Crashes Happen Within 60 Seconds of Phone Distraction - OnFocus

New Study: 34% of Crashes Happen Within 60 Seconds of Phone Distraction What if a single glance at your phone was enough to cause a fatal crash? Accor

https://www.onfocus.news/new-study-34-of-crashes-happen-within-60-seconds-of-phone-distraction

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:36

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:34

He doesn’t “pursue motorists”, he stops them and tell them to behave better. That doesn’t require training.

OP was talking about pursuing motorists though. That's the point. I haven't said a single thing about this guy and said I haven't seen his videos. I was specifically referring to OP's point about pursuing motorists. How many times does that need to be said!?

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:36

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:34

He doesn’t “pursue motorists”, he stops them and tell them to behave better. That doesn’t require training.

No, he dobs them in. The telling off is just a bonus ego boost. He is the worst kind of human, as his misanthropy is coated in slimy do-gooderism.

XenoBitch · 28/08/2025 21:36

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:31

Yes. Like I asked, why does it matter if they don't see your filtering through non-moving traffic? You've said it's dangerous but I genuinely don't understand why.

Because they start moving and sometimes veer into the middle, or start to change lane.
Most of my near misses have been when I have filtered through heavy traffic, or past parked cars. People open their doors without looking.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:36

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:27

"OK" is a strong word. But yes, if a driver inched through a red light on an empty road say at 3am, with very clear views from all sides, I wouldn't class that as dangerous driving.

If they killed someone crossing the road legally at 3am, would you class it as dangerous driving? Or is it just bad luck?

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:34

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:26

And pursuing motorists, which is what OP was talking about, does require training and qualifications.

He doesn’t “pursue motorists”, he stops them and tell them to behave better. That doesn’t require training.

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:34

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:31

You don’t think driving down the wrong side of the road is dangerous?!

He doesn’t stop speeding cars.

Ive probably done 21 in a 20 but I’ve never used my mobile phone or driven down the wrong side of the road.

In stationary traffic it isn't actually dangerous to use your phone. Nor is it always dangerous to drive a couple of meters on the other side of the road (eg clear empty road, and you want to skip the queue to make a right turn).

If legality is your compass, then doing 21 in a 20 zone is illegal. But if it's common sense then most of CM's victims aren't actually doing anything dangerous.

The punishment of points and a fine certainly don't fit the crime of checking your phone is standstill traffic.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:33

XenoBitch · 28/08/2025 21:26

No, it is dangerous for someone in stationary traffic to be using their phone.
I used to be a biker. So a car driver stuck in traffic and looking at their phone, is not going to notice me (and cyclists) filtering down the middle past them... and they should be.

Yep, as a cyclist I always move away from stationery drivers on their phone. They are distracted, and that distraction means they are concentrating even when the phone is put down

TheNightingalesStarling · 28/08/2025 21:33

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:31

Yes. Like I asked, why does it matter if they don't see your filtering through non-moving traffic? You've said it's dangerous but I genuinely don't understand why.

Because you aren't paying attention to the road.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:32

Chompingatthebeat · 28/08/2025 21:25

I guess its ok to go through red lights as well if no-one is coming the other way

As a cyclist AND a driver, other people’s shitty driving terrifies me.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:31

Mikkymik · 28/08/2025 21:23

The overwhelming majority of people he dobs in aren't actually doing anything dangerous. While they might technically be breaking the law, that's because the law is inflexible and doesn't adapt to every person in every single situation.

Take for example a long line of stationary traffic, with cars inching forward a few feet every couple of minutes. It's true that it's still illegal for a driver to use his mobile phone in that situation, but in actuality it wouldn't be endangering anyone.

Yet these are the drivers he goes after. Same with most other offences. He picks low hanging fruit, people who are going about their day, not being a public nuisance or danger.

And before the smug holier than thou fuckers reply, please tell me you've never ever driven 21 mph in a 20 mph zone.

You don’t think driving down the wrong side of the road is dangerous?!

He doesn’t stop speeding cars.

Ive probably done 21 in a 20 but I’ve never used my mobile phone or driven down the wrong side of the road.

ConfusedSloth · 28/08/2025 21:31

XenoBitch · 28/08/2025 21:28

The point is they don't see me filtering, as they are glued to their phone.

Yes. Like I asked, why does it matter if they don't see your filtering through non-moving traffic? You've said it's dangerous but I genuinely don't understand why.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 21:29

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Is this the so called “Threw his bike at a car”???

Do people not know the meaning of the word “throw”

Interesting how nobody was offended by the fiat speeding on the wrong side of the road