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Does having Christmas stuff in the shops for 4 months of the year cause Christmas to be a letdown

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Fiis · 28/08/2025 18:30

I think it does. Those tubs of inferior chocolate like Roses, are not Christmasy as places with a moderate Muslim population have them on sale for Eid.

Visited 5 or 6 European countries in Sept and Oct and their shops had nothing! These countries celebrate Christmas.

If these countries are able not to have Christmas crap in the shops in Sept. Why can’t the UK?

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Fiis · 30/08/2025 06:17

Needmorelego · 29/08/2025 23:42

But it's not Eid at the moment or coming up to Eid.
Both of the Eid festivals have happened already this year.
I honestly don't quite understand the OPs point.
Food products (like the tubs of Roses) are pretty much sold all year around so they are available for any and all the festivals that happen in a year. Why would that make the OP annoyed?

Some people think those tubs of Roses are just Christmas things. They are not. These tubs are not sold all year round. Just Ramadan and Eid plus Christmas.

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Snugglemonkey · 30/08/2025 00:01

WonderingWanda · 28/08/2025 18:46

I just don't go down the seasonal aisles until I'm ready. We already have decorations , I don't feel the need to replace them every year and I don't begin to think about Christmas till after dc's birthday in Nov.

In fact I care very little about what the shops are doing. Things I love in the run up to Christmas are making my Christmas cake, making a wreath (going for a long foraging walk for greenery), buying a sparkly outfit and maybe visiting a national trust property. I do most of that (not the cake) and my Christmas shopping in Dec. We have lots of family traditions for Christmas and it's always a lovely time.

I am like this. I do our Christmas things on our timetable every year. I don't move to cake and pudding until after I do jam and chutney. I just do it at my pace.

I love celebrating seasonal events, in their season. We will do lots of autumnal stuff, but once everyone is over back to school etc.

I am not going to alter my timetable for anything other than the weather, if the seasonal stuff is possible, it will be done.

If not, I will be running around the village. snipping at bushes!

Needmorelego · 29/08/2025 23:42

ChangingWeight · 29/08/2025 23:30

I read it as OP being annoyed that these items are sold for Eid and not just for Christmas. And my point was, that it’s about the shops wanting to make more money not Muslims. I’m not quite sure why you’re struggling to follow this.

But it's not Eid at the moment or coming up to Eid.
Both of the Eid festivals have happened already this year.
I honestly don't quite understand the OPs point.
Food products (like the tubs of Roses) are pretty much sold all year around so they are available for any and all the festivals that happen in a year. Why would that make the OP annoyed?

ChangingWeight · 29/08/2025 23:30

Needmorelego · 29/08/2025 15:48

Yes I did.
A brief mention of Eid that didn’t really make sense in relevance to shops selling Christmas stuff.

I read it as OP being annoyed that these items are sold for Eid and not just for Christmas. And my point was, that it’s about the shops wanting to make more money not Muslims. I’m not quite sure why you’re struggling to follow this.

CopperWhite · 29/08/2025 17:38

RhaenysRocks · 29/08/2025 07:28

I agree. The big Tesco near me, if you go in on Christmas Eve they're ripping everything down and putting out pastel coloured laundry baskets and mops in the seasonal aisle. It's utterly depressing.

I love it when everything is ripped down and goes back to normal on Boxing Day. It used to make me sad taking the decorations down, but now I see it as new year and a fresh start with everything all cleaned up. Winter Solstice has just been and by February you can start seeing signs of spring.

Fiis · 29/08/2025 16:52

RhaenysRocks · 29/08/2025 07:28

I agree. The big Tesco near me, if you go in on Christmas Eve they're ripping everything down and putting out pastel coloured laundry baskets and mops in the seasonal aisle. It's utterly depressing.

My friend that worked for Sainsburys, they condensed the Xmas stuff around 22nd Dec as some stuff didn't get further deliveries beyond certain dates, then start to put out the promo duvet covers, ceramic soap dispensers etc.

Don't start on the customer who asked her on a Dec 18th, did they have any advent calendars left! A week before!

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Needmorelego · 29/08/2025 15:48

ChangingWeight · 29/08/2025 10:33

Did you read the op?

Yes I did.
A brief mention of Eid that didn’t really make sense in relevance to shops selling Christmas stuff.

ChangingWeight · 29/08/2025 10:33

Needmorelego · 29/08/2025 08:56

Huh?
What's the connection with Islam?

Did you read the op?

Fiis · 29/08/2025 09:20

Sainsburys only used to put their Xmas TV ad from the day after Remembrance Sunday or Armistice Day (whatever came last). They put it out 3rd Nov and my friend and other colleagues who have been working for Sainsburys for 20+ years, thought it was dreadful.

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Sharptonguedwoman · 29/08/2025 09:09

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 28/08/2025 18:34

No, I think Christmas becomes a letdown because people have ridiculously high expectations over what is essentially just another day.

Absolutely agree with this.

IwanttotakeyoutoaNailaBar · 29/08/2025 09:03

pinotnow · 28/08/2025 19:23

Of course @IwanttotakeyoutoaNailaBar but it's not really a useful comparison. As I said, what we did was low-key but I needed more than 30 days, during which I was also teaching full-time as a HoD and marking mock papers, to get my head around what I wanted to get and to do some trips to the shops etc. What people did in a totally different era, much as I respect that, is neither here nor there.

But that’s the point of the thread really.

So need more than 30 days to have a Christmas that leads up to expectations.
Why is this a thing in 2025.

Possibly because we have 24 supermarkets, global online shopping and literally anything and everything available to get all year round? How can anyone compete with that. How can Christmas be special if you can now recreate Christmas in September. 10 years ago you could get mince pies and Christmas cake in November. Now it’s August!

LizzieSiddal · 29/08/2025 08:59

There needs to be a new Law:

NO Christmas things in shops until October.

Needmorelego · 29/08/2025 08:56

ChangingWeight · 29/08/2025 06:26

the shops don’t do this because of Muslims, they do it to make more money

Huh?
What's the connection with Islam?

PebbleBeach1234 · 29/08/2025 08:31

August is very early but my DH doesn't get paid until the end of the month, after Christmas so we do need to start picking bits up in October. Not loads of tat and decorations but things like alcohol and chocolate with the weekly shop, to give as gifts.

Swiftie1878 · 29/08/2025 07:56

Fiis · 29/08/2025 06:56

Why can’t shops in the UK do this???

If it didn’t sell, shops wouldn’t fill their very lucrative shelves with it.
UK shops do it because there’s a demand.
You don’t like it - fair enough.
A lot of others do like it, for whatever reason.

Just walk on by. Live and let live.

ByPeachPeer · 29/08/2025 07:54

I hate it and think it ruins it as its dragged on for that long I'm fed up of it by December. However no idea what it's got to do with Muslims/Eid that you mention. They put it in the shops now to make more money as people start buying things like chocolates now then eat them and repeat numerous times until Christmas!

Cel77 · 29/08/2025 07:53

I have seen Halloween and Christmas decorations in B&M last week. It definitely takes the edge off of what should be special times.
Mid to end of November should be the time for Christmas decorations /chocolates to be in shops.

It's too much. It's not needed and takes away the excitement of Christmas. I always think that people who are over excited by Christmas 120 days before the event can't have much going on in their lives.

LouH1981 · 29/08/2025 07:53

I love Christmas! My go to comfort telly is anything Christmassy, for example, but I had to pop in to The Range the day before our summer holiday at the start of August. It was during the heatwave and it felt so wrong seeing decorations while I was wandering about in my flip flops and shorts.
That being said, up until this year, my husband and I have struggled financially and it has been so helpful to buy the odd stocking filler, non perishable food just to try to spread the cost. So I’m torn really.

florasl · 29/08/2025 07:51

I like getting all my presents, food ordered, activities booked well in advance of December so I can enjoy it without anything to do or last minute rushing around.

I usually have almost everything wrapped and ready to go by December. We spend December doing lots of family activities from little things like hot chocolate and Christmas movies or bigger organised things like a trip to London to see the Christmas lights. I can enjoy them all without having any extra chores.

ChaToilLeam · 29/08/2025 07:45

Just ignore it. The shops wouldn't put them out if nobody bought them. Here in Germany it's already starting too - my colleague posted a picture of Christmas goods in her local supermarket. Usually it starts here as soon as Oktoberfest is over. 🙄

WhySoManySocks · 29/08/2025 07:42

The solution would be a pact not to buy them until Dec. They are there because people buy them.

Lunaballoon · 29/08/2025 07:39

I agree. I enjoy the actual Christmas period but the relentless build-up is way too much and has become an consumerist/advertising juggernaut.

RhaenysRocks · 29/08/2025 07:33

Doingtheboxerbeat · 29/08/2025 01:57

I was literally about to mention my thread 🤭. It absolutely is about budgeting and the shops know that if they don't put it on the shelves early then canny shoppers will be buying it online , to get ahead.

@smoulderingmould some people are so poor shit at budgeting that they may not have the £50 or whatever amount now, let alone in December so they need to be reminded that something has to give , whether it's cancelling a subscription for a few months or buying cheaper food .

Then they should grow up and learn to adult FFS. As I said, I think shops do it because it makes you spend more. You buy some gifts in October and then you see more things in Nov, Dec, you forget about the pile you've stashed under the bed. If people put the money aside instead and went out a couple of weekends in a row they'd be less likely to do that. People getting into ridiculous debt, kids expecting hundreds of pounds if not thousands spent, it's awful. I'm not a Grinch and I love Christmas and my kids when little had a "pile" but never more than about 8-10 max. When they were little they'd be overwhelmed by more plus they get several things from three sets of grandparents, aunties etc.

RhaenysRocks · 29/08/2025 07:28

FlowersAndFruit · 29/08/2025 07:19

Well, it's sad when it is all ripped down on boxing day. They are so keen to race to the next marketing opportunity, it makes me feel that that is all they are interested in.

I agree. The big Tesco near me, if you go in on Christmas Eve they're ripping everything down and putting out pastel coloured laundry baskets and mops in the seasonal aisle. It's utterly depressing.

MonkeyTennis34 · 29/08/2025 07:27

Not at all. I like it and able to maintain my excitement for 4 months!

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