Do you find your DH attractive?

Yes I think my DH is fit, not all day, everyday but I usually look at him at some point and think mmm, I still want you. He has put on more weight than I would like but given he hasnt said a word about my 6 stone weight gain (have lost 4, 2 to go) I wont say anything.

I still fancy my husband after 17 years. Yes he's not quite as slim as he used to be and his hair has thinned a bit, but he is still gorgeous, funny, kind, caring etc.

It sounds like you've never really found your husband that physically attractive if I'm being honest.

8 years and he’s the most attractive man I’ve ever met. I know how lucky I am- we are just as in love as we’ve ever been. When that ebbs a bit, we know it means we need to spend more time together. Our history and comfort together is one of the loveliest things about our relationship.

I think my dh is absolutely gorgeous, he isn't traditionally good looking.

Same here with mine.

I do, we've been together 15 years.

Mine's definitely no oil painting but I like the shape of him, his maleness and the way he makes me feel. It also helps that I love so much about his character and the relationship we have built over the years. I'm always keen to have sex with him. But neither of us are fooling ourselves that we are irresistible.

I find DP attractive but it's not so much to do with looks, it's more just his general person I find attractive - his look, his personality, our friendship. He isn't ageing amazingly, he isn't in perfect shape. I'm just attracted to 'him'. However, I don't want to RIP his clothes off ever, despite having ostensibly a great sex life and one that is very regular. I know for a fact he could never give me the 'ick'.

Yes, I do find my DH very physically attractive, but his personality / behaviours etc can make me go weeks without “seeing” his physical attributes. It makes me sad.

Neither do nor do not find him attractive... I don't really even look at his looks anymore, he is ingrain as part of my day to day life.

He doesn't look like a 'cuban god' (whatever the hell that is, doesn't sound my taste anyway) but sometime he looks cute, and sometime he looks rough (just like me) because hes a real person and we live together every day through the good and bad days.

Ripping each others clothes off like horny teens is not where I want to be at this point in life, I would much rather sit together, chatting, eating snacks and watch tv.

Ooh yes, my DP is bald and has a bit of a dad bod, but he’s an ex county swimmer and he has big coat hanger shoulders that the rest of him hangs from. They are a thing of wild beauty.

Oh yes. He’s gorgeous - silver fox. But we’ve only been together 5 years.

Yes I do. He's early 60s and we've been together for 40 years. Obviously we're becoming aged old crocks, but to me he's still got it. Keeps himself fit and healthy as much as possible so that probably helps. But I like his personality and outlook. Obviously he irritates me sometimes and I him!

I find a Ferrari far more attractive than my Nissan Juke but Jukebox is all mine and it’s lovely and I’d never be able to deal with the headaches a Ferrari would undoubtedly bring. Sometimes it’s about what you know and love rather than what is absolutely the best you know?

Always have done, and even more so as he's got older (we've been together 17 years).

DH is literally the most handsome man I've ever met in real life. He is 100% my type.

I encourage him to take better care of his body, and I wouldn't say no if he decided he'd suddenly like to get a set of abs (he sports a one pack)! But his face, height, build, facial hair, hairstyle, eyes, skin colour, dress sense - everything - is tick, tick, tick!

We've been together 20 years, but went for a pub lunch with friends on Monday, and I was struck by his handsomness as he sat across from me, in the sunshine, in a denim shirt with the sleeves rolled up and classic Ray Ban aviators.

No I don’t find my DH that attractive. He is quite handsome but let himself go. I love him to bits snd we have a good life together but I never want to rip his clothes of. That said I’m too knackered to rip anyone’s clothes off.

Yes still attracted... however I swear perimenopause makes me sometimes look at him and not want sex... but I think that's more my hormones than him...

We both however see someone and say... oh they are good looking etc about both sexes but we are also both secure enough to know its like looking at a fantastic painting or a really gorgeous car.... we aren't going to get rid of what we have for a fleeting view point.

Absolutely. He's still very handsome after 20 years and is ageing like a fine wine!

I was with my husband for over 30 years until he died recently. He looked just like Sean Connery, so not exactly difficult to still find him very attractive. He wasn't British and also had a very sexy accent. I miss him so much.

Yes, sometimes I look at him and think wow you’re beautiful. In the last few years he’s gained a bit of chub and stopped working out so much but I’m glad of this because I’ve been having baby after baby and I don’t want him walking next to me looking like a model (which he used to be mistaken for a lot) while I waddle along looking horrible next to him. Would hate to think people are thinking what is he doing with her!

I didn't find my ex 'D'P that attractive. I knew him at school and really fancied him then but when we met up, years later, I didn't fancy him anywhere near as much. However, there were other things I liked about him to make me stay in a relationship with him. He put on weight, lost some of his hair, and went grey whereas I'm not that different in weight to when we knew each other at school and I look after myself (I like to think anyway).

I just assumed that you couldn't have everything in a relationship, especially as we were older and I thought I was lucky that he had his own hair and teeth! (We were 39 when we met up again).

I'm now seeing someone who is a few years younger than me (ahem) and who I do find much more physically attractive but I don't have the same love and respect that I had for my ex.

I'd love to have it all but assumed that was only the case in fairytales!

Been together 22 years both white British and we have both changed I carried twins and due to health reasons I now struggle with my weight hubby has always been slim but did put some wait on a few years ago during covid and honestly I didn’t even notice at first but he was not happy and has since lost weight and is back to his slim build, I can’t ever get back to being a size 6/8 (I wish I could) but he swears he still finds me attractive (I obviously doubt this all the time) I still find him attractive I can’t imagine not finding him attractive to be honest.

I find my husband incredibly attractive and always have. He is a very handsome, very masculine man who has always looked after himself and is very well groomed.
It doesn't mean I don't find other men attractive, its human nature to find others attractive. We are very open with each other about who we find attractive. No need to feel guilty unless you are secretive about it or act upon it.

Yes. He may be bald and have a bit of a dad bod, but to me he’s still very attractive.