Do you find your DH attractive?

Yes I do. Not all day every day. Hormones play a big part. But yes I have always found my husband attractive and I still do.

A different kind of attraction! We met aged 21 and I instantly fancied him - we are 36 now so have both changed! I think seeing him every day, I almost forget to see him in that light - he’s become part of the furniture in a sense.

I adore my husband and when we first met we couldn't get enough of each other, however the wanting to rip each others clothes off has definitely worn off. We've been together 30 years so it was bound to happen.

Yes I very much fancy my DH.

When we met he had a bit of a dad bod but he decided to go to the gym and never stopped. He's buff, has abs and really sexy muscles. He's got a head of salt and pepper hair and a beard.

He's completely my type.

Why I love him is a whole different story. He's the kindest, softest, most supportive, most loving person I have ever met. He's my cheerleader.

OP this reads like you were looking for a partner / protector when you met. Saying ‘I liked his beard’ actually makes me feel really sad for you!!
I am still very attracted to DH (together 11 years) and was from day one - it’s why I wanted to have sex with him 🤣 Frustratingly he’s getting better as he gets older too, not something I’ve been blessed with!!!
But yes, I’m still very attracted to him - I don’t think I could physically have sex with him otherwise.

Yep. Been with him nine years and still never fancied anyone as much as I fancy him. Doesn't mean to say I haven't found others attractive - I have! But I just fancy the pants off him. It's not all just his physical attributes but his energy, his mannerisms, way he talks, everything.

Fair enough from the context I gave.
He knows, I’ve had a thread on here before about our virtually sexless marriage.
He knows the score, I’ve said if things don’t improve I won’t be staying after youngest gets to 18. He is fine as things are and doesn’t want to try and improve things, so I don’t feel bad about my plans.

Yes, he is well fit!

My husband and I have been together 12 years and I still find him as attractive now as I did then, I fancy the pants off him!

Yes, I do. He's lost his hair, which was already in its way out when we met, but he still has a sexy smile and the most amazing green eyes.

Yes. After 41 years I still find him very attractive. He has looked after himself and still has a slim athletic physique. It is however his lovely brown eyes and lovely smile that make me go weak at the knees.

I find my DH attractive, he is tall, dark and handsome! He’s charming, intelligent, funny, hard working and I still get excited when I see him come through the door. I have been with him nearly 16 years. He’s a real catch and I am so proud to be married to him. We both make an effort to look after ourselves.

Yes! I look at him most days and think… god you’re sexy/hot/handsome/manly/strong

I met my DH 31 years ago and thought “wow, he’s beautiful”. We didn’t get together for another 3.5yrs, I got used to how handsome he was and he was just a mate. When I realised he fancied me too, I was shocked but really happy. He’s in his early 50’s now and I think he’s even more handsome now than he was then.

We’ve been together for 34 years and yes I still find my DH attractive. Sure his hair is thinner and he too is a bit thinner but yes he still does it for me 😜

30 years in and yes I still look at him and think he’s gorgeous.

My DH is very sexy and I fancy the pants off him! We've been together for 8 years and we're still like teenagers and always sneak in a quick snog where we can!

I find DH attractive - out bodies have both changed over the 14 years we have been together but we are still attracted to each other

There’s a lot I find very attractive about my DH but also a few traits / aspects I find despicable / disgusting

Yep massively! He's the sexiest man alive in my eyes 😍

Yes I do, and still regularly see other ladies checking him out. However the lusty ‘want to rip your clothes off as soon as we are alone’ has waned since having a young child and entering perimenopause. Many older friends have told me this is temporary and that your sex life (just like the rest of life) has peaks and troughs. Do you find his personality attractive? Humour and wit don’t fade with age.

Honestly, I think it's out of order when people do this. If you're planning to leave him when your kids are 18 then you should tell him because, you know, maybe that's not a plan he wants. If he knew, he could make a decision now.

Perhaps you'll tell me it's none of my business - and it isn't. But you've stuck it on an Internet forum so 🤷‍♂️

Very much so! I think it increases the longer we're together. He takes good care of himself too.

Similar. I even knew it at the time, so can't comfort myself I was doing what I thought was best; I was just a coward with low self esteem. I'm not able to be as sanguine as you about it though. Sometimes it hits me like a brick and I can't stop crying.

Yes.