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PhilippaGeorgiou · 27/08/2025 13:11

Wasn't sure where to post this, but I thought AIBU would be ok. I am not running this as a poll, because I don't care about anyones opinions on the matter. And if anyone wants to respond with more racism, don't bother because I won't be engaging for even a second.

Right at the moment this site is not being overrun by racists because MNHQ has determined that there are no racists on the site and it's abuse to tell anyone they are a racist (even when they are). However, there are multiple threads expressing racism every single day, all rehearsing the same old misinformation and bogus narratives. Not one of those posters want to engage - they become abusive and offensive if anyone produces remotely evidenced facts. Their "facts" are the only truthful facts. Everyone else is a "woman hating woke leftist". Which is apparently not abus, according to MNHQ. MNHQ have made is abundantly clear that they will not moderate misinformation, and are blithely happy to allow most abuse to stand.

Here's the thing - there's pretty much nobody on those threads that is genuinely interested in having a discussion or debating information. There is nobody jumping on those threads saying that they don't really understand the different views and positions and would like to know more. Unsurprising, anyone who actually wants to explore the issue, the absolute last place to look to do that would be yet another toxic thread here. Probably the only good thing is that it really is highly unlikely anyone with a real curiousity about the subject would look to form opinions based on the toxic formula of MN.

The only thing that these threads are good for is clicks and ££££'s in the bank for Justine and the site.

So anti-racists - I suggest that we all stop answering these threads altogether. I know it is hard to see the racism stand (although apparently not for the owners of the site or the moderators) unchallenged, but every single challange does nothing but feed the flames and earn money for MN. You all know that the people who are not racists will spend 20% of their posts posting misinformation and 80% posting goady barbs and personal insults, just to keep the threads going. It will be incredibly boring for them if they only have each other to talk to. The threads will die without oxygen. And MN makes no money out of clicks that haven't happened. It's a win all around.

And if you want to do something proactive, instead of engaging with people who aren't going to listen, why not raise your concerns about the racism with the advertisers? They are being associated with it by their presence, and are clearly far more likely to influence the owners of the site than the people posting on it.

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LindorDoubleChoc · 27/08/2025 20:44

Place marking to read tomorrow. I have largely stayed away from Mumsnet for weeks (for obvious reasons!) but I am interested in the outcome of this thread.

LakieLady · 27/08/2025 20:29

Fizzer5 · 27/08/2025 17:15

We are overcrowded as we are. Let us revise the rules on Claiming Asylum.
Let's change the rules on agreeing to people remaining hers for flimsy reasons.

I always chuckle when I read that "we are overcrowded". From my house, I only have to go round the corner and across the road and I can walk for 6 miles before I come to another road, passing precisely one house one on the way. I can see 10 miles or so of unspoilt countryside from my living room window, 19 miles if I go upstairs. And this is in the SE, only an hour from London on the train.

I concede the UK is more densely populated than many of our European neighbours, and that cities are very different, but there's still a huge amount of uninhabited land in the UK.

Lilactimes · 27/08/2025 20:28

HangryLikeTheHulk · 27/08/2025 19:28

Not really greening. Parts of the Sahel had unusual rain patterns (climate change), but there is no evidence of a systematic reversal of desertification.

Dear @HangryLikeTheHulk there’s little point in engaging with this poster - they seem to think they’re an expert on anything and everything from Tibetan history to history of Britain - even though they’re American and have disturbing ideas on racial purity and now, seemingly, climate change. I would ignore x

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 20:25

Lonelycrab · 27/08/2025 20:15

Yes and my ds used to like dipping his chips into his Oreo milkshake when we stopped at Burger King at the motorway services.

Sounds about the same sort of appealing Confused

Now you are just being wilfully offensive.

Reported!

Lonelycrab · 27/08/2025 20:22

There’s probably a Michelin starred restaurant somewhere serving scones with Stilton for a starter.

Main dish; croissants bolognaise

BurntBroccoli · 27/08/2025 20:21

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 20:17

I love a cheese scone spread with thick salty butter.

Ooh yes - thick enough to cause teeth marks!

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 20:18

Loving the humour thrown in for good measure 😁😍

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 20:17

I love a cheese scone spread with thick salty butter.

BurntBroccoli · 27/08/2025 20:17

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 20:04

My cat can't decide whether to retreat to the spare bedroom where he spends the colder months or carry on lounging about in the garden.

Ha ha same here! Mine did eventually go back out to lie on the wet grass when the sun came out. It was actually really warm and he looked very content!

TopPocketFind · 27/08/2025 20:15

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 20:11

Can I just say, and I know this will incur some wrath, I quite like a cheese scone.

I feel better for getting that off my chest.

My fellow cheese sconist 🧀 I felt a bit lonely

Lonelycrab · 27/08/2025 20:15

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 20:11

Can I just say, and I know this will incur some wrath, I quite like a cheese scone.

I feel better for getting that off my chest.

Yes and my ds used to like dipping his chips into his Oreo milkshake when we stopped at Burger King at the motorway services.

Sounds about the same sort of appealing Confused

Lilactimes · 27/08/2025 20:14

ilovesooty · 27/08/2025 19:49

Me too.

Oh no @MrsBennetsPoorNerves - I would be very sad not to see your comments on threads. They’re always so wise, astute and pithy. I’ve learned lots from you on the threads about trans.
The last few days have been pretty brutal and sad with such ignorance shown. I was so pleased to see your comments.

i don’t know ….. I agree but at the same time I can’t bear to let these idiots just think they’re winning every argument. X

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 20:11

Can I just say, and I know this will incur some wrath, I quite like a cheese scone.

I feel better for getting that off my chest.

CharlotteRumpling · 27/08/2025 20:05

I won't accept posts about cats without pictures of said cats. What is the world coming to?

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 20:04

My cat can't decide whether to retreat to the spare bedroom where he spends the colder months or carry on lounging about in the garden.

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 20:02

Lonelycrab · 27/08/2025 19:57

I think it’s best to ignore usernames that have next to zero posting history.

Argh, missed that!

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 20:02

Lemintonic · 27/08/2025 19:58

Please explain the irony. Two teeth Trevor painting on roundabouts and shouting 'piss off ragheads', and his mates are definitely women's rugby supporters then, and that is why they do it?

Two teeth Trevor made me laugh and usually very little to laugh at on these threads.
What's going on needs to be challenged.

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 20:01

Lashed it down earlier here, then the sun came back out.

Lonelycrab · 27/08/2025 20:01

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 19:57

Pissed it down here today for all of 25 minutes. The cat looked very confused.

Crossing my fingers it will go absolutely biblical with the rainfall on sept 13th🤞🤞🤞

After all my garden probably needs it, and it’ll save us a fortune in policing bills for us too…

nomas · 27/08/2025 20:00

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 19:59

Rained a bit here earlier. Not enough to rescue my crispy dried up lawn though.

Yes, a desultory drizzle here too.

BurntBroccoli · 27/08/2025 19:59

Fizzer5 · 27/08/2025 18:21

@SpidersAreShitheads in your reply to @tee you say "some people think we shouldn't take anymore asylum seekers".
Given the problems we have with our economy. That would be beneficial for nearly all of us don't you think?
Our energy bills will increase, announced this afternoon.

They’ll increase a heck of a lot more if Reform get in and ban renewable energy expansion (and the infrastructure needed).

We are just making good progress in becoming an energy independent country. One day last month was powered mainly by wind! I think that’s amazing!

EchoedSilence · 27/08/2025 19:59

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 19:55

I'll be glad when it starts raining.

Rained a bit here earlier. Not enough to rescue my crispy dried up lawn though.

PandoraSocks · 27/08/2025 19:58

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 19:53

And anyway, there have literally been posters on this very thread who are BME who have told us how they feel. Hope you are OK with that.

Yep.

And pp would also do very well to remember that many families are diverse and many people have more that one heritage. They should be wary of making sweeping assumptions about posters.

Lemintonic · 27/08/2025 19:58

WhereIsMyJumper · 27/08/2025 17:13

The irony when this post is so ignorant

Please explain the irony. Two teeth Trevor painting on roundabouts and shouting 'piss off ragheads', and his mates are definitely women's rugby supporters then, and that is why they do it?

Piggywaspushed · 27/08/2025 19:57

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 19:55

I'll be glad when it starts raining.

Pissed it down here today for all of 25 minutes. The cat looked very confused.