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I’m sitting beside my beloved mother as her life ebbs away

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tougholdbirdy · 26/08/2025 22:17

I I’m heartbroken and surprisingly at peace. She knows how much I love and value her and I know how much she loves me .
I feel such pride to be her daughter, she has been my rock all my life .
please hold my hand .

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HappiestSleeping · 26/08/2025 22:26

Solidarity. I am currently sat beside my wife who is about to be taken by cancer. I am similarly heartbroken.

You are not alone @tougholdbirdy big hug to you.

BlueGlassOfDoom · 26/08/2025 22:26

I am so sorry. It was the privilege of my life to do this for my beloved father three years ago and I hope it will, over time, bring you the same comfort it has me to know that you were there when she really needed you.

Thinking of you, take care of yourself xxx

BlackeyedSusan · 26/08/2025 22:26

Been there, done that. It's really hard. But worth it. So worth it.

CreationNat1on · 26/08/2025 22:24

Wishing you well and acceptance. Value this time.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 26/08/2025 22:23

A handhold for you op

It is a great privilege to be loved. May she be at peace but always watching over you xx

BillytheMountain · 26/08/2025 22:23

Your Mum sounds lovely, and so do you x

YesHonestly · 26/08/2025 22:22

I am sending you love and holding your hand OP x

Serpentstooth · 26/08/2025 22:21

It's one-off my greatest regrets that I didn't do the same for my mother. Cherish your last moments together.

nocoolnamesleft · 26/08/2025 22:18

I am so sorry. May your mutual love sustain you through this.

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