Things that PISS you off, but you can't really say so.

I cook ours in a tinfoil container, no garlic butter is lost anywhere, if it leaks, it gets poured over the veg.

If the chopping board is one of those with a decorative side, he'll do his chopping on that instead of using the work side.

My husband being a big dozy bull in a fucking China shop!!! He’s so fucking careless, I’m sick of shit getting damaged. An example. Brand new worktop waiting in the hallway for the joiner to start work tomorrow. He’s just slammed the fucking front door into it! Once because he’s forgotten I can forgive but he did it 3 times while walking through the door once!!! Why??? 😭😭 and if I catch him cutting stuff on it without a chopping board I’m likely to fucking knife him.

People who take for ever choosing a coffee,or sandwich,or cake. Then they have to start asking a dozen questions about what they've ordered. I'm standing in the queue behind them,gradually losing the will to live as they hum and haw. Ditto people who take an age deciding which meal they want in a restaurant or cafe.

"ah, they're obviously confident in my love"

Based on this and your op, they seem to be pretty self-centred.

someone I know has quite a clingy codependent relationship with her husband.

The last time I saw her we were out for a 2 hour walk and her husband rang her twice in that time just for a chat. It happens if we go out for a meal too - which I find really rude.

They have 2 kids and they absolutely can’t do anything separate without the other. Every medical appointment, both of them have to attend. She made her husband come home early once to attend a routine hospital appointment with her. They took one of their kids to A&E with a stomach bug and got someone to babysit the other one. Lucky them that they have so many people who can help but then they will moan that X family member wouldn’t babysit so they could go out for a meal together. They have so much help, but don’t appreciate it

That’s really disrespectful.

In my experience, usually those kind of people don’t blame or criticise. They are just flexible. I know it can be annoying but they don’t mean harm.

Why not just tell them I want you to make a call as I am tired of looking for options.

You both have a point ( or points?) 😁 Please correct me English is my second language and after all these years, I still get confused or perplexed. 🤔

There are a lot of things that pee me off that I chose to remain quiet about.

KIEV IS NOT ONE OF THEM.

@Doingtheboxerbeat was right to be distraught. I'm so sorry for your unhappiness. I hope you feel better in a week or two.

@Aliflowers, @Myfridgeiscool, @Aliflowers. How very dare you suggest degrading perfection by placing it on a slice of bread, resulting in one tragically imperfect kiev and one even less perfect soggy piece of not even toasted garlic bread?! Go away and think about what you've said and come back to me when you're ready to repent please.

@Sharkpenis - given your username, I'm going to guess that you get up to all kinds of unorthodox tomfoolery. So, it's no surprise to me that you suggest cooking the kiev UPSIDE DOWN. Have you never heard of an upside down cake? It gets cooked upside down for a very good reason! The domed roof of a kiev is sculpted to perfection to allow the heat to rise, bringing the godlyjuice to the perfect temperature. What exactly d'ya think's going to happen when you put a FLAT roof on it, huh? I bet you're the kind of person who'd plain rip the roof off your own house and shove a flat roof in its place, just because you can.

Anarchy.

Disgraceful.

@DilkushaKitchen - you are a smart person.

@ChelseaDetective - excellent work.

@BCBird - as the kids like to say - KIEV R SRS BSNS, kindly contain your laughter.

@Kurokurosuke and @itsgettingweird - I hope you don't mind that I now class you as firm friends.

@Kilhopper27 - you're a genius.

And, last but not least, @JudgeJ - I have reserved my best side eye/lemon face scowl just for you.

I hope this clears the matter up for all involved.

The LA lying to us when they know that we know they are lying. They have no shame.
To be honest everything to do with the LA pisses me off.

I get why these things annoy you. I don't get why you 'can't really say so' though. Who do you think is going to be offended by you moaning about shit drivers at T-junctions?!

It was judgy 😭 but I've had worse on mumsnet

Solidarity with you girl, its exhausting! I have accepted that bedtime won't be perfect but it will be done, and we will get some sleep, and thats enough x

I’d love to say “perhaps you are the problem” to several people. It sounds too spiteful so I wouldn’t say it but there are a few people in my life who seem to have absolutely zero self awareness and can’t take gentle hints. Also - focus your energy on bettering yourself rather than being jealous of everyone else and trying to take everyone else down a peg.
I wish I was one of those tactful, personable people who can say these things in a gentle way but I’m not!

I saw a woman with her bare feet on the seat opposite her on the train yesterday yuck. She kept stretching her feet and legs out, had very dry skin. I was just thinking, take note of the carriage I'm on in case I get the same one back in the morning I wont sit there.

Yeah, I have experienced that twice. I still leave that option on, but I think I may have to turn that off in the future too.

I turn off lane-keeping assist, because it's rubbish and has at times tried to push me in another lane, because it got confused about the lines on the road. I have even had it trying to steer me into grass or into a car in the lane next to me.

I turn off max speed warnings, because they are wrong more than 50% of the time and it keeps beeping at me. It tries to read the speed signs, but often if will read a sign from another road and tells me I am speeding when I am not. Very distracting.

When it freezes I often get a sensor warning on the dash with a lot of text. Thing is, these warnings typically occur when I am of the freaking highway going over 80 kph. I am not going to read a bunch of text when I am busy driving. Ugh, who designed these systems?

Haha DH’s car is like that. I refuse to drive it. It keeps doing emergency stops and it feels like you’ve hit someone / something but it just thinks you’re too close to a stationary object( when you’re not). It stops us with a massive jolt. It’s horrible. Have to turn it off every single journey. So it’s like being a pilot in the cockpit every single time we get in. Sooo annoying.

I usually idle for a few minutes before leaving, because my stupid car has all this automation that I have to turn off which make it dangerous to drive otherwise. Sometimes I need some time to set up my navigation system.

What do you mean? It’s always been called nail varnish .

People who don’t read texts for more than 24 hrs! Them they reply and it often doesn’t make sense because the moment has passed

Hate this. Has happened twice this summer . If they don’t show then they don’t get a second chance .

This is so annoying! I always end up making the decision

Tbh round here, I'm always surprised they are still there when the owner leaves the shop.