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Would you let Dh crack on or would you help?

30 replies

woolshop · 26/08/2025 04:58

On a 3 day break to recover from a hectic weekend of Ds wedding. Beautiful location, perfect weather plenty of healthy takeaways conveniently located so taking advantage of not having to cook and clean up. Dh insists on plating takeaways rather than just eating out of containers. I’m happy to eat out of containers so aibu to let him clean up. Because that is what I’m doing but wondering would others help. Btw just us with Dd and her Dh and 2 toddles.

OP posts:
MrsTerryPratchett · 26/08/2025 05:19

Depends. Curry or Chinese food, plate and help. Kebab or burger, don’t bother.

Rafting2022 · 26/08/2025 05:07

How difficult is it to wash 6 plates afterwards?

Hufflemuff · 26/08/2025 05:04

What a dull AIBU

Ivenoname · 26/08/2025 05:04

Deliberately not helping seems an act of real unpleasantness in what should be a happy family time together.

DoRayMeMeMe · 26/08/2025 05:01

Of course it should be plated.