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Rip the flags down! A call for action!

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Ilovemychocolate · 25/08/2025 18:46

The sudden appearance of the English flag hung on lamp posts, railings etc has absolutely sickened me, and my dd.
I am proud to be British, but the misappropriation of the flag by thugs, intending to intimidate, is absolutely not acceptable in a diverse society.
So tonight myself and my adult dd ripped them down in our area, and tomorrow we will be going on a flag hunt, to rip down any more we find.
I would strongly urge those of you that feel the same way, to also remove them, as long as you feel safe and comfortable to do it.
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Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 26/08/2025 07:36

AgnesX · 25/08/2025 19:04

The Saltire isn't used like the St George flag and doesn't have the same connotations. The Ulster banner is though.

You must lead a very sheltered life if you don't realise that.

Why though? My question was because I don't really understand - I'm Scottish. I live in Scotland. All a flag really signifies is the country you're in so I find it difficult to understand how it portrays racism/threats. I am trying to better understand this.

SparklyGlitterballs · 26/08/2025 07:30

You'd have fun in my area. As well as the flags on lamp posts, people are spray painting roundabouts, the white strips on zebra crossings and even some of the little white blocks on give way lines. People are even joking that they should spray paint the St George's flag in pot holes, to force the council to do something about them.

Hottchoc · 26/08/2025 07:27

Op thinks she's batman

ilovesooty · 26/08/2025 07:26

Valeriekat · 26/08/2025 07:11

Well one one of these "thugs" sees you do it I suppose you too will accept the consequences of your actions.

So it's not the fault of the thugs if she's beaten up? If that was said in a domestic violence setting it would be classed as victim blaming - and you're not the first person on the thread who's done it.

exasperatedflatmate · 26/08/2025 07:24

@Valeriekati have no idea but I suspect any cohort of men will have similar proportions of offending and well adjusted lawful behavior. It’s being a man not the colour of skin or political affiliation which is the crucial marker. I wish people could understand that

ilovesooty · 26/08/2025 07:23

TreatTreat · 26/08/2025 07:04

Oh, shut up OP. When our girls and women are safe from undocumented men, I'll come on a flag hunt with you.

And how is festooning lampposts with tacky flags going to make women and girls any safer?

millymollymoomoo · 26/08/2025 07:17

Scared of reform ? Ha ha. Omg. Such delusion, she should be more scared about Islamist’s and the far left!

there is nothing racist at all about not wanting hundreds of thousands of illegal
immigrants entering, crime rates soaring, costs to tax payer soaring and from
countries and cultures that treat women like shit! It’s common sense to stop this.

the govts first job is to protect its borders… and successive ones have failed spectacularly in that.

managed and controlled legal immigration, by people who value our culture way of life and want to integrate isn’t the issue ( although that’s also way too high now)

Avantiagain · 26/08/2025 07:16

I don't like the reason why they have all started appearing but I think most of those doing it will get bored with it soon and get back to their other hobbies.

Valeriekat · 26/08/2025 07:13

exasperatedflatmate · 26/08/2025 07:07

True they might not be safe from those men. But do you remember the Southport riots and how a large percentage of those flag cloaked English knights had prior for domestic abuse or assault?
we are equally at risk from any section of the male population. Let’s not take our eye off that ball.

It would be interesting to know if any of the people on Antifa counter protests have any convictions? Anti Israel marches?

rubicustellitall · 26/08/2025 07:12

How many did you take down and bin OP? I have 5 spare.I shall errect them in your honour this morning after church. We racist gammons over 50 love a little sport you know between our knitting, our church services and our love for celebrating our patriotism. The WI are unstoppable in the country right now, didn;t you know ?
You and your daughter "the feminist" sound so much fun...Our sewing circle will be thinking of you this afternoon when we are sat around sewing on swashtikas for the lads...
For the record this is the most stupid post I have commented on for a while and deserves the sarcasm aimed at it..
Remove at will mumsnet its fine by me!

Valeriekat · 26/08/2025 07:11

Well one one of these "thugs" sees you do it I suppose you too will accept the consequences of your actions.

millymollymoomoo · 26/08/2025 07:10

And you epitomise what’s gone wrong with this country. You must be so proud of yourself. Well done 👍

SomewhatAnnoyed · 26/08/2025 07:10

Ballykeelover · 26/08/2025 06:53

I’m not English.

I hold dual identities.

it’s all about context.

when I see the flags - of both sides - in estates to intimidate I feel no pride. And I would contend that most right thinking people don’t either.

It’s not just England.

You are lucky in England to a degree. There would be a real active danger to life in other places if you took down flags.

What do you mean of both sides?

SomewhatAnnoyed · 26/08/2025 07:09

Ballykeelover · 26/08/2025 06:53

I’m not English.

I hold dual identities.

it’s all about context.

when I see the flags - of both sides - in estates to intimidate I feel no pride. And I would contend that most right thinking people don’t either.

It’s not just England.

You are lucky in England to a degree. There would be a real active danger to life in other places if you took down flags.

Yes I think in the U.S. it’s still illegal to burn/deface their flag - could be wrong

exasperatedflatmate · 26/08/2025 07:07

TreatTreat · 26/08/2025 07:04

Oh, shut up OP. When our girls and women are safe from undocumented men, I'll come on a flag hunt with you.

True they might not be safe from those men. But do you remember the Southport riots and how a large percentage of those flag cloaked English knights had prior for domestic abuse or assault?
we are equally at risk from any section of the male population. Let’s not take our eye off that ball.

exasperatedflatmate · 26/08/2025 07:05

When I see the flag of St George flown on April 23 from our parish church and others I think ‘lovely’ and get a little patriotic tingle. When I see it hung at seeming half mast off random lamp posts and bridges I think ‘how grim’ and that it’s a sad looking sight.

TreatTreat · 26/08/2025 07:04

Oh, shut up OP. When our girls and women are safe from undocumented men, I'll come on a flag hunt with you.

ACynicalDad · 26/08/2025 07:01

Your call to action was a huge success!

Are you pro pulling down the Palestine Anna Pakistan ones too, or just the flag of the country we’re in?

Boomer55 · 26/08/2025 06:59

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 25/08/2025 18:52

Why? I'm in Scotland and we have flags everywhere. Are English people not allowed to fly the English flag? Genuinely curious. If you ripped down a flag in another country you could face jail time.

Yes, I think all this with flags is nuts. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

MixedBananas · 26/08/2025 06:55

Seen some on motorways but I live in Wales. None seen here but if there were any the Welsh will go mental

pestowithwalnuts · 26/08/2025 06:53

Ilovemychocolate · 25/08/2025 18:46

The sudden appearance of the English flag hung on lamp posts, railings etc has absolutely sickened me, and my dd.
I am proud to be British, but the misappropriation of the flag by thugs, intending to intimidate, is absolutely not acceptable in a diverse society.
So tonight myself and my adult dd ripped them down in our area, and tomorrow we will be going on a flag hunt, to rip down any more we find.
I would strongly urge those of you that feel the same way, to also remove them, as long as you feel safe and comfortable to do it.
Posting in AIBU for traffic.

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Ballykeelover · 26/08/2025 06:53

SomewhatAnnoyed · 26/08/2025 05:28

It’s fucking sad that we’re seemingly the only country in the world where flying our flag is seen as racist and the ‘nice’ ppl are offended and ashamed by it. It used to be associations with football hooliganism, but we’re not the only country with twattish thugs. Ppl are still offended when they’re displayed during sporting events at pubs etc. Now it’s being used by racists to demonstrate the increasing surge in asylum seekers and illegal migrants - but other countries racists use theirs in the same way too.

Not EVERY St. George’s cross is a racist emblem though. Racists make up the minority of the country’s population, so why do they get to dictate how our flag is used and seen by ourselves and others?

Context is everything and it’s easy to associate the current wave of flags with the protests, I’m sure the majority are, but the same association persists regardless and not just in the present situation. The ppl who object to seeing the England flag (who are English) would not object to visiting another country and seeing their flags displayed - they’d read it as national pride.

It has been decided that due to acts of men that walked the earth hundreds of years before we were born modern multicultural England is not allowed to have national pride.

I’m not English.

I hold dual identities.

it’s all about context.

when I see the flags - of both sides - in estates to intimidate I feel no pride. And I would contend that most right thinking people don’t either.

It’s not just England.

You are lucky in England to a degree. There would be a real active danger to life in other places if you took down flags.

SomewhatAnnoyed · 26/08/2025 05:28

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 25/08/2025 18:52

Why? I'm in Scotland and we have flags everywhere. Are English people not allowed to fly the English flag? Genuinely curious. If you ripped down a flag in another country you could face jail time.

It’s fucking sad that we’re seemingly the only country in the world where flying our flag is seen as racist and the ‘nice’ ppl are offended and ashamed by it. It used to be associations with football hooliganism, but we’re not the only country with twattish thugs. Ppl are still offended when they’re displayed during sporting events at pubs etc. Now it’s being used by racists to demonstrate the increasing surge in asylum seekers and illegal migrants - but other countries racists use theirs in the same way too.

Not EVERY St. George’s cross is a racist emblem though. Racists make up the minority of the country’s population, so why do they get to dictate how our flag is used and seen by ourselves and others?

Context is everything and it’s easy to associate the current wave of flags with the protests, I’m sure the majority are, but the same association persists regardless and not just in the present situation. The ppl who object to seeing the England flag (who are English) would not object to visiting another country and seeing their flags displayed - they’d read it as national pride.

It has been decided that due to acts of men that walked the earth hundreds of years before we were born modern multicultural England is not allowed to have national pride.

Netcurtainnelly · 26/08/2025 00:34

Petrolitis · 25/08/2025 18:51

There aren't any by me, but yes I would take them down.

They're a calling card for rascists.

Happy to get into arguments then, because that is what will happen.
Prepared to be filmed are you and talked about on social media. That's what's happening.

Get on with your life and stop looking for trouble. You could end up injured, stressed, filmed all sorts of things.

Netcurtainnelly · 26/08/2025 00:30

Ilovemychocolate · 25/08/2025 18:46

The sudden appearance of the English flag hung on lamp posts, railings etc has absolutely sickened me, and my dd.
I am proud to be British, but the misappropriation of the flag by thugs, intending to intimidate, is absolutely not acceptable in a diverse society.
So tonight myself and my adult dd ripped them down in our area, and tomorrow we will be going on a flag hunt, to rip down any more we find.
I would strongly urge those of you that feel the same way, to also remove them, as long as you feel safe and comfortable to do it.
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You will waste your time as they will be put back up.
Plus if anyone sees you, your likely be confronted, filmed and put on your social media.
Is that what you want for you and your child. Your going looking for trouble.