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To think Serena Williams being on a GLP-1 isn’t that big a deal?

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SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 08:37

I know a lot of people have issues with her advertising it, but that is just the American drug market. They advertise everything single drug going.

I personally think it’s quite nice to see someone so athletic be open with her struggles, and show that even with the most disciplined diet and exercise regime, it’s not always that simple

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GLP1Girl · 25/08/2025 14:22

I don’t believe that she did it purely for weight loss as she talked about her joints and blood sugar. These are good health reasons.

Losing some weight would help her joints and improve blood sugar control.

Remembering, too, that African-Americans are more susceptible to T2D than white populations.

BlueSlate · 25/08/2025 13:12

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 13:05

Another one who can vouch for the meds changing my life.

One of my friends has suggested I come off now, at 15 stone, because I can do couch to 5k, go to the gym and walk for several miles. She says that that’s a healthy body.

im still obese! I think people just want us to stay fat forever

Sadly, I think there's quite a lot to be said for this.

I read so many criticisms online of Adele when she lost weight. Some people took it as a personal betrayal.

I think some people genuinely think, "I'm OK because she's the same size/bigger than me." And when they start looking and thinking, "She's smaller than me," it's a very uncomfortable place to be.

usedtobeaylis · 25/08/2025 13:08

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 13:05

Another one who can vouch for the meds changing my life.

One of my friends has suggested I come off now, at 15 stone, because I can do couch to 5k, go to the gym and walk for several miles. She says that that’s a healthy body.

im still obese! I think people just want us to stay fat forever

Yep, there is no 'positivity' in obesity. The whole point is to not put your life on hold if you are obese or overweight and the whole point of a movement was supposed to be a recognition of how difficult that is and to support people. A bastardised movement does no-one any good.

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 13:05

usedtobeaylis · 25/08/2025 13:03

Congrats :)

The simple fact is that very few people feel good when they're lugging multiple extra stones about with them. The people trying to make them feel bad about that under the guise of 'body positivity' and banging on about aesthetics are no different from the usual people who want fat people to stay fat.

I hate being fat. I hate them limitations on my body caused by being fat, I hate the endless cycles of trying to be healthier, I hate how clothes feel on my body, and I hate the increased risks of genetic conditions that are already in my family.

I love being able to run, to be able to get up off the floor, to be able to lie flat without being choked by acid, to be able to wear nice clothes that don't look like parachutes. I like knowing I'm doing my level best to be around for my daughter, to feel comfortable on a night out, and I like the reduced inflammation and puffiness in my face and feet.

Some people just really fucking hate that for us. Including for otherwise active and disciplined people.

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Another one who can vouch for the meds changing my life.

One of my friends has suggested I come off now, at 15 stone, because I can do couch to 5k, go to the gym and walk for several miles. She says that that’s a healthy body.

im still obese! I think people just want us to stay fat forever

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usedtobeaylis · 25/08/2025 13:03

TorturedParentsDepartment · 25/08/2025 11:37

The medication has been utterly life-changing. I was (and I've got a crazy frame where I have always weighed heavier than I looked - dunno the mechanics of it) nearly 25 stone, size 28, but beginning to hit the point where my mobility was suffering from it. I could go to the gym every day - and I have had periods where I would do that, and lift heavy weights, do cardio - I was physically strong at that point - but I still had constant, constant hunger, constant food cravings and no mental off switch at all - however hard I pushed my willpower.

I'd hit that point where my weight was making it harder for me (mentally and physically - because hurling abuse at fatties trying to get active is of course absolutely hilarious to a section of society) to move and I knew I was in the spiral point where the only way was larger and larger.

So in November I started on Mounjaro. Financially it's been a killer - and the side effects haven't been fun at points - I seem to have learnt how to live with them as I've gone on. I've not used them as a tool to drastically under-eat (I've seen the morons on social media existing on 800 cals a day and flogging their referral codes), but they have turned off the constant food craving noise, turned off the constant hunger and, most importantly of all - they've given me a mental off switch where food is concerned. I can have a few grapes and not have a yawning abyss in my brain until they've all gone, I can have a small piece of cheese and not be haunted by the rest of it in the fridge - I can have a normal attitude to food. They've also changed the food I'm drawn to as well - I don't absolutely yearn for chocolate anymore, and I'd quite like some chicken pieces to snack on rather than crisps - that kind of change has happened quite spontaneously on the meds. I eat normal, small portions of the same meals my family do - so usually chicken or fish and veg type meals - but that's it, I eat the meals and I'm satisfied by them and able to stop when full.

I've lost a crazy amount of weight - 5 1/2 stone - but at a rate of 1-2lb a week, with periodic plateaus where my body's obviously readjusted itself and got on with it - and it's been sustainable. I'm now just below 19 stone, in a size 20 clothes - I still have a long way to go, and yes, I've probably recently started showing the "ozempic face" - which you are realistically just going to get when you drop any significant amount of weight in later life. Absolutely minimal loose skin so far though - under no illusion that won't be coming at some point.

And I FEEL so much better - I'm able to walk to the shop now rather than needing the car, I've lost about 50% of the pelvic pain I've been plagued with since having the kids (I was that poor bugger whose pelvic girdle problems never cleared up - largely because of a mishandled childbirth) - I'm still in pain with the misaligned pelvis, but it's manageable. Although physically I didn't have any of the usual issues associated with massive obesity (believe me - my GP has desperately looked over the years) - I felt like I was starting to be on the tipping point for pre diabetes which has corrected itself (I had bloods done the other week which only showed my usual Vit D deficiency - everything else was normal but I appear to be part-vampire and I'm always down on D).

It's not about aesthetics for me - although being able to buy clothes in the supermarket was probably my one big goal (I hate Yours clothing - sorry guys)... my face now looks a bit shit compared to a stone or so ago - it was just regaining mobility and feeling better that mattered to me.

And yep, I may well end up needing a regular low dose lifelong - if that's the case, I'll live with that. I'm hoping I won't - but the odds are never in your favour if you've previously been very obese, your body will always be fighting to take you back to that. It's made it clear to me how much my brain needed the GLP1 medication to be able to to process food normally - I was always fighting against that imbalance until now.

And the price increase - is going to be fucking painful.

Congrats :)

The simple fact is that very few people feel good when they're lugging multiple extra stones about with them. The people trying to make them feel bad about that under the guise of 'body positivity' and banging on about aesthetics are no different from the usual people who want fat people to stay fat.

I hate being fat. I hate them limitations on my body caused by being fat, I hate the endless cycles of trying to be healthier, I hate how clothes feel on my body, and I hate the increased risks of genetic conditions that are already in my family.

I love being able to run, to be able to get up off the floor, to be able to lie flat without being choked by acid, to be able to wear nice clothes that don't look like parachutes. I like knowing I'm doing my level best to be around for my daughter, to feel comfortable on a night out, and I like the reduced inflammation and puffiness in my face and feet.

Some people just really fucking hate that for us. Including for otherwise active and disciplined people.

OutsideLookingOut · 25/08/2025 12:58

Ihateboris · 25/08/2025 12:47

I agree with every single word. I think we are going to see an increase in eating disorders.

I also think it shows how many people don’t understand correlation and causation. I think the whole system of healthy bmi and overweight/obese needs an overhaul

spoonbillstretford · 25/08/2025 12:53

Good for her. I was lighter than she was when playing tennis when I started on Mounjaro (and am slightly shorter) and also sporty and had tried to shift two stone+ for over 15 years.

usedtobeaylis · 25/08/2025 12:52

bridgetreilly · 25/08/2025 12:43

Yes. But this thread seems to be about people who ‘have 10lbs they can’t shift’. That’s not obese.

I don't think it is? The one person I saw who mentioned 10lb was just talking about general weight gain in perimenopause.

OwlBeThere · 25/08/2025 12:48

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 08:40

To be fair I think Adele lost a LOT of her weight before these drugs were really on the market didn’t she? It was after her divorce

Adele had been consistently losing weight for years too before the big drop. If you look at her early videos nd then say rolling in the deep she’s clearly thinner.

Ihateboris · 25/08/2025 12:47

EatMoreChocolate44 · 25/08/2025 08:46

I think it's terrible. How are normal people supposed to be body positive and accept their shape and size if super fit athletes are promoting weight loss drugs. Weight loss drugs should be for people who are clinical obese and have health issues. People who truly need help when nothing else has worked. It's bringing back skinny culture and the need to be thin to be beautiful which is rubbish. We had so much body positivity, embracing your curves, accepting our bodies, loving our bodies for what they can do, to now being made to feel bad about ourselves. We have regressed back to the 90s when being skinny was desired. I think it's depressing. Like I said, great if you genuinely need it for your health, you are struggling with your size and you've went through a medical professional otherwise it's shaming normal people and poor people who can't afford to 'keep' up with this new standard of 'health' and 'body size'.

I agree with every single word. I think we are going to see an increase in eating disorders.

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:47

U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:44

My point is that if they’re now advertising it for fit, healthy perimenopausal women, why the need to gatekeep it from women who have genuinely gained weight in perimenopause and who have constant food noise?

She looked fit and healthy. Whether or not she actually was, we don't know. She obviously was obese, or she wouldn't have been able to get it. Obesity carries huge risks, and it's okay for her to want to treat that.

She also gained a lot of weight, you can see it in pictures.

FWIW, I do think that they will slowly expand prescribing guidelines for people who are just overweight, but at the moment you need to be obese.

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U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:44

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:31

The BMI criteria for obesity for certain races is lower, so it’s certainly possible.

My point is that if they’re now advertising it for fit, healthy perimenopausal women, why the need to gatekeep it from women who have genuinely gained weight in perimenopause and who have constant food noise?

bridgetreilly · 25/08/2025 12:43

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:39

If they’re classed as obese though they have the same risks.

Yes. But this thread seems to be about people who ‘have 10lbs they can’t shift’. That’s not obese.

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:39

bridgetreilly · 25/08/2025 12:33

Yes, but that’s the point. WLI to help people who are genuinely unhealthy, great. To help people who have perfectly nice, healthy bodies get thinner? Ummmmm.

If they’re classed as obese though they have the same risks.

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bridgetreilly · 25/08/2025 12:33

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 08:49

Body positivity has crossed a line in the last few years though.

it used to be about celebrating health, but it’s now gone beyond that to celebrating genuinely unhealthy bodies.

Yes, but that’s the point. WLI to help people who are genuinely unhealthy, great. To help people who have perfectly nice, healthy bodies get thinner? Ummmmm.

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:31

U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:29

No. Was Serena obese?

The BMI criteria for obesity for certain races is lower, so it’s certainly possible.

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U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:29

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:24

Are you obese?

serena is black, which also has an impact as people from certain races can be made a lot more ill by their weight at a lower weight.

No. Was Serena obese?

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 12:24

U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:15

I don’t think it’s fair. I eat a healthy diet, exercise most days, yet cannot shift my perimenopausal weight gain—about 10 pounds. The BBC article I read about Serena said it was due to perimenopausal
weight gain. I’ve applied for the jabs on reputable websites and been rejected. I don’t want to go down the bootleg route with drugs. Why is Serena allowed them, but not the rest of us?

Are you obese?

serena is black, which also has an impact as people from certain races can be made a lot more ill by their weight at a lower weight.

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BabyCatFace · 25/08/2025 12:16

U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:15

I don’t think it’s fair. I eat a healthy diet, exercise most days, yet cannot shift my perimenopausal weight gain—about 10 pounds. The BBC article I read about Serena said it was due to perimenopausal
weight gain. I’ve applied for the jabs on reputable websites and been rejected. I don’t want to go down the bootleg route with drugs. Why is Serena allowed them, but not the rest of us?

Because she's in America where things are different for many reasons

U53rName · 25/08/2025 12:15

SaltAirAndTheRust · 25/08/2025 08:43

As someone on them it really made me smile (which I know is odd), because it’s really nice to see that even the healthiest, most athletic people can need a helping hand

I don’t think it’s fair. I eat a healthy diet, exercise most days, yet cannot shift my perimenopausal weight gain—about 10 pounds. The BBC article I read about Serena said it was due to perimenopausal
weight gain. I’ve applied for the jabs on reputable websites and been rejected. I don’t want to go down the bootleg route with drugs. Why is Serena allowed them, but not the rest of us?

SnugShaker · 25/08/2025 11:54

All I’m going to say is that her husband is chubby and should be using this drug.

Vitriolinsanity · 25/08/2025 11:49

I bet her reply to her online pharmacy “how much excercise do you take per week” was startling.

TorturedParentsDepartment · 25/08/2025 11:37

usedtobeaylis · 25/08/2025 10:42

I agree with you. I watched a good video yesterday talking about how people are so hung up on thinking it's about aesthetics and yet almost everyone taking this medication talks primarily about how they feel and how their general health has improved.

More power to her.

The medication has been utterly life-changing. I was (and I've got a crazy frame where I have always weighed heavier than I looked - dunno the mechanics of it) nearly 25 stone, size 28, but beginning to hit the point where my mobility was suffering from it. I could go to the gym every day - and I have had periods where I would do that, and lift heavy weights, do cardio - I was physically strong at that point - but I still had constant, constant hunger, constant food cravings and no mental off switch at all - however hard I pushed my willpower.

I'd hit that point where my weight was making it harder for me (mentally and physically - because hurling abuse at fatties trying to get active is of course absolutely hilarious to a section of society) to move and I knew I was in the spiral point where the only way was larger and larger.

So in November I started on Mounjaro. Financially it's been a killer - and the side effects haven't been fun at points - I seem to have learnt how to live with them as I've gone on. I've not used them as a tool to drastically under-eat (I've seen the morons on social media existing on 800 cals a day and flogging their referral codes), but they have turned off the constant food craving noise, turned off the constant hunger and, most importantly of all - they've given me a mental off switch where food is concerned. I can have a few grapes and not have a yawning abyss in my brain until they've all gone, I can have a small piece of cheese and not be haunted by the rest of it in the fridge - I can have a normal attitude to food. They've also changed the food I'm drawn to as well - I don't absolutely yearn for chocolate anymore, and I'd quite like some chicken pieces to snack on rather than crisps - that kind of change has happened quite spontaneously on the meds. I eat normal, small portions of the same meals my family do - so usually chicken or fish and veg type meals - but that's it, I eat the meals and I'm satisfied by them and able to stop when full.

I've lost a crazy amount of weight - 5 1/2 stone - but at a rate of 1-2lb a week, with periodic plateaus where my body's obviously readjusted itself and got on with it - and it's been sustainable. I'm now just below 19 stone, in a size 20 clothes - I still have a long way to go, and yes, I've probably recently started showing the "ozempic face" - which you are realistically just going to get when you drop any significant amount of weight in later life. Absolutely minimal loose skin so far though - under no illusion that won't be coming at some point.

And I FEEL so much better - I'm able to walk to the shop now rather than needing the car, I've lost about 50% of the pelvic pain I've been plagued with since having the kids (I was that poor bugger whose pelvic girdle problems never cleared up - largely because of a mishandled childbirth) - I'm still in pain with the misaligned pelvis, but it's manageable. Although physically I didn't have any of the usual issues associated with massive obesity (believe me - my GP has desperately looked over the years) - I felt like I was starting to be on the tipping point for pre diabetes which has corrected itself (I had bloods done the other week which only showed my usual Vit D deficiency - everything else was normal but I appear to be part-vampire and I'm always down on D).

It's not about aesthetics for me - although being able to buy clothes in the supermarket was probably my one big goal (I hate Yours clothing - sorry guys)... my face now looks a bit shit compared to a stone or so ago - it was just regaining mobility and feeling better that mattered to me.

And yep, I may well end up needing a regular low dose lifelong - if that's the case, I'll live with that. I'm hoping I won't - but the odds are never in your favour if you've previously been very obese, your body will always be fighting to take you back to that. It's made it clear to me how much my brain needed the GLP1 medication to be able to to process food normally - I was always fighting against that imbalance until now.

And the price increase - is going to be fucking painful.

Cherrysoup · 25/08/2025 11:36

Honestly, I just think crack on, if you’ve found a way of losing weight/being happy with your self image, great. Who cares how they did it?

usedtobeaylis · 25/08/2025 10:44

ExitPursuedByBearGrylls · 25/08/2025 10:04

I wonder if Serena Williams advertising it will change some people’s minds. Like the ones who think the jabs are the lazy option and people should just eat less and move more. Because no-one could accuse SW of being lazy or undisciplined.

So far they just seem to be accusing her of being a secret eater.

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