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To think this was an offer of a loan NOT a gift

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limescale · 24/08/2025 16:26

If someone said "I would be happy to send you a permanently interest-free lump sum" would you regard it as an offer of a loan not a gift?

The reference to interest-free surely indicates a loan. Or have I missed something? I do not have a great deal of experience with loans (or financial gifts for that matter!).

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Zanatdy · 24/08/2025 16:28

I’d say a loan with no interest added. Ask what length of time you could repay it over and their answer will tell you if it’s a loan or a gift.

ShodAndShadySenators · 24/08/2025 16:28

I'd think loan, but I'd expect them to clarify. And if they didn't I would question it until I was sure.

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 24/08/2025 16:28

You don't give someone a gift and then charge them interest.

Otherwise fuck Christmas.

I'll be giving it a miss 😳😁

Pepperpie14 · 24/08/2025 16:28

I think it’s the use of “lump-sum” that’s confusing matters here. Lump-sums aren’t a common term to use when talking about a loan as they are more closely related to pay outs and winnings.

Marianwallace · 24/08/2025 16:28

A loan.

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 24/08/2025 16:27

Definitely a loan.

Wowzel · 24/08/2025 16:27

It's a bit ambiguous tbh

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