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£800 pm on groceries for a family

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popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 17:13

recently had a conversation with my DM (lighthearted) but I explained our weekly shop is now around £200 for a family of 2 adults and two teenage children during summer school holidays. She said she thought me ‘overspending’.

Anyway here’s what we spend:

£150 ish weekly shop (has to be weekly during the holidays as they eat so much)
£50 on top up shops fruit and veg and occasional extras eg wash powder and such things. This also includes cat food (1 cat on cheap food).

this includes lunches for me and DH (wfh) and also packed lunch stuff for DC’s who have been on a drama camp.

AIBU to think it’s actually quite hard to eat reasonably well (I do cook most days and I am buying decent ish ingredients but also plenty of ‘basic’ range options) for less than this sort of price now for 4 full portion people eating 3 meals a day? We hardly ever eat out unless on holiday.

For reference my DM hardly eats a lot now she’s older and when she does it’s really simple and generally quite boring stuff eg omelette, jacket potato etc. My DH and DCs needs more protein than that as are all very active.

I just came away feeling like I’m wasting money but genuinely can’t see how I can do it for much less without really scrimping on ingredients and protein.

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Duechristmas · 24/08/2025 09:32

Spies · 23/08/2025 22:00

Yes Ops is around 200 for 4 people and yours would be 160 for 4 people? My point being it's really not steep at just £10 per week a person more in comparison to yours?

Edited

It's your maths that's off, mine is £80/week less 🤷

Sahara123 · 24/08/2025 09:26

IsItChristmasAgain · 23/08/2025 17:30

Do please share your M&S shopping list or receipt where you can get 20 portions of meat, 4 portions of fish, 28 breakfasts and 28 lunches and all fruit and vegetables, and drinks for 4 people for a week for 120-130. It will help the OP immensely (and others, I suspect). Does that include household items such as toilet paper, cleaning products?

I know, especially in M & S, this doesn’t sound possible! I’d like to do my weekly shop there too .

knitnerd90 · 24/08/2025 09:21

If you add any dietary needs into the mix the bills start to jump, as well. DH & I both take GLP-1s for diabetes and hence need higher protein diets. 100g of meat wouldn't work. Anything that lowers the proportion of inexpensive carbohydrates to bulk out the meal gets expensive quite quickly.

cumbriaisbest · 24/08/2025 09:15

“Hatred” is not saying that a majority of voters in older age brackets voted for Brexit: that’s just fact. Perhaps the real “hatred” was the people who were more concerned with alarmist nonsense about “our borders” (as directly exemplified in posts on this thread), rather than on whether they were making a sensible economic decision

I'm "older" I never once for a milli second fell for all the Brexit nonsense. It was about fear and skin colour, plain and simple.

I have slogged all my life, and continue to slog. Bloody ridiculous.

cumbriaisbest · 24/08/2025 09:08

Toastandbutterand · 23/08/2025 21:31

I spend less than most of the people on this thread.

I think I eat well but who knows

Duck legs are £2.40 for 2 in Tesco this week. They often do a loss leader, half price meat or fish. I always buy it. I did duck confit with dauphinoise potatoes broccoli and honey roast carrots.

Leftover cream was added to 3 egg yolks and some bacon with spaghetti the next day for a British carbonara. Egg whites whipped up for meringues, treats for the week. Garlic bread.

Tonight is an aubergine bake thing with red peppers and tomatoes and mozzarella.

I've got sausages, prawns and more bacon, a fridge full of veg and a bowl of fruit.

I bought batch rolls that have been used for lunches and sides, there's 4 left in the freezer for the rest of the week. Usually have leftovers or soup or a sandwich for lunch. There's always salad. I always have flour too, to make my own bread products if I run out.

Breakfast is porridge or toast or whatever is on offer that week. And fruit. Fruit is cheap. A melon, bananas and whatever is on offer.

Anything leftover is repurposed or frozen.

Good cheap meals my kids liked were the ubiquitous spag bol, anything mexicany with wraps, crispy shredded beef, ham egg and chips (Spanish style with patatas bravas and own brand prosciutto was a surprise hit).
Fake KFC was also surprisingly cheap and a massive hit. A roast chicken once a week, leftovers the next day and soup the third. Chicken noodle, egg drop, ramen. Sausage and mash is easy and cheap. Get the veg in with mushrooms and tomatoes and onions or green veg.

I get the impression that a lot of people have meat or fish with bits. I've always done 100g of meat per person per meal, then loads of veggie sides. I know my neighbour spends twice as much as me but she only ever eats beans on toast so I'm at a loss as to what she buys!

I buy milk butter eggs cheese and creme fraiche every week.

I spend £50-60 odd in tesco every week for 2 adults, a delivery, no top ups. Everything is included.
I buy wine and cigarettes too but I've excluded those from my total. My total includes cat food.

I would be interested to know what the people who spend more eat. Is it just protein? Both my kids are around the 6ft mark so having less meat was really not detrimental at all.

100 g of meat....is that a sausage each? Sorry I have to convert back to Imperial....500 g is a lb. So a lb of mince say for a family bolognaise? Bulked out with veg and lentils.

I do all this bulking out and adding and economising but it's tedious and repetative.

Bellyblueboy · 24/08/2025 08:04

I just looked at my Tesco bill and realized it is so high mainly because of fruit and veg!

I get plums, nectarines, bananas, apples, cherry tomatoes, sugar snap peas and a mango every week. That comes to £13 for one person!

it is also more expensive to live alone. I try to monies food waste - but, for example, pre prepared mashed potatoes for a single serving is £1. The two person pack is £1.20!

PoachedCloud · 24/08/2025 08:02

This is the reality of spending £250 or less a month on food for 2 adults. I have 2.5 hours free electricity from the Ovo Powermove challenge. I'll be using it to turn these ingredients from the cupboards/garden into an Apple crumble, split pea soup and a soya chunks curry. The bag of peppers was free on Lidl rewards. The apples were free windfalls. I grew the garlic, onions and beans. Spices and tomato puree and oil are in the cupboards.

I have the time to do it. Busy families with working parents don't always have the time and it's a waste of no one wants to eat what is cooked.

It really annoys me when people my age and older.start the "stop buying meal kits, berries and avocado then you'll have the house deposit". Do the best can can with the budget and time available. The worst expense is wasted food.

£800 pm on groceries for a family
knitnerd90 · 24/08/2025 07:49

Hot, dry weather can improve quality but decrease yield for some fruit & veg. Or they may have to use irrigation which increases costs.

AIUI All over Europe labor shortages and cost increases have affected produce prices.

The UK is generally considered to have one of the most competitive supermarket sectors. Without that, prices would be even higher.

US, Canada, Australia have distance to factor in. Yes, wages are higher, but food costs relative to income are going up. Canada and Australia also have less competitive supermarket sectors. the US is not as competitive as the UK but not as bad as Canada, where Loblaws has something like 60% market share in grocery. (Edit: BBC says 60% but another source says 30% and I don't know how they're calculating it so differently! It's definitely dominant: there's been protests. Also, there is no Aldi or Lidl in Canada.) Coles and Woolworths are often called a duopoly in Australia.

OhNoNotSusan · 24/08/2025 07:45

i used to encourage apple eating,
encourage the eating of bananas

hungry?
have a banana, fills you up, nutritious and healthy and contains potassium, unlike the bag of crips/biscuit

OhNoNotSusan · 24/08/2025 07:41

yes i have a bad habit, of eek, we have run out or running out of peanut butter, for example
and then rushing off to the shops !

rather than - meh, add it to the shopping list and buy it when I am doing the main weekly shop

NamechangeNightNurse · 24/08/2025 07:36

One thing I found when I had teenagers at home was that whatever I bought they scoffed/ drank the lot and then expected it to be topped up.
I realised that I felt uncomfortable having an empty fridge towards the end of the week but this is just marketing and actually its a healthier way to live.
I stopped buying juice/ junk cereal and restricted the amount of snacks .
" once they are gone they are gone"
Bread always available for toast.

They then became much more interested in what was for dinner !
Even if he was working late my eldest DS would ask me to keep him dinner and they became much more inventive regarding lunches as a result.

OhNoNotSusan · 24/08/2025 07:31

HauntedHero · 23/08/2025 18:03

One thing I notice is often people who spend a lot often buy a lot of fruit. We rarely buy fruit and if we do it's cheaper stuff like apples/bananas/satsumas. I never buy berries or exotic fruit.

We pick blackberries in the summer and can pick enough to freeze for eating over the winter.

i am the same
buying in season fruit, ie plums, english apples, picking blackberries
frozen berries for breakfast
although am buying kiwis currently, i dont think they are exotic

XVGN · 24/08/2025 07:30

.... oops

£800 pm on groceries for a family
XVGN · 24/08/2025 07:28

popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 17:40

That is cheap, but we don’t drink either and I’m also cooking from scratch 95% of the time. We also bake own bread (although do buy that too).

I don’t batch cook because I’m already cooking big amounts for DH and DCs but I could and I could bulk out meat with more veg eg chilli etc. And happy to eat more veggie - please share any tips and recipes you do that are cheap because £385 a month seems super cheap.

These are the dishes I cook that I have marked as both low cost and tasty. You can probably locate some of the books from their titles. Hope it helps.

Theoturkeyflieswest · 24/08/2025 07:27

4 adults here 2 dogs and someone who I just buy milk and daily pizza for .
I'm constantly stressing that I'm spending to much on food
We are vegan and they want the vegan chocolate and cake and stuff and fizzy cans
So I'm around £1000 a month on food and I buy what ever brand is on offer ,always trying to save money with supermarkets own brand to.i hate that I spend this much on food ,it seems obscene to me

oblada · 24/08/2025 07:22

We spend around £140-£160 per week i would say. Family of 6. Two adults, children 5 to 14. We cook mostly from scratch and that includes packed lunches and snacks etc. If we bought more I think it'd end up being wasted. We don't eat much meat tho. We have fish and the kids have chicken. DH and I don't eat meat. Maybe that helps keep the cost down.

Wallywobbles · 24/08/2025 07:21

How much food is going in the bin? How much of what you buy could be home made? Biscuits, cake etc.
How much of it is empty calories like crisps?
If the answer to all of those is none and you can afford it. Carry on.

OhNoNotSusan · 24/08/2025 07:21

i spend less
there are 3 adults in our house though and a dog.
according to my spreadsheet i spend about £500
a lot of beans and lentils though
i guess if you want to spend the amount you do, and eat the food you do, that is your prerogative

missrabbit1990 · 24/08/2025 07:17

ThatRareLimeFinch · 24/08/2025 00:06

i did our weekly shopping for this week coming for 2 adults, 1 teenager, and 1 8yo. including catfood (14 tins) and a few toiletries (toilet roll,shower gel, kitchen roll, wash pods) for a grand total of £65.

granted the kids are back to school this week so i dont have to deal with school lunches but ive never spent more than £100 a week for all 4 of us.

we dont eat too badly either, cooking from scratch every evening

this week we have
sweet chilli salmon couscous and green beans (salmon from last weeks shopping)
chicken and cheese quesadillas w sweet pot fries
paneer butter masala w rice and naans
chicken and chorizo pasta w garlic bread
teriyaki beef noodles with gyozas
buttermilk fish burgers w chips

maybe once every 2 months we will spend another 100 at on buying a few essentials like rice, pasta, large bottle sauces, and a few bits from the local Asian supermarket

Your meals are quite carby whereas ours are very fruit, veg and protein heavy. I think this is what I need to change to cut the budget down.

Terriblytwee · 24/08/2025 07:15

Chickenbone123 · 23/08/2025 18:36

2 adults, 2 kids. Pre Christmas it was about 250 a week.

I lost the plot!

Really worked hard on the recipes and meal planning. Spend is now 50-100 a week.

So 400-500 a month depending on no of weeks. Despite recent price rises. So quite impressive really and I am sat here thinking if I had done this from the start of adulthood. How much would I have saved!!!

And yes that’s 30 fruit/ veg a week and little UPF

So some weeks you are only spending 50? Can you share some example recipes please because that’s very impressive.

NamechangeNightNurse · 24/08/2025 07:14

I think we are heading back to a time when strict budgeting and meal planning is the way.
However no doubt this will be yet another burden on women
I agree that food waste is shocking and we have vast numbers of people on WLI which is odd when food prices are escalating.

I meal plan, batch cook and try to eat as much fruit and veg in season.
No to berries and yes to seasonal apples and plums .

Arsed · 24/08/2025 07:01

It’s closer to a grand here, 4 adults, a dog and a cat.

It is absolutely obscene.

UpUpAwayz · 24/08/2025 06:54

Early3Rise · 23/08/2025 23:14

We easily go through £800 a month. Easily. Sometimes more like £1k. 2 adults, 2 kids, 1 dog

We try to buy organic "dirty dozen" and milk and eggs, but I don't stretch to organic meat as the cost makes my eyes water

We try to buy a variety of fresh fruit and veg and make sure everyone gets their 5-7 a day

Fish / seafood at least once a week

I also try to buy no or low UPF ....Olive oil rather than seed oils

I have a chocolate addiction and the price of that has skyrocketed. 3 bars of Tony's is another £12 a week. Obviously not an essential, but my one vice and I ain't giving it up

A daiiry allergy means oat milk and soya yoghurts for 1 child

No booze

We rarely get takeaways

We easily spend £10 a week on berries alone as we all eat lots.

I know we could cut down, but I'd prioritise quality food over things like beauty products, new clothes, or evenings out

I'd recommend the Snoop app as it showed me that what I thought was a £150 weekly shop was much more when I added in mine and DH's coffees, lunches out and trips to the corner shop and petrol station

Edited

Sounds like we have similar food priorities but I was wondering where you draw your “organic line” so to speak! We also get organic milk and eggs (we’re veggie so no meat) but I’ve been wondering if I should also be buying organic cheese/yoghurt? If organic milk is important then surely also organic milk products? Or maybe you’ve done a bit more research than me and can share a reason why you think it’s not as important (and I really hope you have one because the amount of cheddar we get through in our house is unholy and the thought of buying that organic makes me want to quietly weep)

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 24/08/2025 06:53

Bulk buy. We eat very well, most meals are steak, salmon, king prawns etc which I buy from Costco for the month and freeze in individual bags, meal plan weekly and get them out freezer day before and put into fridge. Buy big bags rice and pasta. Lots of fresh fruit and veg including berries, avocados and fresh coffee. It’s probably that you are not meal planning and wasting food, if you try to meal plan for 7 days and reduce food waste see if that helps.

JingsMahBucket · 24/08/2025 05:23

Duck legs are £2.40 for 2 in Tesco this week. They often do a loss leader, half price meat or fish. I always buy it. I did duck confit with dauphinoise potatoes broccoli and honey roast carrots.

Thank you for the heads up about duck legs @Toastandbutterand ! I’ve just added a few to my cart! 🦆