Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

£800 pm on groceries for a family

518 replies

popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 17:13

recently had a conversation with my DM (lighthearted) but I explained our weekly shop is now around £200 for a family of 2 adults and two teenage children during summer school holidays. She said she thought me ‘overspending’.

Anyway here’s what we spend:

£150 ish weekly shop (has to be weekly during the holidays as they eat so much)
£50 on top up shops fruit and veg and occasional extras eg wash powder and such things. This also includes cat food (1 cat on cheap food).

this includes lunches for me and DH (wfh) and also packed lunch stuff for DC’s who have been on a drama camp.

AIBU to think it’s actually quite hard to eat reasonably well (I do cook most days and I am buying decent ish ingredients but also plenty of ‘basic’ range options) for less than this sort of price now for 4 full portion people eating 3 meals a day? We hardly ever eat out unless on holiday.

For reference my DM hardly eats a lot now she’s older and when she does it’s really simple and generally quite boring stuff eg omelette, jacket potato etc. My DH and DCs needs more protein than that as are all very active.

I just came away feeling like I’m wasting money but genuinely can’t see how I can do it for much less without really scrimping on ingredients and protein.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
Londonmummy66 · 23/08/2025 18:13

I won't buy cheap meat - I want to know that what I eat has had a higher welfare life - that makes a big difference in cost. I do tend to not buy meat in my big shop and pick it up as and when - either from the butchers or M&S (got to love their yellow stickers...). If you are buying good quality meat and fish then it is going to be expensive as you will be spending £5-10 a meal on that alone. The only way to save then is to eat less of it and that is tricky if you have men demanding protein and not recognising other sources.

Ways to cut down are basically using pulses to cut the meat and keep the protein up. So

Lamb curry plus dhal plus rice plus curried roasted cauliflower rather than meat curry and rice.

Veggie Chilli rather than meat chilli (I usually add a dollop of marmite to increase the beefiness. Cookie and Kate has a good recipe on their website.

Mushroom and lentil ragu instead of bolognese sometimes - good in a lasagne where the sauce isn't so important.

Ham egg chips plus baked beans using a boiled gammon joint that produces loads of stock for soup/risotto another day.

I'll buy a large salmon tail fillet rather than 4 fillets - then serve up the same amount as 4 fillets in one meal and a salmon spinach and broccoli frittata using the remains of the salmon for another meal. Usually costs the same as say 6 fillets but I get 2 full meals out of it that way.

Soup maker that I can load with lots of back of the fridge veg - produces soup for lunch in 20 minutes.

But if you can afford it carry on - scrimping on food is miserable.

mumto4boys16 · 23/08/2025 18:13

I spend about £800 a month for 6 of us, 2 adults plus 4 kids but one eats like an adult due to age. I also work for a supermarket so I get my discount too, it's shocking! We don't eat extravagantly either, food is just really expensive now

the5thgoldengirl · 23/08/2025 18:12

This reply has been withdrawn

This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

DrPrunesqualer · 23/08/2025 18:11

HauntedHero · 23/08/2025 18:03

One thing I notice is often people who spend a lot often buy a lot of fruit. We rarely buy fruit and if we do it's cheaper stuff like apples/bananas/satsumas. I never buy berries or exotic fruit.

We pick blackberries in the summer and can pick enough to freeze for eating over the winter.

We don’t spend much (£385pcm 4adults) and we do buy masses of fruit
atm
its grapes bananas
plums nectarines ( which are amazing this year ) kiwis melons strawberries

We make smoothies so buy frozen too ie mixed summer fruits, blueberries and mangoes and pineapple

We’re veggies so the trolley is packed with veg too

ThriveAT · 23/08/2025 18:09

Sodastreamin · 23/08/2025 18:00

£800pm is ridiculous and I’m someone who really likes good quality food.

No, not if you like quality food and you have teenagers at home. Food prices have shot up since Brexit. Some of us don't want to live on baked beans.

doodleschnoodle · 23/08/2025 18:09

I was looking through my emails recently and comparing 2019 amounts with current prices.

Some examples, all identical brand/amount from Tesco.

500g 5% beef mince, same brand: 2019: £3.30; 2025: £5.29

950g chicken breast fillets: 2019: £4.75, 2025: £6.50

4 pints semi-skimmed milk: 2019: £1.10, 2025: £1.65

4 x tins Tesco chopped tomatoes: 2019: £1.39, 2025: £1.80

Clover Light, 2019: £1.85, 2025: £2.60

And so it goes on.

Interesting (and depressing!) to look through

Knickersnolongerinatwist · 23/08/2025 18:09

We spend about this for two adults and three large "children" but eating well is our priority and we eat mostly organic for that. Pretty much all homemade. That means it saves on things like bread - home made a fraction of like for like sourdough prices - but works out a bit more for things like organic fruit Vs inorganic (?) fruit. Balances out I think.

Cakeandcardio · 23/08/2025 18:09

We eat well and cook from scratch and we are about £150 for 2 adults, a 5 year old and 1 year old. It is very hard to get it down without reducing quality or fruit and veg.

the5thgoldengirl · 23/08/2025 18:08

This reply has been withdrawn

This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

PotatoBreadForTheWin · 23/08/2025 18:07

About the same here OP for 2 adults and 2 teen boys. All the grandparents in our family are totally out of touch too

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 23/08/2025 18:07

Yeah I’d say we spend about the same for 2 adults and a 12yo and 8yo. But I suppose we don’t skimp, and that also includes skincare etc.

Think it’s very much the norm

Mossstitch · 23/08/2025 18:06

3 adults as two adult sons living with me and about £600 for everything. I do once monthly ocado, the rest aldi, asda and local butcher but I know my prices, this is easy as I'm in my late 60s and retired .........when younger, working full time with three kids it would have been harder to stick to budget so i think your doing fine👏 Agree with another poster who said M & S is sometimes cheaper these days for basics, I get these from ocado. I cook from scratch including bread and homemade pizzas and no ready meals or takeaways, includes packed lunches for workers as I don't want sons wasting their money, which they are more than happy with🤣

the5thgoldengirl · 23/08/2025 18:06

This reply has been withdrawn

This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

MumWifeOther · 23/08/2025 18:06

We’re a family of 5, eldest a teen who eats like an adult and we easily spend £350 a week on food. We don’t eat out / have takeaways / drink or smoke, so food is really our only “luxury”. The cost to eat well is honestly insane and it’s just going up!

Spies · 23/08/2025 18:05

Sodastreamin · 23/08/2025 18:00

£800pm is ridiculous and I’m someone who really likes good quality food.

It's really really not it's less than 50 quid per person a week. 5 years ago absolutely yes it would be ridiculous these days unless you live under a rock it's pretty hard to not notice everything has got more expensive and therefore that will include the price of the weekly food shop. Hmm

swampwitch0 · 23/08/2025 18:04

We don't really drink much.
No pets.
We do get through a staggering amount of loo roll though 🤔
We eat meat and fish.
I bake - the price of basic making ingredients has also risen.
We buy a lot of sparkling water, apple juice and milk.
We like ground coffee but buy supermarket own brand.
I get the main shop from ocado, with top ups from aldi, lidl or the co-op.
I like lidl and the co-op more than aldi...I tend to just get cleaning products/loo roll etc from aldi.

ThriveAT · 23/08/2025 18:03

This is a reasonable amount if you want to buy healthy goods. I spend more for my family.

HauntedHero · 23/08/2025 18:03

One thing I notice is often people who spend a lot often buy a lot of fruit. We rarely buy fruit and if we do it's cheaper stuff like apples/bananas/satsumas. I never buy berries or exotic fruit.

We pick blackberries in the summer and can pick enough to freeze for eating over the winter.

Growlybear83 · 23/08/2025 18:02

I spend more than that now for two adults and a cat.

waitingquietly · 23/08/2025 18:01

We spend similar for similar size family but with minimal meat - teens eat so much

popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 18:01

Someone2025 · 23/08/2025 17:59

aldi - always go here for our top ups, don’t for my main shop as I don’t like the meat

Why don’t you try doing your main shop (and top ups) from Aldi and just buy the meat elsewhere and see how much cheaper it is

Yes we have done this and it is cheaper, it’s just convenience to be honest because I do the shopping and Aldi is a bit of a trek for us (so I get it delivered) but I think going back to that and the butchers (although that’s extortionate but good) is an option.

OP posts:
Bobnobob · 23/08/2025 18:00

HansHolbein · 23/08/2025 17:19

I spend £120-130 a week in M&S. No top ups. 2 adults, 2 children aged 15 and 12. Meat for dinner 5 days, 1 day fish, one day vegetarian. Only breakfast, lunch, and dinner - no snacks. Basically no UPF. Which they all hate Grin

would you be willing to share what meals you would typically make with this?

Sodastreamin · 23/08/2025 18:00

£800pm is ridiculous and I’m someone who really likes good quality food.

PoachedCloud · 23/08/2025 18:00

No judgement here. The truly wasteful spends are on food which gets thrown out unused. Buying adequate quantities of the good you enjoy is getting the best value from your shopping. Everything is rising in price. We are a household of two adults, no pets. We spend under £250 a month on groceries as that is all our budget allows. Our diet is basic and repetative but we have the time and space to grow fruit and veg which helps. If I had a larger budget, I would spend it on fresh fish instead of canned/frozen and a greater variety of fruit.

Geranium879 · 23/08/2025 18:00

popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 17:59

Honestly i actually do a lot of this, the main difference is we eat meat / fish so im assuming if I add up what im spending there thats going to be a fair bit.

i do everything you’ve said except for the huge bags of stuff , we definitely could do that. We grow herbs, have all the spices, buy ‘plain’ and make it interesting. I’m not dismissing by the way as I think it’s all good stuff, but feel a bit better to know I’m doing much of it already. Actually we don’t do wonky veg so could do that too - thank you.

You could look at Suma for hugs sacks of dried stuff, if they deliver to you :) before we moved we were part of a small community group (very informal) that ordered. It says wholese but anyone can order really.