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£800 pm on groceries for a family

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popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 17:13

recently had a conversation with my DM (lighthearted) but I explained our weekly shop is now around £200 for a family of 2 adults and two teenage children during summer school holidays. She said she thought me ‘overspending’.

Anyway here’s what we spend:

£150 ish weekly shop (has to be weekly during the holidays as they eat so much)
£50 on top up shops fruit and veg and occasional extras eg wash powder and such things. This also includes cat food (1 cat on cheap food).

this includes lunches for me and DH (wfh) and also packed lunch stuff for DC’s who have been on a drama camp.

AIBU to think it’s actually quite hard to eat reasonably well (I do cook most days and I am buying decent ish ingredients but also plenty of ‘basic’ range options) for less than this sort of price now for 4 full portion people eating 3 meals a day? We hardly ever eat out unless on holiday.

For reference my DM hardly eats a lot now she’s older and when she does it’s really simple and generally quite boring stuff eg omelette, jacket potato etc. My DH and DCs needs more protein than that as are all very active.

I just came away feeling like I’m wasting money but genuinely can’t see how I can do it for much less without really scrimping on ingredients and protein.

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UncharteredWaters · 23/08/2025 22:34

Our fruit and veg shop is significantly cheaper than price gouging Tesco now.

Food has rocketed but so have tesco profits.

Miriabelle · 23/08/2025 22:33

justasking111 · 23/08/2025 22:14

A friend was over from the USA last year. She said shopping was cheaper here than back home.

Average salaries in the US are substantially higher than here, and housing costs are on average a lot lower.

usedtobeaylis · 23/08/2025 22:32

Two adults, child and a cat and we spend around £130 each week including top-ups. It can be more if we run out of things all at the same time eg oils or toiletries or vitamins, or of I need to buy a lot of extra fresh stuff. So I'm totally with you.

Greengagesnfennel · 23/08/2025 22:32

I spend same for 2 teenagers and 2 adults. I reckon it includes about £50 pw non-essential treats (crisps, Diet Pepsi etc, favourite shampoo rather than basic), but the same shop 4years ago was ~£140- 150.

Greengagesnfennel · 23/08/2025 22:32

I spend same for 2 teenagers and 2 adults. I reckon it includes about £50 pw non-essential treats (crisps, Diet Pepsi etc, favourite shampoo rather than basic), but the same shop 4years ago was ~£140- 150.

Miriabelle · 23/08/2025 22:32

flightissue · 23/08/2025 21:54

Food isn’t cheaper in France though. Greece very expensive for food too.

Can you substantiate this with the average costs of a weekly supermarket shop in France and across the EU in 2019 compared to 2025? Where’s your evidence?

Where do you think the increased costs of Brexit have gone, if they haven’t caused food price inflation?

Zodiacrobat · 23/08/2025 22:32

Sodastreamin · 23/08/2025 18:00

£800pm is ridiculous and I’m someone who really likes good quality food.

It’s really not. It’s pretty average if you’re feeding hollow teens!

brunettemic · 23/08/2025 22:24

2 adults, a teen, a pre teen and a dog and we’re £500 a month max. DH cooks pretty much everything from scratch.

Cel77 · 23/08/2025 22:23

I spend that on 2 adults and 2 children (10 and 6). And a dog (she doesn't cost that much tbh).

Triffid14 · 23/08/2025 22:21

We spent that and more too.

I do wonder how much the big companies are responsible for this though because Tesco, for example, makes billions in profit every year.

https://www.foodmanufacture.co.uk/Article/2025/04/10/tesco-profits-top-3-billion/

Profiteering and capitalism wins again.

Tesco chief executive Ken Murphy said that investment in new product development had paid off.

Tesco profits top £3 billion

Tesco has reported an adjusted operating profit of £3.1 billion for the 12-month period ending 22 February 2025.

https://www.foodmanufacture.co.uk/Article/2025/04/10/tesco-profits-top-3-billion/

OneSharpFinch · 23/08/2025 22:21

Wow now i truly feel poor spending a max of £300 a month to feed three of us and three cats, I was just thinking earlier that everything I buy is own brand.

RabbitOfDeath · 23/08/2025 22:19

We (2 adults 2 teens) spend less than £450 a month. I’m vegan and the kids don’t each much meat. We get eggs from my mums chickens which saves a bit of money. I do a massive shop at aldi or Lidl once a month which costs about £130. Then might go to home bargains or b&m for cleaning stuff that I can’t get in aldi or Lidl, or to Iceland for branded stuff. I’ll go to Asda or Tesco to get things I can’t get in Lidl. We often run out of stuff and if money is tight at the end of the month everyone eats a lot of pasta or whatever I can’t find in the cupboards…

Plantymcplantface · 23/08/2025 22:18

2 adults, 2 teens, and a cat here. Around £200
per week in Aldi only which includes
household bits and toiletries and cat food. I often batch cook and we have meat 1-2 a week, but have one pescatarian so will also have salmon or
prawns once a week too. Basic ranges I think we would struggle to spend less than £150 week on food even if we cut back.

justasking111 · 23/08/2025 22:14

A friend was over from the USA last year. She said shopping was cheaper here than back home.

Macarena1980 · 23/08/2025 22:14

I transfer £800 a month to our grocery shopping debit card, and always end up running out at end of month. So I definitely think that’s reasonable, food prices are ridiculous now.

Typicalwave · 23/08/2025 22:12

I spend around £550 on three adults and a teenager, 3 cats, a dog and all household consumables and toiletries.

herbetta · 23/08/2025 22:10

popsickle555 · 23/08/2025 20:58

Yes, berries are expensive aren’t they! DH is on a restrictive diet which involves huge amounts of yoghurt and berries and has found the cheapest way is buying in bulk frozen. Fresh is extortionate. We also go berry picking locally and freeze them but obviously they don’t last long, And the same with apples, in the freezer for crumbles etc.

Do you have a decent sized fridge/s and freezer?

Between our two nectar apps we pretty much get our staples on offer at least once a fortnight - so we get 30% off their Greek yoghurt plus points. Recently it was only 55p in store! So we buy in bulk. Likewise buy the berries when they do 3 for 2 on frozen fruit & veg👌this is 30% off your regularly purchased items.

Most of us can get discounted gift cards (via employer / insurance provider / blue light card etc) for a further 5% off everything - it really does all add up & make a difference.

MrBeanMustBeMyDad · 23/08/2025 22:10

Yep, I spend about that, and I'm constantly penny pinching to try and not let it go up any more!
£7.19 I was charged for minced beef last week... I was like, I remember a fiver being the budget for a family meal

AnotherDayAnotherDog · 23/08/2025 22:09

It's about what I'd pay for that household. It is possible to eat more cheaply and of course many people have to, but it's not extravagant.

OverlyFragrant · 23/08/2025 22:06

I just done a top up shop for myself, one adult.
Just milk, bread, some household cleaning items, sardines, cupboard stuff, fruit.
Nothing extravagant and no meat.
£50.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 23/08/2025 22:06

Miriabelle · 23/08/2025 19:53

This is simply economically illiterate; and also full of the usual Reform party nonsense, flights of fancy and misinformation. It’s stupid stuff like this that has directly contributed to the economic situation we’re now in.

We drew a net benefit from the EU; and it’s normal to trade agricultural produce with your geographical neighbours and for them to be your biggest trading partners.

Come on; tell us all about the economic benefits we’ve had from Brexit? And maybe a bit more about how our biggest trading partners for food and agriculture should be countries thousands of miles away rather than the ones closest to us? Because fresh food travels so well, of course; and air freight is such a cheap method of transport and an all round good idea (I guess you don’t think climate change exists either, so why would you be bothered about air freight, I guess?)

Without getting political, as I voted remain and indeed live in France for half the year, one can’t argue with the fact that the lower paid in the UK are better off than they were before BREXIT. The national living wage has gone up hugely, and still employers have to pay more than that, though not as much as they did a few years ago. That’s a direct result of a shortage of labour. Now, at a macro level the UK economy hasn’t done brilliantly post BREXIT, though arguably many EU economies have done worse. But it’s easy to see that the traditionally lower paid, less skilled workers in the UK got exactly what they wanted from BREXIT, and that was an exodus of foreign workers and higher paid jobs. Inconvenient for those of us who benefited hugely from the EU, but the main issue was that many less well off didn’t see how it benefited them, because on a day to day basis it didn’t.

Back on topic, here in France food shopping is more expensive than the UK and yet eating out is a little cheaper. Despite France having tougher labour laws, though a much lower minimum wage. We also have much higher unemployment in France, so not all is rosy. Warm weather, cheaper housing and good wine certainly helps though :)

readytochange21 · 23/08/2025 22:04

I currently budget £200 a week for food and petrol and think im likely not budgeting enough and thats for 3 of us. So can definitely see £800pm for 4 not being excessive.

BlackStrayCat · 23/08/2025 22:03

LoveItaly · 23/08/2025 21:10

The cost of food in France is even higher, so I don’t think Brexit is the culprit.

In Spain too. Very expensive compared to the UK

the5thgoldengirl · 23/08/2025 22:02

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Spies · 23/08/2025 22:00

Duechristmas · 23/08/2025 21:58

Op refers to 'but I explained our weekly shop is now around £200 for a family of 2 adults and two teenage children during summer school holidays.'
Family of 4.

Yes Ops is around 200 for 4 people and yours would be 160 for 4 people? My point being it's really not steep at just £10 per week a person more in comparison to yours?