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To wish parks had a baby crawling/cruising area

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Wholeboxoftissues · 23/08/2025 11:48

I've got a crawling baby and I'm finding it so hard that nothing in the world is set up for them except soft play and stuff that's only on in term time like playgroup. We take our older one to lots of places but the baby always ends up being carried or in the pram because there's never a safe area to crawl around in. And he's very energetic! Even at playgrounds it isn't great. He'll go on the swing for a bit, sits on my lap on the roundabout, then we sit on the grass and he doesn't go anywhere because it's full of spiky straw due to the dry weather and he doesn't like the feel of it. He usually stands up at the pram and plays with the attachments until we go home.
What I would love:
A nice floor maybe rubbery so it's soft for crawling but light colour so it stays cool and doesn't leave black stains on the knees
Shade
Really low bars to pull up on and dangling ropes with handles
Something that looks like a climbing wall only with tiny little close together hand holds
Little tunnel at ground level
Slow roundabout with the same restraint as a baby swing
The tiniest slide you can imagine
A really comprehensive busy board

I would love that, I'd be there every day.

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Skybluepinky · 26/08/2025 11:15

In your dream world, but in the real world it wouldn’t work.

LoveBluey · 23/08/2025 23:16

I had 2 late walkers so I get it but I agree with others it’s a limited target audience and park planners need to get maximum ROI from the equipment.
I used extra large picnic blankets with toys and a good tip at the beach which could also apply at a park is I used an empty paddling pool or beach tent with toys to keep them more contained

dogsarethebestalways · 23/08/2025 23:09

Mine crawled on the grass, sand, wherever they were. I would take them on swings on my lap (obviously not going too high). They loved it and I liked the excuse to go on the swing. Same with seesaws.

BogRollBOGOF · 23/08/2025 22:57

DS1 was a crawler from 10-16m... mainly over the winter. I put him in a puddle suit and let him crack on, although our park/ playground is well looked after.

His favourite place to crawl was in church. The church community was very accommodating of him... even when he crawled over the pedals of the organ during prayers 🙈
A nun said he brightened up a dull sermon Grin

Thatsnotmynamee · 23/08/2025 22:54

I do sympathise, one of mine didn't walk until he was 21 months 🫠 A really really long time to be stuck with this situation!! I actually just let him crawl in some pretty minging spots in the end, poor thing

RedNine · 23/08/2025 22:43

Newer type housing estates and some community centres sometimes have little playparks, worth a drive around when baby needs a nap one day, to scope out what's around?

JLou08 · 23/08/2025 22:43

Look around for more parks. Some do have tiny climbing frames for crawlers. Disability friendly parks may also have equipment that is suitable. I've seen busy boards and sensory play equipment in a couple of playgrounds.

Chinsupmeloves · 23/08/2025 22:40

PollyBell · 23/08/2025 12:07

We just let our child crawl and explore like they have done for thousands of years

Same here, wherever we are crawl free little one! Xx

FTM09q24 · 23/08/2025 21:09

I sympathise as I found it really hard to entertain my crawling baby, ages 8-12 months were HARD. He was aware enough to get bored easily but not able to walk, so taking him places was really hard. We ended going to some sort of soft play daily.

We also have a local hotel which had a nice big open carpeted area and we would sometimes go there when it was quiet, buy a drink at the hotel bar, and let him crawl around. The staff didn't mind as we only went when it was dead.

FTM09q24 · 23/08/2025 21:07

PollyBell · 23/08/2025 12:07

We just let our child crawl and explore like they have done for thousands of years

Don't think most parents want their crawling baby to get their hands onto your average city park grass, full of drug needles, broken beer bottles, dog shit, cat shit, candy wrappers and the list goes on.

Panicatthegarden · 23/08/2025 20:56

That sounds brilliant! I would have loved this when mine was of that age. As an aside why do so many toddler areas just have a sheer drop off one of the sides of the slide/ climbing frame bit! I understand when it's in the bigger kid section but it's annoying when it's in the little kid part

BoredZelda · 23/08/2025 20:40

I’d prefer they focussed on providing play equipment for disabled children who have no access to playgrounds for their entire childhood than for kids who have a few months before they can do stuff.

rosemarycait96 · 23/08/2025 20:21

Not BU at all! I have DS (2) and DD (9 months). DD isnt yet crawling but is cruising obsessed, and my son is still a bit small to do all the park things by himself. After a bit of time in the swings all I can do is put DD in the carrier and follow DS around making sure he doesn't top himself on the play equipment.

If there was somewhere to plonk her to cruise or crawl, that would be great. My son, who was a very early crawler and restless baby in general, would have loved it.

In my area, we can't let babies just faff about in the grass. Lots of drug paraphernalia and dog muck.

lochmaree · 23/08/2025 20:07

Picnic blanket with a few toys as pp suggested. Then if he wants to go further he can and if not then that's fine.

rosanna19 · 23/08/2025 20:07

yes completely agree as the mum of a late ish walker who has a small living room! we loved play groups in churches etc cos generally people took their shoes off and the babies could all beetle around. and soft plays with well policed under 3s or even some had under 1s areas. but it is hard… I remember posting on my local fb for tips and people in similar boats had lots of suggestions!

ellyeth · 23/08/2025 19:56

Possibly there are issues of hygiene here. The surface would have to be kept reasonably clean from day to day.

Ymiryboo · 23/08/2025 18:44

In my experience many parks are used for cruising

CinderBlockandCustard · 23/08/2025 12:54

DD had a fear / dislike of grass when she was tiny. When I got fed up of pushing her endlessly on the swing I'd just take her to the grassy area and sit on a picnic blanket with a few toys. I'd take a magazine to read so I could keep an eye on her but she would still play semi independently and get some fresh air. Sometimes I'd put the toys just off the blanket to encourage her to reach for them.

PP are probably right on that it's a money issue - councils will put money into equipment for age groups that will use it more.

Duckyfondant · 23/08/2025 12:42

He'll explore when he's ready

Wholeboxoftissues · 23/08/2025 12:36

Okay a few people saying just let him explore. I did say he doesn't go anywhere when I put him down. I literally am on the way home from a country park right now where I thought he could explore but the ground isn't smooth so he just stays put. That's why I think a playground aimed at babies would be good!

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Wisterical · 23/08/2025 12:15

This is really sad - let your baby explore the natural world rather than trying to bring the indoors into the outdoors.

LynetteScavo · 23/08/2025 12:11

It’s a great idea- we do have such an area in a big park near me, but it’s on the other side of the park from the big playground, so it’s not great if you have older DC as well.

justbloodyshattered · 23/08/2025 12:08

It’s tricky. I had a late walker as well. I’d say YANBU.

Whaleadthesnail · 23/08/2025 12:08

YABU to assume your experience is the same across the country. We have plenty like that.

Or just put them in play clothes and let them explore, get a bit dirty, it's good for them IMO

Bodyshopdewberry · 23/08/2025 12:08

Isn't this just a living room?