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Should I assume the date is off?

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Jahavagayxn · 22/08/2025 13:23

Been talking to a guy for a few weeks from online dating. He seemed very nice and sweet, and keen.

arranged a date for tonight, set a time and location

heard from him last at approximately 4am (he was arriving back from being abroad, text me to let me know he arrived)

I haven't heard from him since then, so all day. i get he would want to sleep in having got back so late but I would have thought he'd be awake by now. I have messages to ask if we're still on. Not read and no answer

at what point do I assume the date is not on? I don't want to start getting ready for nothing

OP posts:
ForFunGoose · 22/08/2025 13:25

You last heard from him 8 hours ago?
If he only got in the country at 4am it’s possible he’s still asleep.

Ohdearwhatnow4 · 22/08/2025 13:24

What time is the date? I still think it's possible on, maybe his phone has died and he's still asleep or just busy catching up with things.