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To be annoyed mum has cancelled sleepover last minute

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itispersonal · 22/08/2025 13:16

dd was to have a sleepover at ours with a friend. Friend was meant to come over today between 12.30 to 1.30 just had a message from dd friend to say she’s had an argument with her mum and now she’s grounded and phone being taken off.

AIBU to be annoyed. Dd is ASC so has been waiting since waking up for friend to come over. Friend could have already been here. Snacks are already brought and plans had been made.

If friend has been in an argument with her mum, surely the consequence should be after this arrangement due to cancelling it so late and not let dd down.

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itispersonal · 22/08/2025 13:18

12! Both good children with normal amount of teen attitude

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HTruffle · 22/08/2025 13:18

I’d be furious, so unfair on your dd and teaches her daughter that loyalty is not important.

SaltAirAndTheRust · 22/08/2025 13:16

How old are your DD and her friend?