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Bought airline seat to Celt, could t use it but it was taken anyway …

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agieselbow · 22/08/2025 11:57

Genuinely, was I being unreasonable…

Flew home from abroad last night. Had bought my daughter a ticket but she needed to leave early. I decided to keep the ticket rather than sell on so I could have two seats: sleep etc. it was a late night flight and I had a three hour car commute thereafter.

just as plane was about to disembark , a man sat down beside me. I explained that he had the wrong seat . He simply said it was his in a rude tone.

The flight attendant saw this and hurried over to tell me that this man was’ actually a pilot’ and needed the seat. She further explained that he was off duty but a pilot nonetheless and again she was taking the seat.

she saw from my face that I was not happy and apologised as I explained , again, to both, that I intentionally held onto the seat knowing my daughter would t be travelling.
The man sighed/ tutted and was generally rude through the flight if I needed to go to the bathroom and in the end, he just got up and walked off the flight when we landed without even a thank you .
Am I being unreasonable to be very pissed off here???
I feel like emailing the airline and asking for a ticket refund.
I think that if he had been mannerly and pleasant, I wouldnt be so cross but the entitlement and obnoxious manner got my back up .
AIBU?

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TickyandTacky · 22/08/2025 12:04

Normal and will.be in the T and Cs. Flights are routinely overbooked assuming passengers won't fly. Its not yours, it's your daughters and she didnt show up so it will be reallocated.

agieselbow · 22/08/2025 12:03

So many typos! Apologies. Basically I couldn’t edit the heading but essentially, decided to keep an airline ticket that couldnt be used by my daughter but the seat was take by another person despite me explaining that I wanted to keep the unused seat that I had paid £250 for.

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