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Cooking fried breakfast at home shouldn't be allowed?

219 replies

luckysdadsway · 22/08/2025 10:19

I know I'll get flamed for this, but AIBU to feel so completely annoyed when anyone suggests cooking sausages, bacon or at worst a full fried breakfast at home?

Now don't get me wrong, I enjoyed a friend breakfast or the odd bacon sandwich in a cafe but absolutely not at home.

I can't cope with the awful cooking smell that comes from them. It sticks to everything including my hair which means I can smell it all day. The smell lingers throughout the house all day and we have any visitors I feel mortified by it.

A fried breakfast is even worse because not only do you get the awful smell but the amount of washing up that comes along with it. The need to use so many pans!

OP posts:
Crispynoodle · 23/08/2025 00:41

What about breakfast for tea?

Kurokurosuke · 23/08/2025 00:40

DatingDinosaur · 22/08/2025 22:38

I cook mackerel to get rid of the smell of a fried breakfast.

Then I cook curry to get rid of the smell of mackrel.

Then I cook a fried breakfast to get rid of the curry smell.

This is the way!

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/08/2025 00:37

I'm always amazed by the number of Mumsnetters who are very sensitive to smells, though. Mumsnet seems to have much higher proportion than the general population of people who react very dramatically to everyday food smells, and/or have to go to bed with a migraine or get an asthma attack if they sit next to some who wears perfume

This. The things people get preoccupied with and upset over on here sometimes are breathtakingly trivial.

Open the window. Its just not worth getting that excited over.

ZenNudist · 23/08/2025 00:16

YABU

We have breakfast for lunch most weekends but bacon and sausages very rarely due to nitrates. I often do cooked breakfast in the week when I'm trying to eat healthier. I use the oil spray and a silicone brush to very lightly oil a decent frying pan. I grill the top of my fried eggs rather than flip them. Tomatoes I do in the air fryer or grill. Mushrooms usually fry in a nob of butter then quickly wilt/fry the spinach. As a treat I add hash browns done in the air fryer. I will do sliced halloumi in the same frying pan as the egg.

I love veggie cooked breakfast.

Cafe cooked breakfast only OK. Really prefer my own but friends cooking one (often with bacon and sausage) when I'm hungover also appreciated.

TenaciousDeeds · 23/08/2025 00:07

Not allowed??

I’m not a fan, but about once a month at the weekend my DH will do this for us. Yes it’s stinky for a bit but then subsides. I don’t particularly like it but it’s not a regular occurrence thank goodness.

Motherfluffers · 22/08/2025 23:58

I don’t understand why grilling apparently reeks but air frying doesn’t. Isn’t an air fryer just a little grill?

Grammarnut · 22/08/2025 23:52

MrsSlocombesCat · 22/08/2025 12:39

Well they wouldn't would they? Unless they're extremely rude!

Why would anyone's hair smell of bacon if they had a fried breakfast - which is much lower in calories and sugar than e.g. cereals, and keeps you happily full (so no snacking) till lunchtime? Unless colleagues go round sniffing each others' hair?

Tiffypops · 22/08/2025 22:57

There must be a greasy spoon nearby or find a truckers layby, plenty of sausages there 🤣

Longsight2019 · 22/08/2025 22:54

Mew2 · 22/08/2025 10:26

I don't agree. If I have a bit of bacon and a egg it keeps me full till lunch/mid afternoon. I tend to buy bacon medallions. Or I have smoked salmon and scrambled egg..... Quite healthy compared to the sugar found in cereal.... However I don't cook in butter/oil as you don't need to with the ninja pans
However I do 8-10 hours of exercise a week so tend to need lots of protein (particularly after park run on a Saturday morning)...

Have you heard yourself? 😆

Denim4ever · 22/08/2025 22:53

Splatter possibilities, I get.
Aromas, I don't.

Fish smells that linger are so much worse

DatingDinosaur · 22/08/2025 22:38

I cook mackerel to get rid of the smell of a fried breakfast.

Then I cook curry to get rid of the smell of mackrel.

Then I cook a fried breakfast to get rid of the curry smell.

ilovepixie · 22/08/2025 22:32

themonkeysnuts · 22/08/2025 10:28

thats why we use our camp cooker and cook bacon outside, sausages are cooked in oven and frozen which can be microwaved when wanted

You cook your bacon in the garden! 😳😳

shrunkenhead · 22/08/2025 22:29

I just hate the grease and smeech this causes. If I'm making sausages and bacon etc I'll just put them in the oven and I'm still amazed at how much fat is extracted out of them. I always open a window as can't bear it and I don't eat meat myself, just cook it for dh and kids occasionally. YANBU Also the washing up is made harder by all the grease and it never feels like you can get anything properly clean without dousing it in boiling water and shed-load of washing up liquid.

soupyspoon · 22/08/2025 22:26

WorriedRelative · 22/08/2025 22:19

What the heck are you doing that makes it smell bad?

I mean I love going out for a fried breakfast or bacon cob and don't often do one at home but that's more about avoiding waste (or being tempted to have one three days in a row because there are six rashers of bacon between two people). Plus the washing up.

Now, hold on. 6 rashers between 2 people, means 1 days worth of breakfast.

How do you stretch that over 3 days?

HevenlyMeS · 22/08/2025 22:25

Yes I presume it's just down to individuals tastes, personal likes /dislikes
Some will love the smell whiles others loath
Bit like Marmite, you either love or hate it - I guess, as with all things in life
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Wethers121 · 22/08/2025 22:25

We love a cooked breakfast but my husband always cooks outside as he hates the smell of cooking. 🍳

WorriedRelative · 22/08/2025 22:19

What the heck are you doing that makes it smell bad?

I mean I love going out for a fried breakfast or bacon cob and don't often do one at home but that's more about avoiding waste (or being tempted to have one three days in a row because there are six rashers of bacon between two people). Plus the washing up.

soupyspoon · 22/08/2025 22:13

This is why UK food has developed a reputation for being bland and homogenous

No longer do we use smoked haddock, kippers, potted shrimp, steak and kidney, liver and bacon, faggots, much seafood and fish despite being an island nation, mainly because of smell.

Open the window!!

HevenlyMeS · 22/08/2025 22:11

Sounds really wonderful warmhearted & welcoming 💚🤗💚

HevenlyMeS · 22/08/2025 22:10

Yes completely comprehend where you're coming from 😥🙏😥

HevenlyMeS · 22/08/2025 22:08

Yes & immensely healthier the method you use too
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dogsarethebestalways · 22/08/2025 21:56

Bubblesintheair · 22/08/2025 21:50

My unpopular opinion is that I can't understand why people want to eat revolting processed meat for breakfast or any meals at home or out because of animals welfare and the strong links to developing coleorectal cancer.

Occasional treat. And you can get nitrate free properly free ranged bacon.

myplace · 22/08/2025 21:56

I do the whole thing in the oven, bar the eggs. Uses a couple of baking trays, depending on the numbers.

Load up a baking sheet with sausage, bacon folded in half or wrapped around the sausage or mushrooms. Mushrooms, tomatoes, hash browns. All in the oven for about 30+mins.

Put some toast on and scramble (easiest to time and for large numbers) or fry eggs, bobs your uncle. I have done eggs on a baking sheet or in cups but the timing is much easier in a pan or a poaching pan.

And very little smell.

maddiemookins16mum · 22/08/2025 21:56

Meh, I can make a lovely full English without the use of a single frying pan. Your reaction is a bit OTT.

Bubblesintheair · 22/08/2025 21:50

My unpopular opinion is that I can't understand why people want to eat revolting processed meat for breakfast or any meals at home or out because of animals welfare and the strong links to developing coleorectal cancer.

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