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Surely this sign is unnecessary - Indonesia

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hotelinfo · 22/08/2025 06:22

On a very small (but quite well-known) islsnd, but lots if tourists. Not much going on today, as you can probably tell, so I'm posting this sign in the hotel room bathroom.

Obviously crouching loos are common in some areas, but who really needs to be told not to crouch on a hotel loo seat?

Surely this sign is unnecessary - Indonesia
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StarlightLady · 22/08/2025 07:33

For work, I travel quite regularly to Singapore. You will find similar signs in almost every public loo, alongside signs threatening you with a fine if you don’t flush. Most of the larger public loo facilities there often offer a choice of toilets. Similar signs can be seen across Asia.

In addition, in the Netherlands you will find a variation of these signs showing you which way to sit; Dutch loos are different.

Some cultures are taught it is wrong to sit, do they will try all sorts of acrobatics to squat.

To conclude though, if there is a sign telling you not to do something, it’s because someone has done it.

HideousKinky · 22/08/2025 07:30

I lived in SE Asia for 10 years and these signs ae everywhere, for the reasons already mentioned

myplace · 22/08/2025 07:27

@PurpleChrayn because someone may well be getting very happy off the back of your story. Hairy hands and all that.

There’s a surprising range of pet subjects that people post about for wank fodder.

NuffSaidSam · 22/08/2025 07:24

PurpleChrayn · 22/08/2025 07:21

Why should we be careful?

If I want to share the tale of my cleaning job at à university where I caught a student squatting to shit IN A SINK, then I will do.

Because there are 'poo trolls' who get off on eliciting poo based stories from people.

Say what you want of course, but as you do bear in mind you might becoming a character in someone's wank fodder.

PurpleChrayn · 22/08/2025 07:21

myplace · 22/08/2025 07:12

It’s very common- people do it. You can make sure people know how to use a western toilet, but they will do what they want to do, what they have always done, what they prefer to do.

PS recommend people are careful about what hilarious tales they share here!

Why should we be careful?

If I want to share the tale of my cleaning job at à university where I caught a student squatting to shit IN A SINK, then I will do.

Lushlylemons · 22/08/2025 07:20

Im more intrigued by the colour chart. Is this a common thing? I've not ever seen that in hotel bathrooms. Smile

SouthernNights59 · 22/08/2025 07:19

I've seen this sign on loos in NZ, so yes, it probably is necessary.

Hiphopahip · 22/08/2025 07:18

hotelinfo · 22/08/2025 06:35

If you were to put your feet on this loo, the plastic seat would either crack or fall off. And if the seat was up, the rim is so thin, you'd slip off.

Most public bathrooms have either squat loos (hole in the ground) or a mix of squat and sitting loos. I think people know the difference.

Ok so you know better then. Is this what you’re saying?

People will still try to use it, even if you don’t think they’d be able to.

Annoyeddd · 22/08/2025 07:16

Have also seen signs in toilets in London telling people not to wash their feet in the hand basins (I would love to be fit enough to get my feet up that high)

foxglovetree · 22/08/2025 07:15

My university puts up signs like this every summer when we host summer schools for students from Asia. Otherwise many of them are so used to squatting toilets that they would squat on the seat (and yes it would break - that is why you need a sign or you spend loads of money repairing damage).

If you have been brought up with squatting toilets you don’t think “oh this seat obviously can’t take squatting so maybe I’ll try a completely different way of using a toilet like sitting on it”, you probably think “well this is a pretty weird design of toilet, but hey ho, I’ll just take care to balance well”.

It would probably only occur to you that sitting was an option if you had had a lot of contact with Westeners or travelled. Just like you are incredulous that anyone would consider squatting, they would be incredulous about doing something else.

Sunshineismyfavourite · 22/08/2025 07:14

I've seen this type of sign before too, never really given it much thought tbh.

Clearly some people don't know the difference between a 'normal' seat and squat loos otherwise they wouldn't need the sign. And it must be because squatting on the seat would crack it/break it that they're having to address the issue. Pretty grim really!

Work9to5 · 22/08/2025 07:14

People in my office I think, the kind of organisation where you think people would know how to use the facilities without having a sign.

Neemie · 22/08/2025 07:14

I’ve seen this in lots of countries, also the worn sections on the loo seats where people have put their feet when squatting on them.

myplace · 22/08/2025 07:12

It’s very common- people do it. You can make sure people know how to use a western toilet, but they will do what they want to do, what they have always done, what they prefer to do.

PS recommend people are careful about what hilarious tales they share here!

Startrekobsessed · 22/08/2025 07:11

You know the difference because you are western and you are used to western toilets. Lots of people who have been brought up with squat toilets would not knkw the difference no and would think they squat still. The sign helps this not to happen but agree with a PP some people view western toilets as unhygienic and will still squat.

surely you can appreciate other people have a different background and knowledge of western culture than you? Not sure why you keep insisting it’s not needed, it’s very common in Asia and parts of Australia where there’s high levels of immigration from Asia

Notmyreality · 22/08/2025 07:08

Yes people from certain cultures need to be told and yes it’s a common sign.

YelloDaisy · 22/08/2025 07:08

To be fair if you’ve always squatted to poo (which is a recommendation nowadays if you are constipated) then suddenly sitting flat could be quite difficult - just cos it’s what the west does doesn’t mean it’s the best idea.

ShanghaiDiva · 22/08/2025 06:53

I have seen this sign in many places in both Asia and Europe.

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 22/08/2025 06:53

Also it’s just a sign. You already follow the rules so it’s not for you. You may be glad that it’s there to inform others.

Serpentstooth · 22/08/2025 06:50

You are obviously not somebody who has ever had the job of cleaning hotel or public lavatories. If you were, you'd know the sign is essential and your question superfluous. Why do you think they've gone to the effort and expense of making unnecessary signage?

CommissarySushi · 22/08/2025 06:40

hotelinfo · 22/08/2025 06:35

If you were to put your feet on this loo, the plastic seat would either crack or fall off. And if the seat was up, the rim is so thin, you'd slip off.

Most public bathrooms have either squat loos (hole in the ground) or a mix of squat and sitting loos. I think people know the difference.

Yes, that's why they need the signs. Because people will stand on the seats anyway and break them, or injure themselves. Plus it's just not hygienic.

hotelinfo · 22/08/2025 06:35

If you were to put your feet on this loo, the plastic seat would either crack or fall off. And if the seat was up, the rim is so thin, you'd slip off.

Most public bathrooms have either squat loos (hole in the ground) or a mix of squat and sitting loos. I think people know the difference.

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whatohwhattodo · 22/08/2025 06:35

I was in Malaysia recently and signs were everywhere. Also in our men’s office toilets in London I believe…..

Londonnight · 22/08/2025 06:31

I was in Thailand earlier this year and you see this sign everywhere. I think it is due to them having squat toilets in lots of places.

wineosaurusrex · 22/08/2025 06:30

(Where I live, these signs are incredibly common and you'll find them in almost all bathrooms that have western-style toilets. I still went into a Starbucks bathroom and found dusty footprints on the seat though!).

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