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Is it a con or can it help my sick child?

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Nightswimminginoldpants · 21/08/2025 23:11

Homeopathy?

Feeling a bit vulnerable at the moment, so not sure if it’s clouding my view.

Dd is ill and I’m getting desperate. Have been talking to a homeopathist online, she is very intent that homeopathy will help my Dd get better.

Does it work?

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PurpleChrayn · 22/08/2025 10:18

Absolute con.

It’s the alchemy of modern times.

Just as base metals can’t turn into gold, water cannot retain the memory of substances that it has touched.

”oh but it worked for me!” It didnt. If you were cured, it was by something else.

Mumofoneandone · 22/08/2025 10:16

Elsvieta · 22/08/2025 07:45

Of course they'll encourage you to use real medicine - in the hope that'll fix you and then they can take the credit.

I'm sorry you have a condition that probably can't be completely cured. But you're exactly the sort of victim they go for. Variable symptoms, can go up and down, some of it possibly relating to stress and / or environmental factors and some stuff that isn't even fully understood. And maybe sometimes you'll think you're feeling a bit better today than you did yesterday and give the credit to the sugar pills. And you'll keep buying them because it's human nature to clutch at straws when you're suffering and can't find a solution. But they're lying to you, and exploiting your illness. Spend the money on a weekly veg box or a meditation app or anything else that might conceivably do your body or your mind some good.

I'm not a victim, I'm an intelligent person using a wide variety of treatments and methods to improve my health.
Beyond diagnosing me, the NHS has basically washed their hands of me. They claim I can't be cured, so they don't bother doing anything - that's the con I'm paying into!
There are masses of CFS ME support groups sharing treatments/skills etc that have worked for them to improve their condition or stopped it worsening. All without NHS support - we have to fight to even be believed we're ill......
The NHS has it's place, but so do complimentary health treatments and changes in diets and supplements....

LillyPJ · 22/08/2025 10:16

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:12

Several of your posts go on about water. In fact homeopathic remedies are usually delivered in soft pill form that dissolves under or on the tongue. Contrary to a post earlier on here, the remedies are surprisingly cheap.

Water is also very cheap and equally efficacious.

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:12

Several of your posts go on about water. In fact homeopathic remedies are usually delivered in soft pill form that dissolves under or on the tongue. Contrary to a post earlier on here, the remedies are surprisingly cheap.

popcornpower2025 · 22/08/2025 10:12

I haven't read the full thread as I know MN Is generally very negative about homeopathy but I want to add that I have had very positive experiences and it has helped with numerous conditions that modern medicine and NHS have been absolutely useless with. What is to lose by trying it out

endofagain · 22/08/2025 10:11

Namenamchange · 22/08/2025 10:07

Arnica cream would be a herbal remedy, homeopathy is water, Herbal and homeopathy are not the same thing.

This. The conflation of these two entirely separate things is not helpful.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 22/08/2025 10:08

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:06

What basis do you have for saying that? Or do you just automatically repeat the other ignorant views peddled on here?😞

Because if someone is selling a product that doesn’t work to desperate and vulnerable people, they’re at best naive and at worst nasty con people.

Basic logic

Howmanycatsistoomany · 22/08/2025 10:08

SirRaymondClench · 22/08/2025 07:09

In Europe they prescribe homeopathic remedies.

I used to give homeopathic remedies to my horses and it always worked.

Maybe it was the placebo effect with them too.

ON MN everyone will tell you that anything alternative is bollocks as if allopathic medicine from your GP works every time 'because science' 🙄 yet they get paid to prescribe you stuff. Just look how many people are on statins for no good reason, or who are prescribed blood pressure medicine that never improves anything and you stay on it for life.

It's not in the interests of the world of allopathic medicine to advocate for the alternative when they can make so much money selling you their toxin laden tablets. Just look at America.

Not everything works for everyone same as any medicine.
I would find a good herbalist OP.

Edited

So if my horse has a deep puncture wound the homeopathic approach would be to treat with ledum palustre.
Yeah, no, think I'll go with a dose of tetanus antitoxin!

Disclaimer: I am a scientist and I believe in science.

Namenamchange · 22/08/2025 10:07

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 22/08/2025 08:36

I use arnica cream a lot, actually was recommended by my Pharmacist, works brilliantly for bruises and joint pain. The ingredients are various emollient and preservatives and arnica extract.
My thoughts on homeopathy are if it works for you then knock yourself out. Placebo can have an an extremely strong effect and there are many things we don’t quite understand or truly know why they work but seem to. I have seen dogs in India riddled with mange and maggots cured using homeopathy so am not quite as sceptical as others on this thread. It definitely won’t harm to try it.

Arnica cream would be a herbal remedy, homeopathy is water, Herbal and homeopathy are not the same thing.

Nightswimminginoldpants · 22/08/2025 10:06

flossydog · 22/08/2025 09:44

I can understand why you'd want to reach out for any lifeline when things feel so bleak. You ask me what I'd suggest, I'd lay off the antibiotics unless strictly necessary and focus on diet. If the trigger is from getting ill, you'll want to minimise the chance of getting ill.

It's quite possible that the regular courses of antibiotics have contributed to the problem. Each time your child takes antibiotics, she's leveling her gut microbiome. Poor gut health is linked to a lot of the kind of behaviour that PANS parents report. It can often be recovered with a good diet rich with fibre.

Also the more times a person takes antibiotics, the weaker their immune response, making future infections more likely. (Don't get me wrong, they're really great when necessary, but should be a last line of defense.)

She is showing an infection still that antibiotics should get rid of but hasn’t, even after many rounds
Do you think Gi map test results will help us?

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LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:06

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 22/08/2025 00:34

Oh OP.

Im so sorry you’re facing this, and I understand your desperation completely. But don’t waste your money. Homeopathy is a total con peddled by people happy to exploit those in vulnerable and in pain.

What basis do you have for saying that? Or do you just automatically repeat the other ignorant views peddled on here?😞

Tedwardy · 22/08/2025 10:06

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 09:57

There may be no way that science can as yet understand the basis of homeopathy, but that does not mean it does not work or is a con. Personally I have benefitted hugely from seeing a very good homeopath who helped me recover from thyroid problems among other issues. My elderly mother suffered from tinnitus but was completely cured by seeing another homeopath who was also a NHS GP.
As to placebo effect, homeopathy is very successful in curing animals - and they are not subject to placebo effect.
Seek out a good homeopath, OP - someone reputable and who you can see in person. Homeopathy treats the whole person, not just the symptons.
Find a good practitioner, trained and qualified on a register of Homeopathy UK or Society of Homeopaths. Their websites give useful information about choosing someone. 🌺

We don’t need to "understand the basis" to believe that homeopathy works. We just need to be able to see the results it claims, reproduced in proper objective blind trials. If it really worked, that would be easy. But it doesn’t happen.

The Royal Veterinary College experts don't believe it really helps animals.

https://www.rvc.ac.uk/research/news/general/scientists-at-royal-veterinary-college-show-homeopathy-only-appears-to-work-because-of-perceptual-errors

thebluehour · 22/08/2025 10:04

Nightswimminginoldpants · 22/08/2025 09:01

So what do you suggest I do to help my child who has been ill for over a year and off school for over a year? How do I get my child back? How do we get out of this utter hell we are all living in?

Given she is unwell, with neurological symptoms I gather, and has been on multiple rounds of antibiotics, the best thing you can do regardless is work on her gut health.

Vegetables, grains, beans, nuts, fruits, yoghurt, etc - essentially the modern Mediterranean diet plan. Plenty of books around about its antiinflammatory effects, and its effects on the immune system and the brain, and many neurotransmitters are produced by the gut microbiome.

LillyPJ · 22/08/2025 10:02

If in any doubt, watch this hilarious Mitchell & Webb sketch on homeopathy:

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 09:57

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/08/2025 23:15

With all kindness for your situation, homeopathy is a complete con. Some people get a strong placebo effect from it or want results enough that they will themselves to see them. But theres no scientific basis for homeopathy at all and practitioners take advantage of people like you.

I’m sorry your child is ill.

There may be no way that science can as yet understand the basis of homeopathy, but that does not mean it does not work or is a con. Personally I have benefitted hugely from seeing a very good homeopath who helped me recover from thyroid problems among other issues. My elderly mother suffered from tinnitus but was completely cured by seeing another homeopath who was also a NHS GP.
As to placebo effect, homeopathy is very successful in curing animals - and they are not subject to placebo effect.
Seek out a good homeopath, OP - someone reputable and who you can see in person. Homeopathy treats the whole person, not just the symptons.
Find a good practitioner, trained and qualified on a register of Homeopathy UK or Society of Homeopaths. Their websites give useful information about choosing someone. 🌺

LillyPJ · 22/08/2025 09:56

It's a con. At best it might work as a placebo. If it truly worked, it would have passed rigorous scientific tests and would solve a lot of problems!

EnjoythemoneyJane · 22/08/2025 09:54

Any positive effect of homeopathy is attributable to placebo (which in itself can be very powerful - I believe it’s currently being seriously studied for potential uses in mainstream medicine). Don’t waste your money on ridiculous ‘consultations’ and expensive snake oil, though - they’re woo merchants who prey on the desperate and gullible, and it’s a total con. As someone said upthread, you may as well give your daughter some tap water and tell her it’s magic.

On a cautionary note, I have a friend whose child was sick many years ago, and someone had really got in her head about mainstream medicine so she took him to a homeopath instead. A day or so later he had a raging fever and was struggling to breathe, and she ended up having to call an ambulance. He was admitted to hospital immediately, critically ill, and the registrar lost his shit when she told him she’d been dosing her son with these pixie drops rather than taking him to see an actual doctor. She was mortified, but also wracked with guilt that - with the best of intentions - she’d done something so stupid. He was fine in the end, but the outcome could have been very different.

I hope you’re able to get some help for your daughter.

G5000 · 22/08/2025 09:54

AlligatorTears · 22/08/2025 09:16

Homeopathy used to be all we had.

modern medicine is amazing in so many ways. In some ways it fixes symptoms not root cause and side effects are always there in some way.

I think it can’t hurt to try it, anything we can do holistically to support our bodies is better over chemicals.

no.
you're confusing homeopathy with herbal medicine. Homeopathy is an invention by a guy who a couple of hundred years ago thought that as he was feeling ill after taking quinine and quinine can be used when feeling ill, therefore small dose of illness cures bigger illness.
Yes it can certainly hurt, if people choose water memory over actual medicine.
And everything is a chemical.

blankittyblank · 22/08/2025 09:52

Owly11 · 22/08/2025 07:16

I’m a complete sceptic but I had a friend who was a homeopath. I had been mentioning to her my child’s verrucas that had been going on for years and I had tried everything they just would not budge. She gave me two small pills which I gave to my child thinking what harm can it do and I was astonished that within a couple of weeks the verrucas had completely gone. I have never used homeopathy before or since but it did always make me wonder. Also I noticed that at Great Ormond Street Hospital they had a homeopathy hospital which also surprised me. What harm can it do to try it?

this hospital at gosh isn’t for homeopathy, it’s for alternative medicines, like acupuncture and herbal remedies.

notapizzaeater · 22/08/2025 09:46

If her B vits are low, have they checked her vit d levels ?

flossydog · 22/08/2025 09:44

Nightswimminginoldpants · 22/08/2025 09:01

So what do you suggest I do to help my child who has been ill for over a year and off school for over a year? How do I get my child back? How do we get out of this utter hell we are all living in?

I can understand why you'd want to reach out for any lifeline when things feel so bleak. You ask me what I'd suggest, I'd lay off the antibiotics unless strictly necessary and focus on diet. If the trigger is from getting ill, you'll want to minimise the chance of getting ill.

It's quite possible that the regular courses of antibiotics have contributed to the problem. Each time your child takes antibiotics, she's leveling her gut microbiome. Poor gut health is linked to a lot of the kind of behaviour that PANS parents report. It can often be recovered with a good diet rich with fibre.

Also the more times a person takes antibiotics, the weaker their immune response, making future infections more likely. (Don't get me wrong, they're really great when necessary, but should be a last line of defense.)

G5000 · 22/08/2025 09:38

SirRaymondClench · 22/08/2025 07:32

Ok. I better tell my horses then.

my dog was limping for a few days. I have a vet appointment this afternoon. Dog woke up this morning, no limp whatsoever. If I had given her homeopathy yesterday, I would also think it works.

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 22/08/2025 09:37

Chronic illnesses are really hard, especially if the cause isn’t well known. My DS has been on and off school for over 2 years and has had to pull out entirely without Alevels (we will have to find another path). We have a diagnosis but no idea what caused it, treatment has been trial and error and a lot of crossing fingers!

As a parent you desperately want to FIX the issue. But sometimes you just can’t. We don’t know everything about the human body and individual responses to common situations.

PANS/ PANDAS is controversial and not fully accepted, which makes life harder for you. But in a lot of ways is irrelevant- you just deal with the symptoms in front you and muddle along as best you can. I think that children grow out of it as well.

Homeopathy is nonsense, designed to part you from you money. If it works for some it is either a placebo or the illness was self limiting and came to an end.

This is a fun book on homeopathy and how no matter what evidence is provided that it doesn’t work - it keeps on bouncing right back up.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Attack-Unsinkable-Rubber-Ducks-Parlabane/dp/0349118817

Cactiiii · 22/08/2025 09:34

Hi OP. My 9 year old had suspected PANDAS. It worked amazingly on her. Sleep problems, tics, fears all went within a week.

Cactiiii · 22/08/2025 09:34

Hi OP. My 9 year old had suspected PANDAS. It worked amazingly on her. Sleep problems, tics, fears all went within a week.

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