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Is it a con or can it help my sick child?

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Nightswimminginoldpants · 21/08/2025 23:11

Homeopathy?

Feeling a bit vulnerable at the moment, so not sure if it’s clouding my view.

Dd is ill and I’m getting desperate. Have been talking to a homeopathist online, she is very intent that homeopathy will help my Dd get better.

Does it work?

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ytemussel · 22/08/2025 11:07

@SirRaymondClench "Maybe it was the placebo effect with them too."

The placebo effect is documented in animals so yes it was. Or it was something that would have cleared up on its own anyway.

Mumofoneandone · 22/08/2025 11:02

oldclock · 22/08/2025 10:38

If it genuinely works it's contaminated with actual medicine, as many so called homeopathic remedies are, and that medication isn't being monitored. Or it's placebo. You want it to work so you think it does.

Absolute rubbish.

Kreepture · 22/08/2025 10:56

Nightswimminginoldpants · 22/08/2025 09:01

So what do you suggest I do to help my child who has been ill for over a year and off school for over a year? How do I get my child back? How do we get out of this utter hell we are all living in?

have you had her checked for Lyme disease? I know very little about Pans/pandas, but i have seen cases in a few places where it turned out it was a tick bite, not everything else that caused it.

As others said, Homeopathy is snake oil, it does nothing.

There is some truth in Herbalism, as some herbal remedies do work, but like any medicine, it has to be the right thing for the right person.

The two aren't the same thing though.

LadySuzanne · 22/08/2025 10:54

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:22

This is a very ignorant comment. The remedies are not given as water. Do you actually know anything about homeopathy?

There is nothing to know - other than that there is no evidence for the concept per se, nor for its efficacy.

DrNo007 · 22/08/2025 10:51

OP you will not get any sensible advice on here about homeopathy because most MNers have dismissed it without trying it. It's very widely used in many countries, often in countries where doctors use it alongside conventional medicine, eg France, Germany, Switzerland, India. It is very effective in animals (many farmers use it on livestock--much cheaper and more effective for some conditions than calling out the vet) and in babies, where of course the placebo effect doesn't apply as babies and animals don't know what they are taking and why.

However here in the UK we have a very strong pharmaceutical lobby that has long tried to discredit homeopathy, largely successfully.

The best people to talk to are those who have been helped or cured by homeopathy, when conventional medicine could not do a thing. Homeopathy kept me out of the grave when I came close to death and cured my allergies, which nothing else succeeded in doing. It is cheap and when it works, it's brilliant. I can't pretend it always works for everything and everyone, but it's worth trying if you are willing to give it a go and give it a little time and patience. If you have an open mind about the topic, you may find this film interesting: introducinghomeopathy.com/purchase/

theDudesmummy · 22/08/2025 10:46

PS just read the PP above about Chinese herbalists, yes, herbal medicines can be very harmful, as can other medicines. If you don't know for sure what's in the bottle, do not take it.

PringlesTube · 22/08/2025 10:46

Well I’ve learnt something today. I thought ‘homeopathy’ was just another word for herbal medicine. I’d never heard of this putting a drop of something in water and water memory nonsense. (Seems a few people on here also have the same confusion.)

FlayOtters · 22/08/2025 10:45

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 09:57

There may be no way that science can as yet understand the basis of homeopathy, but that does not mean it does not work or is a con. Personally I have benefitted hugely from seeing a very good homeopath who helped me recover from thyroid problems among other issues. My elderly mother suffered from tinnitus but was completely cured by seeing another homeopath who was also a NHS GP.
As to placebo effect, homeopathy is very successful in curing animals - and they are not subject to placebo effect.
Seek out a good homeopath, OP - someone reputable and who you can see in person. Homeopathy treats the whole person, not just the symptons.
Find a good practitioner, trained and qualified on a register of Homeopathy UK or Society of Homeopaths. Their websites give useful information about choosing someone. 🌺

you are dangerous. please stop giving medical advice. science understands perfectly well that any benefit perceived from homeopathy is placebo.

theDudesmummy · 22/08/2025 10:44

The PP who said that homeopathy "treats the whole person" rather than the symptoms has hit the nail on the head. There can in many cases be a strong and measurable clinical effect of having someone listen sympathetically and seriously to your concerns and worries and say that they can help. In recurrent miscarriage, for example, just being referred to a recurrent miscarriage clinic increases the chance of having a baby, without any other intervention.

So for some situations homeopathy may appear to "work" , but it's not the substances that you have been given, which are of no clinical value whatsoever, it's the interpersonal interactions (or that the problem just got better on its own). The big danger comes when people eschew mainstream treatments in cases where this is going to cause them harm. Sometimes this won't matter, lots of things resolve on their own and no harm done by taking tiny sugar pills or sips of water. But some very serious things don't, obviously, even with sympathy and positive thinking.

"Herbal medicine" on the other hand, may have benefits in some cases, and indeed was the foundation of what we now know as pharmacotherapy. Lots of substances found in nature are similar to, or even the original basis of, highly effective modern manufactured medications (salicylic acid, St John's wort, digitalis, etc etc). For example, in some cases where antidepressants are causing problematic side effects St John's wort can be a gentler alternative. It's not as effective an antidepressant of course, but it can be better than nothing (combined, again, with positive interpersonal interactions). In communities where modern medicines are not available, using foxglove in cardiac disease and willow bark tea for pain is going to be better than nothing.

Sera1989 · 22/08/2025 10:42

Also licensed medicines have been produced to have a specific amount of active ingredient and are tested to ensure nothing harmful is used in the filler. I saw a urologist for a few years and he told me he’d seen lots and lots of young women with kidney problems from taking herbal remedies. Obviously not all are dangerous or contaminated, but I would spend more to buy from a reputable brand and I wouldn’t buy or accept accept anything that isn’t in original or labelled packaging (I once went to a Chinese herbalist who gave me some liquid in a brown unlabelled bottle and I was just supposed to trust that it was medicine). I was vulnerable and desperate for a cure which never came, now I’m very sceptical of quackery

Owly11 · 22/08/2025 10:42

blankittyblank · 22/08/2025 09:52

this hospital at gosh isn’t for homeopathy, it’s for alternative medicines, like acupuncture and herbal remedies.

Yes I know but when it first opened and I was attending GOSH medical appointments with my child many years ago it was called something like the London Homeopathic Hospital. The point of my post is that I was very surprised to be attending a GOSH appointment at a homeopathic hospital. I had no idea such a thing existed and even more surprised about its association with GOSH.

Fleur405 · 22/08/2025 10:40

housethatbuiltme · 22/08/2025 08:27

It can sometime help alongside prescribed medicines, the thing is to know what it is, how it work, that its not dangerous and that it can be mixed with other things. Do NOT stop actual medical treatment in favor of untested options.

Homeopathy was the bases of modern medicine so none medical things can work. The thing is that you need to know its legit. Some things online claim to be 'natural cure' but are just crazy anti-medicine people suggesting really dangerous made up ideas.

As an example of a real 'non medical medicine': Take the thread the other day of the lady that treated her chin hair by changing her diet to eat Tofu. That is a legitimate thing as 'Soy' is a natural source of estrogen so if you eat enough often enough it will alter your hormone balance. It use to be very common 'home treatment' option for some infertile people who couldn't afford Clomid but without medical guidance you could also 'misbalance' your hormones in a different way.

What is it you are considering using?

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You are thinking of herbal medicine. I for example used some “self heal” from the garden to treat my daughter’s grazed knee yesterday because it has antiseptic and anti inflammatory properties. Many plant compounds form the basis of conventional medicines.

Homeothapy is based on some medieval hocus pocus and is literally the practice of selling WATER in sugar tablets with some silly notion that the water has memory. It cannot work beyond a placebo effect because it does not contain anything.

oldclock · 22/08/2025 10:38

Angliski · 22/08/2025 10:35

I have found homeopathy to be magically effective for my child. I didn’t expect it but it really helped him a lot. I’ve no idea what your child has or needs but I found that being open to alternatives helped me get better outcomes for myself and my kid than purely western medicine.

If it genuinely works it's contaminated with actual medicine, as many so called homeopathic remedies are, and that medication isn't being monitored. Or it's placebo. You want it to work so you think it does.

Angliski · 22/08/2025 10:35

I have found homeopathy to be magically effective for my child. I didn’t expect it but it really helped him a lot. I’ve no idea what your child has or needs but I found that being open to alternatives helped me get better outcomes for myself and my kid than purely western medicine.

SomethingInnocuousForNow · 22/08/2025 10:35

Homeopathy is a complete con.

How old is your child?
When did the symptoms first start?
What are her specific symptoms?

Nightswimminginoldpants · 22/08/2025 10:35

anyolddinosaur · 22/08/2025 10:20

Please listen to those of us saying that improving your child's gut health may work. You may have ignored my last post because mumsnet temporarily hid it, possibly because I named a specific product.

Repeat antibiotics harm the gut and your gut biome is important. If you are having a gi mat test next week maybe hold of until after that but then I would strongly encourage you not just to look at diet but to give her either pre or pro biotics.

What exactly are her symptoms apart from repeat infections that are not responding to antibiotics?

Definitely believe the gut is involved, she has had almost constant constipation, gas etc since 3. We have had numerous gastro tests done, but apparently the Gi map should dig deeper 🙏
We were on probiotics but have stopped a while ago due to doing this test.
Please could you pm me, literally desperate for any help x

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Bumdrops · 22/08/2025 10:33

notapizzaeater · 21/08/2025 23:14

what has she suggested she can cure ? The nhs offers some homeopathy - maybe try there first ?

No, the NHS does not provide or advocate homeopathy any more -
because there is NO evidence that it can treat anything -
OP please don’t get drawn in to false hope

flossydog · 22/08/2025 10:30

Nightswimminginoldpants · 22/08/2025 10:06

She is showing an infection still that antibiotics should get rid of but hasn’t, even after many rounds
Do you think Gi map test results will help us?

I'm not an expert on GI mapping, but I've read mixed things about them. The people in favour say you can learn if there are harmful bacteria, parasites etc. The people against say they're not that accurate yet, and have a high rate of false positives and could lead to treatment of things which aren't an issue.

A common sign of gut issues is recurring bloating, diarrhoea, constipation etc., which you can try and tackle with diet with or without further testing. Also, it's worth thinking about the home environment, if there are any major stressors or causes of anxiety as these are also bad for the immune system.

anyolddinosaur · 22/08/2025 10:28

And yes to ask for a blood test to test if B12 pills are improving her levels or not.

ScruffyTrouserMindFlip · 22/08/2025 10:27

Sorry to hear about your child OP.

Don't know if this has been suggested already, as haven't read the whole thing, but it might be worth looking into fasting. Obviously done properly, and not for weight loss. There is some really interesting research about fasting and various autoimmune diseases. The "Zoe" podcast on if, offers a good introduction.

As for homeopathy, it's a placebo, which can be helpful in itself (for your daughter). May be cheaper ways of doing it though, depending on what the woman is charging x

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 22/08/2025 10:25

Mumofoneandone · 22/08/2025 10:16

I'm not a victim, I'm an intelligent person using a wide variety of treatments and methods to improve my health.
Beyond diagnosing me, the NHS has basically washed their hands of me. They claim I can't be cured, so they don't bother doing anything - that's the con I'm paying into!
There are masses of CFS ME support groups sharing treatments/skills etc that have worked for them to improve their condition or stopped it worsening. All without NHS support - we have to fight to even be believed we're ill......
The NHS has it's place, but so do complimentary health treatments and changes in diets and supplements....

i haven’t seen anyone arguing against all alternative medicines, healthy eating, gut biome, herbal remedies, massages can all help.

Magic water can’t. Unless it is the placebo effect, which is incredibly powerful.

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:22

MrRydersParlourGame · 22/08/2025 08:23

If your child is suffering from dehydration it may help, because what they are selling you is water.

If your child's illness is psychosomatic the placebo effect of the water they are selling you may help.

Otherwise no.

They are selling you water.

The fact this was ever available as a 'medicine' on the NHS is a damning commentary on the state of things at that time. It was withdrawn in 2017, backed by a court judgment, because there is absolutely zero evidence for it doing anything at all (except hydrating you).

Because it's water.

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This is a very ignorant comment. The remedies are not given as water. Do you actually know anything about homeopathy?

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 22/08/2025 10:22

LillyPJ · 22/08/2025 10:16

Water is also very cheap and equally efficacious.

Because the “active ingredient” has been diluted, shaken, diluted again. The theory is the more dilute the more effective the medicine.

But it is so dilute that they is often none of the original “ingredient” left. So is just water. That somehow holds on to the memory of the ingredient it was dosed with.

How this happens is completely unknown. Why the water doesn’t hold on to the memory of anything else it has come into contact with is also unknown.

This magic water is then mixed with sugar/ neutral power to make into tablets. How this contamination of the magic water doesn’t affect it is also unexplained.

Double blind trials have shown it has NO effect. As it can’t because it is entirely nonsense.

It isn’t the cost of the tablets alone that is the problem it is the consultation. Plus the false hope.

toadinthebucket · 22/08/2025 10:21

LytesCarey · 22/08/2025 10:12

Several of your posts go on about water. In fact homeopathic remedies are usually delivered in soft pill form that dissolves under or on the tongue. Contrary to a post earlier on here, the remedies are surprisingly cheap.

This suggests you don't know what homeopathy is. So please tell us what you believe it to be ans which illnesses it "cured".

anyolddinosaur · 22/08/2025 10:20

Please listen to those of us saying that improving your child's gut health may work. You may have ignored my last post because mumsnet temporarily hid it, possibly because I named a specific product.

Repeat antibiotics harm the gut and your gut biome is important. If you are having a gi mat test next week maybe hold of until after that but then I would strongly encourage you not just to look at diet but to give her either pre or pro biotics.

What exactly are her symptoms apart from repeat infections that are not responding to antibiotics?