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To think if you're that fond/proud of your national flag, you should probably know which way up it goes?

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Nookfoot · 21/08/2025 15:13

Of all the Union Flags that have appeared, a huge percentage seem to be upside-down.

Now, I agree with the basic sentiment that people should be able to display their national flag if they choose, that flags should be respected. I think it's very sad that the flag has been appropriated by right wing groups/views.

Which ever camp you fall in, if you're going to put it up, put it the right way up. They're really doing the opposite of respecting it other wise!

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 14:59

FeistyFrankie · 23/08/2025 14:50

Or perhaps we should be offering asylum seekers safe routes into the country BEFORE they claim asylum??? Why is no one talking about that? That would eradicate these dangerous journeys altogether, surely?

I'm not sure how that would work. Do people make a claim for asylum in the UK, then are given safe passage to the UK while their claim is processed? Or does the UK have various processing centres and people's cases are determined there? We already take refugees from approved schemes eg Ukraine, Hong Kong and Afghanistan.

FeistyFrankie · 23/08/2025 14:50

PrincessofWells · 23/08/2025 09:55

Christ, can you imagine how desperate those asylum seekers must have been to do that. It's a pretty narcissistic comment from the driver . . . some might say stupid. And that's the type of people who voted brexit. Racists, narcissists and stupid people who believe anything providing its right wing enough and fits their agenda.

Or perhaps we should be offering asylum seekers safe routes into the country BEFORE they claim asylum??? Why is no one talking about that? That would eradicate these dangerous journeys altogether, surely?

Upupandaway10 · 23/08/2025 14:45

HonoriaBulstrode · 21/08/2025 21:59

Racists are putting up flags on lampposts.

What evidence do you have that they are racists?

Yes what evidence?

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:41

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 14:35

What you seem to be saying is that you didn't really read my post but took umbrage because I pointed out that you were wrong. You don't care why you were wrong and have learned nothing from the exercise and would do it all over again. I said 'willfully ignorant.' Thank you for providing such a good example.

Have you not noticed what is happening in the EU? It is collapsing from the inside. We were right to leave a sinking ship before it was too late. We are in a much better position to rebuild our nation than other European countries will be when the s**t hits the fan because we made the right decision on 2016.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:37

Loadsapandas · 23/08/2025 10:34

The sunlit uplands will come?

what do we do in the meantime as our standard of living and health indicators reduce?

can you let me know how to identify when those sunlit uplands come? What will GB society look like?
What features will it have?

But I thought your lot were going to put everything right long before Reform gets into power. Or were those just lies to get the votes?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 14:35

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:31

Thought you’d say that. What was it then?“unintelligent” “deluded” “misguided”? I can’t remember. But it’s all the same to me. These are insults that suggest I didn’t know what I was doing when I voted Brexit. I did. And I’ll be proved right in the next few years.

What you seem to be saying is that you didn't really read my post but took umbrage because I pointed out that you were wrong. You don't care why you were wrong and have learned nothing from the exercise and would do it all over again. I said 'willfully ignorant.' Thank you for providing such a good example.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:34

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:50

I haven't called anyone "thick".

“Exercise in ignorance” That’s just a clever way of calling someone think. Call a spade a spade why don’t you? I prefer to be insulted in plain English. After all I’m too ignorant to understand subtlety.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:31

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:50

I haven't called anyone "thick".

Thought you’d say that. What was it then?“unintelligent” “deluded” “misguided”? I can’t remember. But it’s all the same to me. These are insults that suggest I didn’t know what I was doing when I voted Brexit. I did. And I’ll be proved right in the next few years.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:27

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 23/08/2025 11:20

That’s it, thank you!

Well it soon won’t matter. If the SNP get their way there wont be white stripes to worry about.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 14:26

Nagginthenag · 23/08/2025 09:53

And all this is going to happen under Reform is it?

Well it’s certainly not happening under Labour.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 23/08/2025 11:20

LakieLady · 23/08/2025 10:56

I was taught to remember it by the phrase "wide white, top left", "wide white" being the diagonal stripe and left being the side that's next to the flagpole.

That’s it, thank you!

LakieLady · 23/08/2025 10:56

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 23/08/2025 09:59

So what IS the right way for a Union Flag/Jack to go? I seem to recall having been told when I was in the Brownies about a hundred years ago. Something to do with the broad or narrow white bit of the St Patrick flag being at the top left, or not.

We had to draw and colour one, IIRC.

I was taught to remember it by the phrase "wide white, top left", "wide white" being the diagonal stripe and left being the side that's next to the flagpole.

LakieLady · 23/08/2025 10:51

Areas that have been targeted include : Newcastle, Tynemouth, Redditch, Worcester, York, Bradford, Birmingham, Warwick, parts of London (I'm not sure on which parts). Some of these are areas with relatively (for the UK) high numbers of long-standing ie 3rd even 4th generation settled former immigrant populations eg Bradford, Birmingham, others are areas close to where Reform is popular eg Newcastle, Tynemouth.

I'm in Sussex and the local paper reported that flags had been put up along the coast road between Brighton and Seaford. Brighton & Hove council announced that they would be taking them down, but last night a couple of local news sites said that the contractors had had to stop removing them, because they were getting abuse from people.

East Sussex County Council haven't said whether they'll be removing them or not, afaik. Demographically, Brighton & Hove is almost bang on the national average for ethnic diversity (74% white) but East Sussex is overwhelmingly white (95% iirc).

I just hope that they're securely tied on. That road gets very windy, and no-one would want a flag blowing onto their windscreen while they're driving.

Loadsapandas · 23/08/2025 10:34

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:36

They’ll come.

The sunlit uplands will come?

what do we do in the meantime as our standard of living and health indicators reduce?

can you let me know how to identify when those sunlit uplands come? What will GB society look like?
What features will it have?

LakieLady · 23/08/2025 10:18

iwishihadaname · 21/08/2025 22:43

And should know it’s called the union flag not Union Jack only called Union Jack on a ship

I'm so glad to see this mentioned, @iwishihadaname . I've been resisting pointing it out on the other flag thread for fear of being accused of pedantry!

My ex-RN DF used to get enraged by anyone referring to incorrectly, so it was dinned into me from an early age.

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 10:17

softlyfallsthesnow · 23/08/2025 10:08

Desperate to leave several safe countries and come to the UK where it's much easier to work illegally and no one checks your identity. They are mostly fit young men who, as a group, are more likely to take risks.

You could say the same about the Ukrainians.

Nagginthenag · 23/08/2025 10:16

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:55

Why not? It's happening in Farage's constituency.

Say what, now? 😁

PrincessofWells · 23/08/2025 10:14

softlyfallsthesnow · 23/08/2025 10:08

Desperate to leave several safe countries and come to the UK where it's much easier to work illegally and no one checks your identity. They are mostly fit young men who, as a group, are more likely to take risks.

Your post totally misses the point.

softlyfallsthesnow · 23/08/2025 10:08

PrincessofWells · 23/08/2025 09:55

Christ, can you imagine how desperate those asylum seekers must have been to do that. It's a pretty narcissistic comment from the driver . . . some might say stupid. And that's the type of people who voted brexit. Racists, narcissists and stupid people who believe anything providing its right wing enough and fits their agenda.

Desperate to leave several safe countries and come to the UK where it's much easier to work illegally and no one checks your identity. They are mostly fit young men who, as a group, are more likely to take risks.

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 10:04

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:40

What, like they are suffering now do you mean? Or will a strong economy, fiscal responsibility, pride in their country and having a job make them suffer more?

Farage will give that to you good luck with that dream.

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 10:00

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:39

He isn't Left at all.

Not in the slightest. You should be able to see it by now.

And the 'richness' of farmers, isn't 'richness' in any way. The 'richness' is in the land they farm to grow food and the tools they use to do so. Invesed straight into more seed and animals and feed they buy.

But hey who needs food when you can have solar panels. Yum yum.

The super wealthy were buying farmland because of the tax loop hole. They kept their wealth. The land was not being used to farm that was the problem.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 23/08/2025 09:59

So what IS the right way for a Union Flag/Jack to go? I seem to recall having been told when I was in the Brownies about a hundred years ago. Something to do with the broad or narrow white bit of the St Patrick flag being at the top left, or not.

We had to draw and colour one, IIRC.

CaptainMyCaptain · 23/08/2025 09:57

PrincessofWells · 23/08/2025 09:55

Christ, can you imagine how desperate those asylum seekers must have been to do that. It's a pretty narcissistic comment from the driver . . . some might say stupid. And that's the type of people who voted brexit. Racists, narcissists and stupid people who believe anything providing its right wing enough and fits their agenda.

Absolutely, they must have been absolutely desperate as are the people getting into unsafe boats. I did have some sympathy for the driver's situation unfortunately, he was too narrow minded to see that it had nothing to do with Brexit.

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 09:56

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:37

And your food prices will go up because farmers will have to stop farming.

It went up after Brexit and I still bought my food and olive oil. The super wealthy buying the farm are not farming.

The wealthy own significant amounts of farmland for various reasons, including wealth preservation, portfolio diversification, and as a way to avoid inheritance tax. High-net-worth individuals and institutions are increasingly dominating the farmland market, driving up land prices and potentially pricing out traditional agricultural buyers. This trend of the rich buying farmland is observed in the US, UK, and other countries, with figures like Bill Gates and wealthy investors from other industries all purchasing large tracts of land for investment and other benefits.

https://eastangliabylines.co.uk/farming/the-super-rich-are-hoovering-up-norfolk-land/#:~:text=The%20tax%20issue,the%20amount%20of%20land%20owned.

The super rich are “hoovering up” Norfolk land

Italian counts, Dubai royals, and German heirs now own swathes of Norfolk. Family farms can’t compete

https://eastangliabylines.co.uk/farming/the-super-rich-are-hoovering-up-norfolk-land/