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AIBU to think that those who say “covid is just a cold” would rather just have a cold than covid if given the choice?

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Owlonbranchtwo · 21/08/2025 12:17

As per title.

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Easyyoke · 27/08/2025 17:07

PoshDuckQuarkQuark · 21/08/2025 12:27

Its a bloody virus! Both colds and covid and flu are viruses.

Sometimes they can be awful. Sometimes they can be so mild you dont even know you have the virus.

If you feel ill then go to bed, if you feel fine carry on.

Exactly this ^

GleisZwei · 27/08/2025 17:06

Covid, colds and flu can vary in severity, so I'd probably rather have none of them!

Willoo · 27/08/2025 17:05

I don’t care if I catch COVID. Didn’t during the pandemic either. I’ve yet to catch it though despite working all the way through it in a warehouse

CallMeMessy · 27/08/2025 17:04

Depends how bad the cold and how bad the Covid! Had Covid that laid me flat for days and Covid that I barely knew I had. Same with colds - some are sniffles and some are awful.
So it depend.
Flu is the one I really want to avoid TBH.

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 17:02

JohnTheRevelator · 27/08/2025 17:00

I had covid back in January 2022,and it was far milder than a cold. It was definitely covid as the test was positive,but all I had was a slight fever and loss of appetite for a couple of days, and feeling a bit out of sorts for a week after that. When I get a cold OMFG do I know it. Non stop streaming nose,aching limbs, wracking coughing (about half the time) and generally feeling like shit. So,I'd rather have covid.

but are you someone who says “covid is just a cold”?

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JohnTheRevelator · 27/08/2025 17:00

I had covid back in January 2022,and it was far milder than a cold. It was definitely covid as the test was positive,but all I had was a slight fever and loss of appetite for a couple of days, and feeling a bit out of sorts for a week after that. When I get a cold OMFG do I know it. Non stop streaming nose,aching limbs, wracking coughing (about half the time) and generally feeling like shit. So,I'd rather have covid.

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 16:55

PocketSand · 27/08/2025 16:35

I think the question encourages respondents to view Covid as another respiratory illness in the short term. It’s not common for respiratory illnesses to have other effects but to be localised. So a cold means localised and short term with no long term effects.

I think the question should be framed in terms of systemic effects seen in Covid but not other respiratory illnesses even where obvious symptoms to the sufferer in the short term are comparable. Eg choosing a room with someone with a cold or Covid is comparable in terms of immediate symptoms. But your choice of Covid may mean life affecting cognitive impairment in the longer term. A higher risk or heart disease or stroke. If you knew the longer term risks, would you make the same choice?

No longer testing now the pandemic is over is rational on an individual level for most people. Ignoring scientific research on a population or global level of future health is not.

It is often framed as a respiratory illness, although I appreciate its vascular. I’m assuming the ones who say “it’s just a cold” have just felt it like a cold, but that they do actually understand that for many, it isn’t, which is why I added the room a and b bit. If you can help me phrase the question better, I’d appreciate it. I really want to understand the logic behind why people would say it doesn’t matter. It would be like a smoker being offered two cigarettes, both tasting the same, but for one the smell disappears upon finishing it and there are no long term effects on self or others and then saying “I don’t care, both make me cough a little when I have the first one of the day”. I don’t understand it.

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PocketSand · 27/08/2025 16:35

I think the question encourages respondents to view Covid as another respiratory illness in the short term. It’s not common for respiratory illnesses to have other effects but to be localised. So a cold means localised and short term with no long term effects.

I think the question should be framed in terms of systemic effects seen in Covid but not other respiratory illnesses even where obvious symptoms to the sufferer in the short term are comparable. Eg choosing a room with someone with a cold or Covid is comparable in terms of immediate symptoms. But your choice of Covid may mean life affecting cognitive impairment in the longer term. A higher risk or heart disease or stroke. If you knew the longer term risks, would you make the same choice?

No longer testing now the pandemic is over is rational on an individual level for most people. Ignoring scientific research on a population or global level of future health is not.

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 16:00

MyMilchick · 27/08/2025 15:37

In that case I'd take my chances with the cold!

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That seems the obvious answer, so I’m really intrigued by those who say different. Why wouldn’t they want the least risky option for themselves and others?

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Crushed23 · 27/08/2025 15:41

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 15:08

So if you were given the hypothetical choice, you wouldn’t be bothered by which one you had?

I have no opinion. Like I say I have not thought about Covid for 4 years or so, and have not kept up with the various strains. Not on my radar at all.

MyMilchick · 27/08/2025 15:37

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 15:32

I meant if initial symptoms were on a like for like basis. One is much more transmissible and has disabled lots of people in a short space of time and is linked to longer term health issues.

In that case I'd take my chances with the cold!

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 15:32

MyMilchick · 27/08/2025 15:18

I tested positive for Covid when my husband had it, i wasn't sick at all so it really depends what kind of Covid you get really

I meant if initial symptoms were on a like for like basis. One is much more transmissible and has disabled lots of people in a short space of time and is linked to longer term health issues.

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MyMilchick · 27/08/2025 15:18

I tested positive for Covid when my husband had it, i wasn't sick at all so it really depends what kind of Covid you get really

Mistyglade · 27/08/2025 15:09

Not really. Are you going to get a test to see what virus type it is every time you’re unwell?

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 15:08

Crushed23 · 27/08/2025 15:06

Tests may well be on sale, it doesn’t mean people are buying them in great numbers. I no longer live in the UK, but I recall they were piled high in my local Boots in 2022/2023 with barely anyone buying them even then. I would be amazed if sales were strong in 2025.

Like I say, Covid is just not on anyone’s radar anymore and hasn’t been for years. MN is the only place I see it mentioned.

So if you were given the hypothetical choice, you wouldn’t be bothered by which one you had?

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Steph341 · 27/08/2025 15:07

Colds are never that bad IME, flu is always awful. I've had Covid twice and both times it was horrible, far worse than a cold. I'd take a cold over covid any day. I knew both times that it was covid because I'd never had a cold/flu like it. Splitting throat/head, total exhaustion and trouble with breathing.

People I know will still say if they've had covid recently. It's still definitely a thing round here.

Crushed23 · 27/08/2025 15:06

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 14:58

It’s a weird thing. Taking covid out of the equation, if someone asked me if I’d rather have a common cold or have the flu, both with similar symptoms, I wouldn’t need it to be in my mind to very quickly say a cold.

Tests are sold in supermarkets, chemists, online etc.

Tests may well be on sale, it doesn’t mean people are buying them in great numbers. I no longer live in the UK, but I recall they were piled high in my local Boots in 2022/2023 with barely anyone buying them even then. I would be amazed if sales were strong in 2025.

Like I say, Covid is just not on anyone’s radar anymore and hasn’t been for years. MN is the only place I see it mentioned.

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 14:58

Crushed23 · 27/08/2025 12:30

I think most people put Covid out of their mind some 4 years ago and wouldn’t really give this question a second thought. How would you even know you had it? I don’t know anyone who has tested for it since 2021.

It’s a weird thing. Taking covid out of the equation, if someone asked me if I’d rather have a common cold or have the flu, both with similar symptoms, I wouldn’t need it to be in my mind to very quickly say a cold.

Tests are sold in supermarkets, chemists, online etc.

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Crushed23 · 27/08/2025 12:30

I think most people put Covid out of their mind some 4 years ago and wouldn’t really give this question a second thought. How would you even know you had it? I don’t know anyone who has tested for it since 2021.

Owlonbranchtwo · 27/08/2025 02:00

User3456 · 21/08/2025 20:55

There's a petition here for improved monitoring from UKHSA if anyone would like to sign
Good timing as it looks like we're heading into another wave after it being at quite low levels for a while
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/732047

I’d saved this to have a look at as reception was playing up. Interesting. Sorry it took me a while. It seems like there is pressure to move away from acknowledging covid to avoid doing anything. There is some reluctance to test in hospitals, so numbers will be understated, but yes, of course there should be improved monitoring. It’s a bit crap there’s a petition for this - it should just be happening.

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Owlonbranchtwo · 22/08/2025 20:10

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 22/08/2025 13:11

This thread doesn't make much sense really OP.

It depends entirely on the severity of either.

I've had Covid 3 times. The first 2 times (only tested because it was 2020 and work made me), I've had far worse hangovers. The 3rd time was awful.

Equally I've had mild colds and very heavy ones 🤷‍♂️

Re: thread doesn’t make much sense, I was referring to people who say “covid is just a cold”, so presumably they would be equating the severity of their colds to covid. I think that if like for like on initial symptoms, the vast majority of people would rather have a common cold, than covid (given risk of health impacts on self and others).

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PistachioTiramisu · 22/08/2025 13:20

If you'd asked this a few weeks ago, I would have been in the 'Covid is just a cold' camp, BUT having caught it a couple of weeks ago, I now think differently. I felt really ill, with a horrid headache which would not shift (and I rarely get headaches), lethargic and the worst cough ever. Two weeks on, I am feeling better but still have a really bad cough in the mornings. I no longer think it is 'just a cold'.

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 22/08/2025 13:11

This thread doesn't make much sense really OP.

It depends entirely on the severity of either.

I've had Covid 3 times. The first 2 times (only tested because it was 2020 and work made me), I've had far worse hangovers. The 3rd time was awful.

Equally I've had mild colds and very heavy ones 🤷‍♂️

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 22/08/2025 13:09

At this point for most people covid is just like the whole range of other virsuses out there - the flu - the many cold causing ones - and the other Corona viruses

I seen speculation that some prior flu pandemics may have been now circulating conorna vrisues -The enigma of the 1889 Russian flu pandemic: A coronavirus?

There is a vaccine for this one virus available to vunerable people - and there is again more interest in post viral sypoms and effects.

Our family scattered and it is diffciult when accomodation and transport need to be booked in advance and then someone gets a bad cold - but round old people and young kids I think it's only polite it's mentioned prior to turning up.

I've been ill with covid, ill with flu, ill with nuro been ill with norovirus twice - that was really nasty - had colds be mild to some family members and put others in hopsital.

I don't know anyone who is testing for covid - so I don't believe most of the population really knows what virsus is causing their symptoms.

Rumors1 · 22/08/2025 13:04

https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2022/01/it-flu-covid-19-allergies-or-cold

The virus that causes cold and covid are not the same and the symptoms of a cold are generally mild whereas with covid can be very severe.

The link above has a chart of symptoms near then end of the article and the symptoms of covid are more similar to flu than a cold.

My bout of covid triggered my auto immune disease whereas a cold never had that effect on me. Id choose a cold all day long but not sure about covid v flu.

Is It Flu, COVID-19, Allergies, or a Cold?

Feeling sick? Learn the difference between COVID-19, allergies, and other viruses.

https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2022/01/it-flu-covid-19-allergies-or-cold

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