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BananaCaramel · 20/08/2025 18:48

And questions you have been asked recently?

DH has been looking for a better job for a while and not having much luck - tomorrow he has an interview for a job he really really wants and he is nervous because he doesn’t think he’s very good at interviews.

Shameless post for traffic - we are prepping this evening! 😬

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landlordhell · 22/08/2025 15:08

Wrong thread! 😂😂😂😂

landlordhell · 22/08/2025 13:51

Also never spray perfume on the front of your neck. It contains alcohol which is drying.

TheTeasmaid · 21/08/2025 21:51

BananaCaramel · 21/08/2025 18:24

He got the job 🥳🥳

I’m so pleased for him he’s been looking for ages…and pleased for me that we’re going to be up £400/month!

congrats

Hedonism · 21/08/2025 21:17

Yay, well done Mr BC. Great prepping 🥳

LastKnownSurvivor · 21/08/2025 19:13

Well done, OP's DH🍾

Largeherbivore · 21/08/2025 18:26

Congratulations Husband

AnnieAverage · 21/08/2025 18:26

If you went through an agency check they have your up to date CV! I had an agent once who would edit my cv unhelpfully before sending it out. Caused me all sorts of aggro.

BananaCaramel · 21/08/2025 18:24

He got the job 🥳🥳

I’m so pleased for him he’s been looking for ages…and pleased for me that we’re going to be up £400/month!

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TheTeasmaid · 20/08/2025 22:39

thesandwich · 20/08/2025 21:21

Use ChatGPT. Drop the job description into it and ask it for a set of interview questions and answers.

but ask it to generate them 3/4 times so its not a direct copy or generation

thesandwich · 20/08/2025 21:21

Use ChatGPT. Drop the job description into it and ask it for a set of interview questions and answers.

TheTeasmaid · 20/08/2025 21:08

ShowMeTheSushi · 20/08/2025 20:20

Listen – Don’t rush your response. Pause if needed to think before speaking.

Stay concise – Keep answers focused and avoid rambling.

Use STAR examples – Prepare a few (Situation, Task, Action, Result) to clearly show your skills.

Don’t exaggerate - I recently interviewed someone who lied about their technical ability. I’d much rather hire someone honest who shows a genuine willingness to learn.

Ask questions – End with 1–2 questions about the role or ask why the interviewer enjoys working there. Good luck!

thats my reasoning on the skills part. i am always honest about my skills because if they say eg heres a one time code pad prove your skills etc

TheTeasmaid · 20/08/2025 21:07

for me dont oversell your skills. always offer to help but never claim you can do x easy etc
be a team player eg when they say your asked to help in x team even though your role is with b team etc

CC222 · 20/08/2025 20:27

Read up on the company and have some questions written down, and refer to that list in your notebook if you get stuck.
A good question I always finish on that I always get good feedback for is: ‘What is your ideal candidate for the role?’ And when they answer, relay back to them with why you are that person by addressing specific points they say and giving examples back. It ends the interview with you confirming why you are exactly what they’re looking for.

ShowMeTheSushi · 20/08/2025 20:20

Listen – Don’t rush your response. Pause if needed to think before speaking.

Stay concise – Keep answers focused and avoid rambling.

Use STAR examples – Prepare a few (Situation, Task, Action, Result) to clearly show your skills.

Don’t exaggerate - I recently interviewed someone who lied about their technical ability. I’d much rather hire someone honest who shows a genuine willingness to learn.

Ask questions – End with 1–2 questions about the role or ask why the interviewer enjoys working there. Good luck!

GRCP · 20/08/2025 20:20

Be positive. No slagging his last job for example

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 20/08/2025 20:14

Be nice and polite to everyone - you'd be amazed how many people aren't.
Smile!

Jamfirstest · 20/08/2025 20:13

i worked in recruitment for a while in a few industries. I always recommend giving answers which have a situation a behaviour and an outcome. So what happened then what you did and then what happened as a result of your actions. It’s call SBO - situation behaviour outcome.

MumOfManyAliases · 20/08/2025 20:08

I know it sounds crazy, but I have interviewed people who blatantly hadn’t even bothered to read the job description. So make sure you read up on the role and also the organisation. It’s easy to tell which candidates have and haven’t done this.

FortheloveofCheesus · 20/08/2025 20:06

Oh and be interested/curious. Ask about the role, the team & structure, their priorities. Remember you are there to decide if you would want to work there too - I've turned down offers because the interviewer was a creep/weird/unfriendly/overtly hierarchical

5128gap · 20/08/2025 20:05

He needs to narrow down what about interviews he isn't good at. Is he getting asked questions he doesn't understand? Does he have insufficient knowledge to answer or experience to talk about? Does he struggle to verbalise what he wants to say? Mind go blank, then kick himself afterwards? When he's identified his weakness he can work on that specifically.

Sprig1 · 20/08/2025 20:05

Look at the interviewer(s) when you are talking to them. Don't be afraid to big yourself up, that's literally what the interview is for.

FortheloveofCheesus · 20/08/2025 20:03

Its ok to be energetic and confident.

Don't focus too much on content/technical info. At interview they've already seen your CV and assessed that your experience and expertise are enough. The interview is about:

  • your communication style - can you be selective to deliver the right information in the right way to a particular audience
  • your listening skills - really think about what you are asked, pause if you need to before answering, interpret what they are getting at
  • your values and what you choose to emphasise
  • are you going to rub along with the person hiring & the rest of the team.

Generally speaking someone reasonably calm, assured and relaxed is more likely to be hired than someone who rushes, is nervy, or flusters/panics. In my experience people who are warm, smiling and open in body language do well.

Remember they have chosen to invite you for interview, the odds are in your favour when you walk in in that you've already met the criteria.

Devonmaid1844 · 20/08/2025 20:02

Oh sorry one other... When they ask 'do you have any questions' I always ask as my first question 'are there any areas I haven't been able to cover with my examples so far?' Normally they say no, but once someone called out a weakness in an answer per their criteria so I offered another example

Devonmaid1844 · 20/08/2025 20:00

Some bits that always work for me:

  • write down the question, it gives you thinking time and if you get distracted when your talking you can glance down and get back on track
  • before the interview think of what you'd do in the first 30, 60 and 90 days in the role, it helps you come across well as even if you don't mention it directly it helps shape some good questions
  • spend 5 minutes before the interview in the wonder woman pose listening to amped up music... There's a bunch of psychology behind it that it helps you feel more confident
  • if you've not got one good answer, give two answers that show different sides of the question e.g. tell me when you've lead a team to deliver a complex project... Can be broken into 'here's a complex problem I solved' and 'here's when I lead a project team to deliver anything at all'. Sometimes people get flustered if they can't match everything perfectly, but as a hiring manager most care that the person could do the job, not that they do that exact job right now
landlordhell · 20/08/2025 19:58

Ilikegreen · 20/08/2025 19:54

  1. Shake hands in and out of the room with everyone,
  2. Thank each person for their tome when shaking hands and leaving.
  3. As other posters said, always talk about YOU. Its hard but it has to be ‘I did this, I did that’
  4. Tell them as they wrap up the interview - right before thanking everyone- why he would like the job, why he thinks it’d be a great fit. Show energy, enthusiasm and want. I hire the most enthusiastic, not the best talker.
  5. Be early, but not too early. 15 minutes coming in the door.
  6. Don’t go into the room before a lady interviewer, hold the door - or at least offer
  7. Make polite small talk with reception - one or two sentences - and thank them in and out too
  8. If he gets nervous, have a drink of water - bring a water bottle in case none offered
  9. If he realises he could have answered something better, consider saying ‘actually in relation to that last wuestion, i should also have mentioned x, y and z
  10. Do not assume you know who the hiring person in the room is, looks can be deceiving

Ultimately I want to work with people I like, good energy, polite and nice to be around. Very best of luck.

Agree. My young adult DD had two interviews recently and I’d prepared her in the same way. She got offered both jobs .