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AIBU to think that racism is getting a lot worse of late.

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AliceMaforethought · 20/08/2025 18:13

Just read this awful story in the Guardian. Awful and makes me feel so angry and so unsafe as a half Black woman.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters

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LakieLady · 21/08/2025 16:10

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/08/2025 12:18

@MiloMinderbinder925 There will always be people who don't want foreigners in the country and who want Britain white.

I am old enough to recall Norman Tebbits "cricket test" of Britishness with the implication that anyone who supported any other team than England should be deported. I immediately started supporting the West Indies. Regrettably I am still stuck with British weather...

India toured the summer he said that.

Where I worked then, we used to have a day at the Oval test every year, and we were all supporting India!

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/08/2025 16:08

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:39

Do you have a source for this.

OBR Fiscal Risks and Sustainability Report, Sept 24

Chickenbone123 · 21/08/2025 16:00

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:53

We're going around in circles because we fundamentally disagree about why people are talking about foreigners. Certain sections of society, backed up by right wing press are stirring up hate and division and scapegoating foreigners.

You're saying that that means I have my head in the sand and can't see the problem with foreigners. I'm saying you've got your head in the sand and can't see when you're being manipulated.

You think for example that the far right groups currently organising protests outside hotels and people draped in flags are just 'concerned citizens.' That the recent 'take Britain back' movement of tying flags to lampposts is 'pride in Britain' and Richard Tice is just passionate about his country.

No I get that. You think everyone who’s talking about immigration is far right. I’m saying that from what I am seeing that’s not the case.

I have no idea who Richard Tice is. As for flags and protests. These are related issues to immigration as a whole. You have to be a bit mad/ extreme to be doing this stuff so yes that’s not surprising to me.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:55

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:45

Yes, absolutely. But you can't ignore that the guardian also writes continually about it either!

The Guardian aren't writing racist articles that stereotype foreigners.

SatsumaDog · 21/08/2025 15:53

I agree. There has definitely been a shift and although I think racism has always been there, people don’t seem to be ashamed of voicing their racist views now. I do feel nervous for the future and worry that it’s going to get worse before it gets better.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:53

Chickenbone123 · 21/08/2025 15:38

As I said before. Yes people obviously are talking about those things. You are right.

They are also talking about immigration.

I dont need to defence anything. I am telling you topics that people are talking about across all spectrum of our country and theres nothing to defend. It is what it is. You can stick your head in the sand all you like. It’s not going away. It’s progressively getting worse.

And you just dismissing what people are saying is not helpful. That was my initial point of posting. That if people can not have reasoned discussion then this will not be resolved.

We're going around in circles because we fundamentally disagree about why people are talking about foreigners. Certain sections of society, backed up by right wing press are stirring up hate and division and scapegoating foreigners.

You're saying that that means I have my head in the sand and can't see the problem with foreigners. I'm saying you've got your head in the sand and can't see when you're being manipulated.

You think for example that the far right groups currently organising protests outside hotels and people draped in flags are just 'concerned citizens.' That the recent 'take Britain back' movement of tying flags to lampposts is 'pride in Britain' and Richard Tice is just passionate about his country.

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:45

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:41

The Guardian? The Telegraph might as well rename itself "Illegals!", The Daily Heil, The Express, The Sun, Farage, Jenrick, Badenoch, Robinson and social media, are constantly stirring this up.

Yes, absolutely. But you can't ignore that the guardian also writes continually about it either!

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:43

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 21/08/2025 15:37

And the daily heil .. leaving comments sections for contentious issues on race and immigration but closed to other important issues within the Uk

Yes, very true.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:41

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:33

As it's continually pointed out on these threads, the media has a lot to answer for. You can't get away from it. How many days in a row can the guardian publish headline news on immigration? And then pages and pages of comments. It's depressing.

The Guardian? The Telegraph might as well rename itself "Illegals!", The Daily Heil, The Express, The Sun, Farage, Jenrick, Badenoch, Robinson and social media, are constantly stirring this up.

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:39

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/08/2025 15:32

The £500k net cost to the taxpayer is an OBR figure for a low-skilled migrant living to 80 years old. £151k net cost when they reach state pension age. OBR assumes they earn half the average wage.

Average British-born worker is a £280k net contributor by retirement. So presumably also a net cost if living to 80 years old?

Do you have a source for this.

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:38

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/08/2025 15:38

Who knows? Look it up. I was responding on where the £500k figure comes from because its quite regularly touted around

You have a link then?

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:38

Livelovebehappy · 21/08/2025 15:27

I think it's important to differentiate between those who dislike and are hostile to those already living in the UK (racism) vs those who are concerned about uncontrolled and excessive immigration which is currently impacting our infrastructure. Entirely different, yet people seem to be determined to lump both under the 'racist' label.

The opening post is referring to clear racism.

Chickenbone123 · 21/08/2025 15:38

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 14:54

That's a shame because I believe what I wrote was very clear. You said that everyone you know and the majority of the population talk about nothing but immigration and blame everything wrong in the country on foreigners. I offered alternative explanations for some of the issues you raised and you're accusing me of 'bleating on about immigrants'.

This is the "I'm not you are" defence.

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As I said before. Yes people obviously are talking about those things. You are right.

They are also talking about immigration.

I dont need to defence anything. I am telling you topics that people are talking about across all spectrum of our country and theres nothing to defend. It is what it is. You can stick your head in the sand all you like. It’s not going away. It’s progressively getting worse.

And you just dismissing what people are saying is not helpful. That was my initial point of posting. That if people can not have reasoned discussion then this will not be resolved.

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/08/2025 15:38

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:36

What about migrants who are not in the low skilled category?

Who knows? Look it up. I was responding on where the £500k figure comes from because its quite regularly touted around

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 21/08/2025 15:37

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:33

As it's continually pointed out on these threads, the media has a lot to answer for. You can't get away from it. How many days in a row can the guardian publish headline news on immigration? And then pages and pages of comments. It's depressing.

And the daily heil .. leaving comments sections for contentious issues on race and immigration but closed to other important issues within the Uk

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:36

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/08/2025 15:32

The £500k net cost to the taxpayer is an OBR figure for a low-skilled migrant living to 80 years old. £151k net cost when they reach state pension age. OBR assumes they earn half the average wage.

Average British-born worker is a £280k net contributor by retirement. So presumably also a net cost if living to 80 years old?

What about migrants who are not in the low skilled category?

nomas · 21/08/2025 15:35

Livelovebehappy · 21/08/2025 15:27

I think it's important to differentiate between those who dislike and are hostile to those already living in the UK (racism) vs those who are concerned about uncontrolled and excessive immigration which is currently impacting our infrastructure. Entirely different, yet people seem to be determined to lump both under the 'racist' label.

There is nothing in the article in the OP that would justify a concern about excessive immigration though.

It’s pure racism and it’s important to call it out.

That the victim of racism was dropped from his management based on hearsay is terrifying. Do you acknowledge that?

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:33

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:26

The poster is saying that the majority of the population and everyone they know is talking about it. It's certainly been whipped up into a hot topic by some.

As it's continually pointed out on these threads, the media has a lot to answer for. You can't get away from it. How many days in a row can the guardian publish headline news on immigration? And then pages and pages of comments. It's depressing.

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 21/08/2025 15:33

thepariscrimefiles · 21/08/2025 15:17

In the 1970s, 80s and 90s the racism was overt and a badge of honour for the people espousing those views. The BNP and Combat 18 prided themselves on being racists and neo-Nazis. There was no ambiguity or plausible denialism with 'There Ain't No Black in the Union Jack'.

Now, it's all covert, 'I'm not racist but ....', 'are you thinking what I'm thinking'.

Thanks you've validated what I've said through out these threads.
The NF ,BNP,C18, Blood and Honour were minority groups back in the day but now their ideology reaches a wider audience.

Ablondiebutagoody · 21/08/2025 15:32

The £500k net cost to the taxpayer is an OBR figure for a low-skilled migrant living to 80 years old. £151k net cost when they reach state pension age. OBR assumes they earn half the average wage.

Average British-born worker is a £280k net contributor by retirement. So presumably also a net cost if living to 80 years old?

Livelovebehappy · 21/08/2025 15:27

Linsco · 21/08/2025 15:02

I totally agree with you, people are less tolerant of anyone who is different from them. Its absolutely disgusting and frightens me. I've noticed a lot of talk/accusations online with zero evidence, must be the 'Trump' affect.

I think it's important to differentiate between those who dislike and are hostile to those already living in the UK (racism) vs those who are concerned about uncontrolled and excessive immigration which is currently impacting our infrastructure. Entirely different, yet people seem to be determined to lump both under the 'racist' label.

Hagr1d · 21/08/2025 15:27

LakieLady · 20/08/2025 19:01

I'd like to know what magical sixth sense these people have that enables them ti know instinctively that someone with brown skin is here illegally.

A colleague of Afro-Caribbean heritage was told to "fuck off back to her own country" not long ago.

She's third generation British, and has never been south of the Med.

I've experienced this. Third generation British Asian. Been told to "fuck off back to Muslim land" and asked, "do you speak islam?"

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:26

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:23

In fairness, we are all on here talking about it! I don't think anyone is talking about 'nothing else', we'd cease to function if that were the case, but it'd be daft to suggest it's not a hot topic 🤷

The poster is saying that the majority of the population and everyone they know is talking about it. It's certainly been whipped up into a hot topic by some.

thepariscrimefiles · 21/08/2025 15:24

SpottyCheeseEater · 21/08/2025 14:50

Then do it the legal way, like I did!

What sort of visa did you apply for? A student visa, a work visa, a spousal visa? You say that your DH is British. Did he sponsor you to come to the UK? If so, that is hardly an option for asylum seekers from war torn or repressive regimes like Afghanistan.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:23

thepariscrimefiles · 21/08/2025 15:17

In the 1970s, 80s and 90s the racism was overt and a badge of honour for the people espousing those views. The BNP and Combat 18 prided themselves on being racists and neo-Nazis. There was no ambiguity or plausible denialism with 'There Ain't No Black in the Union Jack'.

Now, it's all covert, 'I'm not racist but ....', 'are you thinking what I'm thinking'.

Hate crime and equality laws as well as people potentially losing their jobs over social media posts may have something to do with that.